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nothingelsematters1983
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5 Posts
2/09
Posted - Feb 21 2009 : 09:55:41 PM
Hi everyone!

My wife and I have been enjoying watching "mainstream" porn together for a while now. She enjoys being tied up and watching a girl tied up and getting fucked really turns her on. We've both tried to locate some decent DVDs that feature light bondage/forced sex with the emphasis on sex, but it seems that there's nothing "in the middle". In other words, it's either no bondage at all, or 100% BDSM spanking/whipping/chains/dungeons/leather outfits/torture/etc, which neither of us have an interest in.

Can anyone suggest some films that match what we're looking for? Thanks!

-nothingelsematters

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Aplus
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5/05
Posted - Feb 22 2009 : 12:42:36 AM
Very tough to find bondage and actual sex films, I agree. I believe director Ernest Greene is your man though. I think director Paul Thomas may have dabbled a little bit with that too. Ernest specialty is BDSM, but he also shoots sex scenes. He'd be my first choice.
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T0MBOne
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5/08
Posted - Feb 22 2009 : 10:59:40 AM
The first movie that I reviewed for ADT was this horror porn thing called The Taunting, which I found to be light on the bondage stuff. (and scares) It might be up your alley so read the reviews for the film (click on iafd.com) and decide whether it's worth getting---T0M
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nothingelsematters1983
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2/09
Posted - Feb 23 2009 : 02:16:45 PM
Thanks for the lead on Ernest Greene. After a few minutes of research I noticed that he directed the movie O: The power of Submission which is one of the titles that I've been leaning towards. It looks like there are quite a few more that he directed, I guess I've got some reading to do :)

Keep the suggestions coming!

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customer20983
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86 Posts
2/08
Posted - Feb 23 2009 : 02:27:08 PM


nothingelsematters1983 wrote:
Hi everyone!

My wife and I have been enjoying watching "mainstream" porn together for a while now. She enjoys being tied up and watching a girl tied up and getting fucked really turns her on. We've both tried to locate some decent DVDs that feature light bondage/forced sex with the emphasis on sex, but it seems that there's nothing "in the middle". In other words, it's either no bondage at all, or 100% BDSM spanking/whipping/chains/dungeons/leather outfits/torture/etc, which neither of us have an interest in.

Can anyone suggest some films that match what we're looking for? Thanks!

-nothingelsematters


Sorry but more than likley you will not find anything from the producers right now as "light bondage/forced sex" = rape and after the Paul Little (aka Max Hardcore) obscenity conviction there is no one releasing that type of content on DVD right now. Even the download content is getting less and less intense for fear of prosecution now.

Ssx Z pictures recently decided to kill the hard edge (fisting) DIRECTOR version of their massive selling Upload film for that same fear of obscenity prosecutions agisnt them. When I inquired when they would be reissing or reselling the Director Cut again in the future they responded "No it will never be as it is illegal to sell in the USA". CONSENTUAL Fisting illegal? Not that I have heard. But go figure. This intentional self censorship has made the DIRECTOR version the REAL collector version as I have been hearing an unopened DIRECTOR copy can fetch as high as US$200 in the resales market now since Sex Z has said it will not be reissued in the future.

Even the great Pater A of kink.com who was going to release some of his sex focused light bondage content thta would have been in line with what you are seeking such as hogtied.com and "sex and submission" website content has specifically pulled back because of the fear of obscenity prosecutions being brought against the company.

No one is releasing content where the people involved are held agsint their will and actual penetration is shown. EIther you get no bondage or the person removed from bondage BEFORe the sex happens such as in Greene's MISnamed story of O series released by Adam & Eve OR you get heavy bondage with NO penetration shown. There is no intergration of the two elements right now from the USA producers.

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customer20983
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2/08
Posted - Feb 23 2009 : 02:32:01 PM


nothingelsematters1983 wrote:
Thanks for the lead on Ernest Greene. After a few minutes of research I noticed that he directed the movie O: The power of Submission which is one of the titles that I've been leaning towards. It looks like there are quite a few more that he directed, I guess I've got some reading to do :)

Keep the suggestions coming!


There is NO sex while in people are in bondage shown in either

"O: The power of submission"

"O: The Surrender of O" also called O2

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nothingelsematters1983
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2/09
Posted - Feb 23 2009 : 08:08:26 PM
Thanks for mentioning that, I did not realize that and would have been disappointed! I've been checking out the sex and submission website and it looks pretty good, too bad they don't have a DVD. I guess I'll be getting the laptop out later... :D
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killbillvol69
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Posted - Feb 23 2009 : 10:44:36 PM
^Hey if you like the Sex and Submission site, and you don't think it's too "hardcore" BDSM for you, there are two other similar sites that you may want to check out (I didn't mention them before because I thought that Sex and Submission might be too BDSM-y for you, but if you like it you'll probably like these as well):

Fucking Dungeon

The three sites are the same idea; there may be differences in which male performers are commonly used, so you should just check out all three sites and see which ones have the scenes which turn you and your wife on the most. The other decision factor will likely be the membership plans - which one you like the most, which one comes with other sites that you enjoy, etc.

Good luck!

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BlackSix
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Posted - Feb 24 2009 : 03:24:17 AM
There's some BDSM in Fetish Fuck Dolls by Jake Malone and the Bobbi Star/Claire Adams scene in Live in My Secrets by Kimberly Kane.
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customer20983
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86 Posts
2/08
Posted - Feb 24 2009 : 07:35:45 AM


BlackSix wrote:
There's some BDSM in Fetish Fuck Dolls by Jake Malone
UGH what a TERRIBLE BDSM film series if it really tried to be a BDSM film series. I think it wasn't myself. Then again it is better than those Teravision disasters of "Kink" or worse her "Domination" films that Tera tries to push down the throats of the BDSM film consumers.... I hear she is planning a third release in this vien [shudders]

Skye Blue's Gothic Media continual crap releases are better than those things and I am getting pretty close to the absolute center of the Earth, forget the bottom of the barrel, with Gothic Media for the BDSM interested....

But more on topic again there is no one who is in bondage while the sex is going on in the Fetish Fuck Dolls films.


and the Bobbi Star/Claire Adams scene in Live in My Secrets by Kimberly Kane.

Very cinematic but not overtly powerful in its BDSM aspect. The film structure reminded me of the old psycho edge series "Twin Peaks" but not really a BDSM specific film.

But again if the focus is sex while in bondage without devolving into a wiggle film or a story based murder mystery or exploitation film, this misses the mark.

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nothingelsematters1983
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Posted - Feb 24 2009 : 02:25:38 PM
Introduced her to sex and submission last night and uh, yeah, didn't go too well. I should have gone though and hand-picked a few of the previews, which was my mistake not doing that, the ones we watched were heave enough on the BDSM side to turn her totally off.

So, I'm still looking.

This "gap" in the porn industry is thoroughly confusing to me. I always hear that many women's #1 fantasy is to be tied up and fucked, and it seems to me that plenty of guys out there would enjoy it too, without going all the way into BDSM. Makes me want to become a director or something :D

Am I totally off? Are we the only two people looking for this kind of stuff?

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customer20983
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Posted - Feb 24 2009 : 03:26:25 PM


nothingelsematters1983 wrote:
Introduced her to sex and submission last night and uh, yeah, didn't go too well. I should have gone though and hand-picked a few of the previews, which was my mistake not doing that, the ones we watched were heave enough on the BDSM side to turn her totally off.

So, I'm still looking.

This "gap" in the porn industry is thoroughly confusing to me. I always hear that many women's #1 fantasy is to be tied up and fucked, and it seems to me that plenty of guys out there would enjoy it too, without going all the way into BDSM. Makes me want to become a director or something :D

Am I totally off? Are we the only two people looking for this kind of stuff?


No there are LOT of people who are exploring bondage and not appreciative to the hard edge and are only looking to it as a foreplay element or a VERY VERY light content.

And there are a LOT of so called SOFT bondage productions where the submissive usually the women in a b/g scene WILLINGLY surrenders to her partner and the edge is not shown anywhere near the power levels that high end BDSM consumers would be interested in.

In most of those "love bondage" production (gotta love HOM for that phrase, as it used to drive some of us up the wall! but that is a seperate discussion) the bondage is usually restricted to a VERY light restictions while the submissive is being quote unquote forced into submission such as tying her down with scarves or hankerchiefs or softly tickled or has strawberries slowly stroked against her breast or belly skin before being eaten while being blindfolded.

The blindfold is the trust aspect which in harder BDSM scene is the "proof aspect" of surrender to the controlling partner where in the harder production is the willingness to endure pain as proof of the trust relationship. You will HURT (cause pain to inspire my natural pain killers to push me in blank out state hopefully) but never HARM (cause me long lasting damage such as ripped muscles or broken bones) me.

But because the bondage in "love bondage" productions are not obvious or clearly controlling the sub, these products are NOT considered bondage and even more niche than the harder bondage productions.

Maybe she would be interested in some soft hold down bondage where the aspect is so called "forcing" the submissive partner to endure the sexual attention of the controlling partner.

One such series is from Girlfriend videos entitled "Lesbian Seductions - Older/Younger". This series may be more in line with what your partner is looking for in her "bondage experieince as it is clearly intended for the couple market fails for the straight sex market as there are NO men and NO men representative usually i.e, NO dildo and focuses on more real world lesbianism where the women spend almost all the time kissing and licking and NOT just to get to the vagina as penetration is not the only focus. Of course that turns off a lot of casual consumers as there is no desire to get to penetration. Episode 11 in particular may be in line with her idea as stated here with a stalking cougar whose does NOT accept no for any reason

http://www.lezlovevideo.com/product_details/default.asp?ProductGroupID=9E85733C2C94418E8D07FE9686D36E59

Most of these films have the older seduce in several of those films the younger female by being aggressively dominating in their attempt such as holding down the hands of the younger even when the younger clearly says stop.

But again there is no specific bondage per se other than usually the older more desiring partner holding down the hands of the younger partner while she says no usually all the while getting tongued by the elder lesbian and returning said long tongue kisses. Again because there is no specific bondage -- no tie-downs -- no obvious restriction there films are NOT considered bondage films though some of the more traditional call them "forced seduction" films. Yes there are some that classify these films as Ra___ films because the targets are shown to be tricked, intimidated or bribed into fulfilling their dominator's demands. But it clearly shown as FANTASY films and the ladies are all actors playing a role in these scripted fantasy films.

And again there are a lot of segments where the dildo is completely abandoned. So if you MUSt have the male sexual penetration even by proxy of a dildo, most episodes of this series are NOT going to satisfy your desires.

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nothingelsematters1983
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Posted - Feb 24 2009 : 08:41:57 PM
I appreciate your well-thought-out post.

I think you're right on the mark with the "soft bondage/rape fantasy" type of film, we're looking for something along those lines but with both men and women. She's fine with girl/girl shoots but doesn't prefer it. I'm going to see what I can come up with by using the terms "love bondage" and "soft bondage". The hunt continues :D

-Doc

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