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Mrs MLyons
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Posted - Nov 23 2003 : 04:58:00 PM
My wonderful husband, Mike, and I went to Vegas this week on part of our vacation. We wanted to go to the Favorite Brands International Marshmallow Factory, but as it turns out the factory has been closed. So to make up for missing what was once a cool tour, we decided to go to a strip club. Neither my husband or I had been to a strip club before; I had been intrigued about it, but also very confused about how it all worked, and why people would spend so much money there. I had always wondered, from what I have seen in movies or on TV, what people see in this form of entertainment? Realizing that I was ignorant, having never experienced it myself, I thought it was very impersonal and that those who went there were pulling the wool over their eyes, actively deceiving themselves into thinking that these girls are attracted to them, and not just doing their jobs. We walked into the building, (Cheetah’s at around 12:30-4:30 on Friday 11-21-03) and what hit me first was the utter darkness. I work in theatre, so I know all about working in the dark, but this was dark. After a few seconds we could barely see a couple chairs off to the side, so we went and had a seat. As our eyes began to adjust a frickin’ hot cocktail waitress came by to get our drink order, she was in a nice low waisted bikini, barely covering the good bits, with long messy blond hair, she was very pretty and very nice. We ordered our two cokes ($7) asked her for some change in the form of one-dollar bills, and sat back and watched. Now we are intelligent people, so we were watching the girls dance from the side of the room, there was one man sitting at the stage, so the two of us put our mind to what we were seeing, and discussed what we thought of what we were seeing. Watching this man sitting there stiff backed, watching one girl after another come up to do her two dances (the first in a bikini, or clothed top and bottom of some sort, and the second with her top off) with a seemingly endless supply of folded dollar bills. The girls would do their dances them crawl over to him, dangle their breasts over his face, or draping their legs around his head and gyrating their crotch oh so close to his mouth. Then removing themselves from his body, rolling onto their side and lifting up the strap of her g-string so that he could place his nicely folded dollar bill on her thigh. Every once and a while another guy would walk up to the girl at the stage, so she would crawl over to him and place his face in her cleavage, then offer her strap for the dollar, he would gently place it then walk away, back to the bar or whatever part of the darkness he had come from. At one point I looked at Mike and noticed right behind him was a guy getting a lap dance. The girl, who we had watched dance a few minutes before and was very attractive to Mike, had her back to the guy and was gyrating her hips just above his Hun-Hun, and the guy was watching her hips move with a very big smile on his face, however the girl had a very disinterested look on her face. This was intriguing to me. And I jumped all over it with questions for Mike. “Seeing that she is bored or disconnected, does that make you less aroused? What do you think seeing them interacting with the other guys?” I couldn’t see why men would come here and spend hundreds of dollars, clearly the women weren’t attracted to the men they were paying attention to, so what was the excitement? Now watching all this for about a half an hour or longer I must have driven my husband crazy asking him questions about the girls wardrobe, asking him if it was turning him on, giggling at the looks of boredom on the girls faces as she swept her breasts on these guys faces. We decided that the side view wasn’t the best so we asked our cocktail waitress where her section stopped and moved more front and center so that we could get a better look. For me this was more of the same. It seemed a few girls were strictly dancers, who didn’t touch the men at all, where some girls were strictly there to get the guys to give them their tips, there were a few who were a mixture of each. The girls in general seemed to be getting more into it, or were better later in the day, of course there were some exceptions, one girl just walked back and forth (I don’t think she could dance) between the poles then get down on her hands an knees and rub the men’s faces with her breasts, or show them her crotch. Mike thought she had a great body, so he didn’t see anything wrong with her performance. Now don’t misunderstand me, many of these girls really did it for me, they were very sexy and a few even turned me on a bit (I am bi-curious). I looked around the room a lot to see how the other men were enjoying themselves, and I found many overweight, unattractive men with girls curled up in their laps, which is what I expected to find. But to my surprise there was a few VERY attractive young men sitting at the stage, and around the room. I am sure ruining Mike’s time I pointed this out and we discussed that there had to be something to it, or these men who could clearly get a girl if they wanted to wouldn’t be here at all. It would just be left to the men unfortunate enough not to be attractive to the general population of women. We had to have watched for a couple hours from this point of view, Mike looked at me (always concerned about my feelings) and asked if we should go up to the stage and experience it from there. We split up the ones we had left over from the few rounds of drinks we purchased, and moved to the front and center part of the stage. I offered for Mike to go on his own, thinking that the girls would be more responsive if his wife wasn’t sitting next to him. He refused, saying that if he were going to experience it, he would only do so if I were sitting next to him. So the two of us moved up on a switch between girls. The first girl was very pretty, and very sweet. She crawled over to us and immediatly said “Hi guys.” Not realizing that I was female. Now I had my hair down, which is pretty long, and I have very large breasts, but to her defence I was wearing a large flannel shirt. All the girls seemed a little surprised to see me, and I think they just naturally assume that everyone sitting at the stage would be a man. Anyway she was frickin’ hot. She gave me a lot of attention, asked me to sit forward, placed her hands on my shoulders and slowly swept her breasts across my face. Now let me tell you, as a girl I have no concept of myself, as other people perceive me, or feel me. I have no concept that I am any different, texture wise, feeling than my husband. Having said this let me tell you my first reaction to the breast on my face. GIRLS ARE SOFT!!! Boy howdy that really did it for me. She was really soft, gentle, sweet, and she had some scent on that drove me wild. She paid my ear a little attention, which always drives me crazy, then she offered me her strap, where I fumbled for a dollar bill and barely got it in the strap, she had me so flustered. She then asked me if she could do the same to Mike, and I stammered yes, of course. And she moved on to him. I of course realize that I just described the exact circumstance that I was giggling at a few paragraphs up. So I was instantly transformed into a strip club junkie, and could understand why all those men were sitting in that room giving the beautiful girls their one-dollar bills. After she had worked the dollar bill from my husbands clutches (I notice it wasn’t that hard for her to get it out of his grip, maybe I should try some of her techniques :P) and had moved along to the next man down I leaned over to Mike and said, with a little ah in my voice, “Girls are soft and smell good!” He smiled at me and laughed saying, “Now you understand what I mean when I say you are soft.” I love that man!! I realized during the time we were at the stage, and my stiff-backed reaction to the girls touching me that it was all out of respect. The men were respectful of the girls, as was I, and there desire not to be touched. Each girl crawled up to me did some nice moving then told me how to sit, “Lean forward,” or “Put your head down.” They told us what they wanted us to do, and we did it, keeping our hands to ourselves. We watched at least a dozen girls from that point of view, (A girl named Shy bit the back of my neck. DAMN!!! Another named Bailey, I think, she was really sexy) and were both very sad when we realized that we were out of money. We had given each girl at least $4 between us, and had had a wonderful time. We were sad when the girl that we moved away from the stage came up, because she was hot, but we had a budget and we needed to leave to go see the family show The Tournament of Kings at the Excalibur hotel. So we watched from the dark, and both wished that we could have had her rub her breasts on us, but we didn’t want to be rude due to our lack of money. We reluctantly left the club and both of us could think of nothing but what we had just experienced. I am sure we shocked many a person with our conversation on our walk to our show, and tried to be respectful of the children around us once we got there. The next day we left Vegas and as we passed by the club (seen from the freeway) I know I was thinking of pulling off, and I think Mike was probably with me. I don’t know if I answered any of the questions, that I walked into the club with, but I do know that I will be going again as soon as we get the chance to drive through Vegas. Mrs. MLyons Topic Moved by - saki on Nov 24 2003
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Mrs MLyons wrote:
DAMN!!! Another named Bailey, I think, she was really sexy) and were both very sad when we realized that we were out of money. We had given each girl at least $4 between us, and had had a wonderful time. We were sad when the girl that we moved away from the stage came up, because she was hot, but we had a budget

That's why the clubs typically have ATM's in them. Most men (well, maybe not most, but a awful lot of men) would have seen the girl getting on stage and said to themself "Just one more dancer" and hit the ATM. It's kinda like reading a great book, finishing a chapter with a cliffhanger ending and saying "Just one more chapter" even though it's already 2AM and you have to go to work the next morning.

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EagleSpirit
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Posted - Nov 23 2003 : 05:29:00 PM
Does anybody know the name of the strip club in Vegas that is supposed to have 4000, yes four thousand dancers?
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Mrs MLyons
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Posted - Nov 23 2003 : 06:51:00 PM
Cheetah's advertises that they have 500 girls working in every 24 hours period.
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DenverDon
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Posted - Nov 23 2003 : 07:59:00 PM

Mrs MLyons wrote:
We wanted to go to the Favorite Brands International Marshmallow Factory, but as it turns out the factory has been closed. So to make up for missing what was once a cool tour, we decided to go to a strip club.

I apologize, but your opening paragraph with the statement above had me laughing. That was quite a substitute for the 'Marshmallow Factory'.

I have gone to quite a few strip clubs, in quite a few cities, and for the most part have enjoyed most of them.

Hmmm ... women are soft?? Damn rights they are and I'll back Mike up on that one. Glad you learned it.

I've even gone a couple of times with my sister to a strip club, once in Dallas and one in SLC. (She enjoys them too.) We sat right up at the dance floor and the girls never balked because there was another lady there. In fact I would say that they seemed to enjoy coming over to us more because it was a man and a woman sitting there. (I will add though, that the fact that both of us were enjoying the show made a difference. I have seen a few couples sitting where the lady was definitely 'uninterested' and put out that she was sitting at the stage and the girls could sense that.)

Glad you enjoyed it and had a good time, and glad you made the post of your experience.

DenverDon

Edited by - DenverDon on 11/23/2003 8:00:34 PM

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Mrs MLyons
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Posted - Nov 23 2003 : 08:46:00 PM
Yeah, Mike and I realized that I was getting a bit more attention then the men at the stage. I didn't mind, and neither did Mike, he got a good up close look at the girls while they were paying me attention.
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Posted - Nov 23 2003 : 08:47:00 PM
It's a shame you both didn't go for a lap dance. I think some of the girls especially love doing lap dances for other women.
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-Kelly-
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Posted - Nov 23 2003 : 08:53:00 PM
Hey, how's it going,

My simple response to this is as follows: I have never been to a strip club before. And it would probably take a Taylor St. Claire or Renee LaRue or someone like that featuring locally to get me to go. Nothing against it. I'm just not interested.


Kelly

Your experience does sound cool though.

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Posted - Nov 23 2003 : 09:15:00 PM

From Lily Burana's Strip City: A Stripper's Farewell Journey Across America :

We watch this woman, entranced. There is nothing in the club that could compete with what's happening onstage. A bomb could drop in the parking lot and no one would move a muscle...And here is the heart of striptease: You can analyze and deconstruct the act all you want-you will never totally demystify it. Nothing can fully explain why some people take to strip clubs-sometimes to the point of addiction, why some find the very idea offensive, and why others just don't get it and shrug.

What I like best about stripping is this, the arbitrariness. The mystery. The fact that you can't definitively state what makes one woman stand out from the next. That some tiny part of every dancer's soul spills out when she performs, whether she means it to or not. That you can see a woman totally nude before you, and there's still so much about her that you don't, and can't, know. And that you can never predict that singular instance, like right now, when the world falls away and the only thing that matters is the light falling on the stage and the dancer unfurling herself against the music the way a singer wraps her breath around a note.


That, in a few beautifully written paragraphs, is the essence of the strip club experience, at least for me.

I still get that little buzz every time I walk through the door of the club, and whether it's a Saturday night with a full house and a packed tiprail, or I'm sitting on the rail alone at 3:00 am, it's still magic. The best dancers can send that vibe straight to the back part of the brain, where conscious thought surrenders to the libido, and you just get swept away for a few minutes, awestruck.

You really do need to get a lapdance or two next time you go - most dancers I know love having women in the VIP room. And a great lapdance can run the gamut from a hardcore grind to heavy metal, to slow 'n sensual to R&B.

Glad you enjoyed it.

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Mrs MLyons
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Posted - Nov 23 2003 : 09:34:00 PM
This is a question that we forgot to ask. Cheetah's offered $10 lap dances in the main room and $20 lap dances in the VIP room. You could go in the VIP room for 30 minutes for $200 or an hour for $300, lap dances in the VIP room were $20. What goes on in there that you would stay in there for an hour? We are baffled? I don't think that the girls are taking the men back for sex???? Would you reveal your secrets?

Mrs.

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Posted - Nov 23 2003 : 10:43:00 PM
Honestly, not all that much.
It's a lot more grindy and touchy -- typically, you get to suck on some nipple and have your cock stroked a little through your pants. Sometimes, a girl will tease you by sliding her pussy against your face or slipping you a little bit of tongue. It's the allure of something more illicit that makes it exciting. But, as they say, your mileage may vary. Anything CAN happen, of course, but in general it's just a little friskier.

Edited by - skronker on 11/23/2003 11:01:01 PM

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BillyTalent
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Posted - Nov 23 2003 : 11:01:00 PM

I've even gone a couple of times with my sister to a strip club, once in Dallas and one in SLC.

Even at the risk of being banned, I still gotta say it, thats straight fucked up man...

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Zatoichi
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Posted - Nov 23 2003 : 11:08:00 PM
The difference between a $10 dance on the floor of the club and a $20 dance in the VIP mainly boils down to privacy - personally, I no longer care to get a dance on the club floor in plain view of everyone in the vicinity, though you may want to discreetly observe a few dancers on the main floor in order to see what their dances are like
(don't rely on the dancer's sales pitch if she comes to your table - it's not a reliable indicator of what you'll get. Nor does a good stage dance necessarily translate into a good lapdance, for that matter).

That increased privacy may also translate into better dances. It takes a while to build a rapport with any dancer - i.e., once she finds out you're not a creep with wandering hands and/or tongue.

As far as what's going on in the VIP, intercourse or oral sex are normally out of the question (the VIP is typically under video surveillance and regular sweeps by club employees), so figure more of the same type of contact you experienced at the tiprail, but closer and more sustained (one of my favorite moves from one of my alltime favorite dancers: lean in close to my face, lift a breast in each hand, then, smiling, slooowly lick her nipples). And while the dancer you watched on the club floor may have been hovering just above the guy's lap, a proper lapdance includes contact with the lap, preferably for most of the song - the lap should not be a no-fly zone!
And of course, there will always be those dancers who know how to push the envelope of what's allowed - just because you have to keep your hands to yourself, doesn't necessarily mean your dancer does...just sit back, let her take the lead, and see what develops.

Would I spend an hour in the VIP? With the right dancer I would.

Oh, and one more experience most strip club patrons never seem to avail themselves of - doubles . If you can find two girls who like each other and know how to dance together, get them both in the VIP and it's an experience you won't soon forget. Your cash will disappear at twice its normal rate, but it's something I recommend everyone do at least once.

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BillyTalent wrote:

I've even gone a couple of times with my sister to a strip club, once in Dallas and one in SLC.

Even at the risk of being banned, I still gotta say it, thats straight fucked up man...


Why do you think so, Billy? I think it's pretty cool! (Of course, being me, I would ). But then, I try to drag EVERYBODy out to strip clubs. I no longer live in Atlanta however (maybe BIGmike is down there now, checking out the flava), which means I no longer have the option of visiting a club 2-3 nights a week (yeah, well, at my peak ; more typical is 2-3 times a month, unless you go to 2-3 places in a single night! .)

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BillyTalent wrote:

I've even gone a couple of times with my sister to a strip club, once in Dallas and one in SLC.

Even at the risk of being banned, I still gotta say it, thats straight fucked up man...


Not sure why you think that's fucked up. We get along on many levels, and seeing beauty displayed is just one of them. We have also gone to male strip joints and she had her fun.

Try it, you might like it.

DenverDon

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Posted - Nov 24 2003 : 12:17:00 AM
Thanx for sharing your experiences, Mrs. ML! I'm also a regular patron of these fine establishments and I don't mind shelling out a few dead presidents to help out those in need of a more decent wardrobe. BTW Skronk, you should check out some of the strip bars in El Paso TX that I've frequented! The girls there don't just give lap dances, they literally grind on your hardon and I won't even mention what they do for a few more bucks in the back rooms...
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Asmodeus -- ever visit the Harmony Burlesque near Canal Street?
Wowee zowee, man! They did the nasty grind in that sleazy pit of depravity. $10 a dance. WHOMP!

There are some places still around but kind of a member's-only deal -- not just a place you walk in off the street.

El Paso sounds pretty cool.

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Mrs.MLyons,

Thanks for the cool story....glad you had a good time here in Vegas. As for whomever asked about the club with the "4000 dancers" its not quite that many..but the club in Question is a club called "Sapphires" which is right down the block from "Crazy Horse Too" on industrial. Sapphires is a nice club..but it is way to big and the girls will mob you..and when the convention season is in effect the place is packed. Which for those like me....I am not into sword fights so to speak. Honestly its just way to damn big.

I would like to tell Mrs Mlyons...when you get a chance to come back to Vegas.Check out the club My Fiance' works at its called "the Palamino club" its the only all nude club in the city...that serves alchohol. Its a smaller club north of the strip...just ask any cab driver...they can get you there.My girls name is Amee Donavan ..shes a helluva dancer..she is a total pro...she can do all the pole tricks you can imagine and she is smoke'n hot to look at. If you have never seen girls work the stripper pole ..you definitely gotta check Amee out. She gives awesome lap dances, you will not be disappointed!So check it out..remember ask for Amee Donavan at the Palamino next time you visit Sin city. Viva Las plague-ass!!

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Steve Holmes
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Thank you Mrs.MLyons to share a woman's point of view. I've visited many strip clubs over the years and spend many thousands dollars. But I prefer the once where you just get appetite with the dance and than choose one or more girls to go in a room to fuck. I don't know if you have this in the States.

The last time I was in such a club was this summer in Prague. Some people told me I'm sick to pay for sex when I shoot two scenes every day and get paid to fuck the most beautiful girls in town. But I love the atmosphere in this places.

Steve

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Posted - Nov 24 2003 : 03:15:00 AM
No Skronk, unfortunately I haven't had the pleasure of visiting that particular place...yet! But as for good old El Paso, I like to check out a few faves on Montana Ave. as that street is considered the red light district where you can find all the sex, drugs and rock 'n roll that you can handle. I won't mention names, but I got a "lap dance" in one of these clubs not too long ago by a Latin hottie that had a booty that would put Katja Kassin's to shame! Cost me a pretty penny but well worth it. But you know what's weird about these places? You can drink all the booze you can afford in the topless bars but alcohol is not allowed in the all nude ones. Now what the hell is up with that?!

Mr. Holmes, I can only imagine the places you have visited in your time! But I plan on checking out Prague in January and I can't wait to see for myself what I've been dreaming about for a long time.

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Asmodeus,

Hey ...check out my previous post homie....there is an all nude bar here in Vegas where you can drink all you want!!! cheers!!

Chief

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Chief, thanx for the tip my friend! Sounds great and you can be sure I'll drop by next time I'm in your neck of the slots.
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Amee rocks, so I'll definitely check out the Palomino.
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MOD: There's a few places where this interesting thread probably could live, but I think it's most appropriate in the Story Time Forum, so I'm moving it there.

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skronker wrote:
Honestly, not all that much.
It's a lot more grindy and touchy -- typically, you get to suck on some nipple and have your cock stroked a little through your pants. Sometimes, a girl will tease you by sliding her pussy against your face or slipping you a little bit of tongue. It's the allure of something more illicit that makes it exciting. But, as they say, your mileage may vary. Anything CAN happen, of course, but in general it's just a little friskier.

Edited by - skronker on 11/23/2003 11:01:01 PM


Well, geez man, I'll tell ya... that sounds exciting enough for me. Hehe.

Anyway, yes... the whole strip club thing is something I've been kind of saving for an occasion when both my wife and I could go together. I'm glad I did... it was a very cool experience, and a surprising one. Like others have said, I can certainly see how it can become addictive. Really very cool... especially for a mousy guy who's never been "up close and personal" let alone had intimate contact with anyone but one woman. It really was something special.

As for lap dances... well, I look at it as saving something to look forward to next time. :)

Mike L.

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Steve Holmes
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Asmodeus wrote:...
Mr. Holmes, I can only imagine the places you have visited in your time! But I plan on checking out Prague in January and I can't wait to see for myself what I've been dreaming about for a long time.

I'm sure you will enjoy your time in Prague. Let us know about your experiences here on ADT.

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