share your first experience with anal sex. and win a prize,,,,,,,,NO NOT REALY ......but we all we'd like to hear it if that makes you feel any better.
well here's mine. Needless to say , I have always had an anal sex fetish. this is the story of how I finely got to fuck a woman in the ass. I was 19 and had my fair share for a guy that age , but I always had this fetish about ass fucking i had rimmed a few girls and even fingered a few assholes how ever getting my cock in one had not been(or so i thought)not an option. I was starting to believe that it was only done in porno movies. Well The story starts out that I was working as a cook in a restaurant and the kitchen was in clear view of the dining area. two women in their mid to late thirties were sitting at a table and I caught one checking me out all the time she was there. we made eye contact. She had sex in her eyes. I mean she had the kind of eyes that could harden a cock in a second. well i went back to work (erection and all) and realized it was close to closing time. well this woman seemed to be hanging around and as it turned out she was friendly with the owner. so she stay after closing for a drink and we started talking. she said goodnight to her dinning partner .one thing led to another and we left together. It was a warm summer night and we went for a walk. it was late and she asked if i would walk her home "she lived near by" she assured me. and invited me in for a drink. she was so much older and i was so turned on. I don't no weather i was embarrassed or glad when i noticed she was staring at the bulge in my pants. It was strangely erotic being caught with a hard on. being only 19 and of little experience i tensed up and she noticed. she commented that I to needed to relax. then to my surprise and joy she kissed me. I felt her hand slowly start to unbutton my shirt. then unzip my pants. she kissed my neck & chest and worked her way down to my already rock hard cock. I was also under the impression that women didn't give blow jobs until after you dated them for awhile(wow was i naive or what?)when i was close to shooting an enormous teenage load she stopped pulled up and grabbed my wrist. She seductively led me down the hall to her bed room. we started with a missionary make out session and i slowly slid my cock into her wet and welcoming pussy for a slow hard fuck. she stated talking dirty to me and i almost blew my wad right there After a while i flipped her over. she had the kind of ass that was on the voluptuous side but had a decent shape. Her Ass checks were glistening with the sweat of our sex and the steam of her pussy. I was about to just take her dripping cunt from behind when she reached over to her night table and opened it's draw and produced a tube of KY jelly. she was handing it to me over her shoulder. When I tell you I almost fainted with joy. I had read in dirty magazines that this was used in anal sex. I couldn't believe it. (there goes and other teen age assumption) . But just to be safe i said " your dripping wet we don't need that" Implying that I thought she wanted me to lube her already steam soaked cunt. To this day the thought of her reply still gets my dick harder than a diamond. she said " NO I WANT YOU TO FUCK ME IN MY ASS" then I fainted,,, no almost she told me to penetrate her with a lubed finger and to wait until her mussels told me that she was ready. her asshole loosened up in no time and we kept inserting fingers until we had 3 fingers in her gaping shit hole then she turned back to me and said "NOW I WANT YOUR COCK" she was down on all fours when i was prepping her . so I got in position for my first doggy style ass fuck . she reached back and grabbed my swollen beef pole and guided it up into the heaven that was her ass. Two pumps and a squirt later . I could not contain my joy . A life long goal had been achieved. We were laying down and talking and she told me that anal sex was her favorite form of compilation(which dammed near killed me) Wow a sexual soul mate all my wet dreams had come true .being 19 there was plenty more CUM in me and I pounded her asshole with more lasting effect till the next morning . I must have fucked her 6 times that night. I was her very happy very sexed boy toy for about 3 months. I should have married her. Well I still look back at that time as A good period in my life.
My first successful* anal encounter, (and I don't know if I interpret success the same way that she did), would have wound up on the cutting room floor in the porn editing process.
You see, we had no idea what porn performers go through to prepare for anal sex, and that they did not do stupid things like..., oh..., have a Mexican food dinner and a lot of wine a couple of hours before the activity.
Things went well, and everything was consenual, happy, and from all indications, pain-free, when she told me that she didn't know if she was gonna be able to control things much longer. I didn't quite get that and truth be told, I was too far gone to care, when she did lose control and shat with me in her.
In one of the proudest moments of my life, I DID NOT ACT LIKE A MORON OR A JERK. (As opposed to what I'd done once when I was fucking a woman and her bladder let loose during the proceedings and I wasn't prepared for that. Or maybe she was "squirting". In any event, I reacted badly),
This time, when I pulled out and she had soiled on me, I was very sensitive to her feelings, physically and emotionally, and really played my cards right. Didn't make a big deal about it, held her while she sobbed, (she hadn't had too much experience with anal either), we took a shower and washed each other off, while she was in the bathroom with some alone time to get herself together, I changed the bed sheets and cleaned up the room, I just generally did everything right for once. And she fell deeper in love with me. But I still made her go back to her husband.
So it was a pretty memorable event.
BSD
* - There had been unsuccessful attempts before with different girls, but I didn't know anything about lube or preparation, so they ended before they could get started due to pain and unhappiness.
Wow, BSD. You truly are a gentleman. See, this is the real reason why I search out your posts. Don't underestimate your ability to tell a fantastic story. I think a lot of us here are on the same page about this.
When I have my first real anal experience, I hope... well, my hopelessly romantic notions pray it doesn't turn out quite like that. But I do hope it will be with someone as understanding as you, my friend.
That was absolutely true. This is the same woman who, while with her husband, got pregnant by me, AFTER her husband had had a vasectomy, AND she was excited and happy about the pregnancy.
Oh, by the way, she is white. He is white. I am, err, not.
Oh yeah, and he was MY BOSS at the time.
But that is a whole 'nother story, many lives ago.
MELPSTER -
Thank you, but don't go fitting me for the halo just yet. I've had my moments. And since I am a Y chromosomer, as far as most women are concerned, we are all inherently evil and assholes, even if we occasionally demonstrate thoughtfullness and civility.
Dawg, this was 25 years ago. This was before AIDS, before brains, before the wheel, before fire. I don't think they'd invented condoms yet. At that time, condoms were never even a thought.
True story.
I can remember back in those days, Mexican hookers in Tijuana wanting us to wear condoms, and me and my crew getting pissed off.
In Tijuana.
In those days in Tijuana, you could get cholera from just walking down the street, dysentery was your constant companion, and ptomaine posioning was a 50/50 proposition with every meal. And here we were bitching about the hookers wanting us to wear condoms. Morons. Hell, them women were trying to protect us. Half of them knew they had the heebie-jeebies and worked anyway.
No, when my boss's wife bowel released on me, I wasn't wearing a condom. Or when she got pregnant. (Obviously)
Oh, the life I lived.
BSD
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Posted - Mar 20 2007 : 3:02PM
Woah BSD, Your story hurt my brain. Holy shit, great writing.
I've been enjoying reading all of your posts.
You went to Penn State when? (if you don't mind. I grew up in State College.)
See, now nobody wants to tell a story after the one BSD told, lest it sound unoriginal, commonplace, or trite. IOW, no one wants to tell about banal anal.
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Hellhamster. 2947 Posts 10/03
Posted - Mar 20 2007 : 6:34PM
Seriously.
I was going to, but after reading BSD's story all I could think of saying was "it was awkward". Not very much verbal impact.
I'm sorry I got carried away and ruined the thread. I'll try to be more succinct from now on.
Last observation on my first anal experience. Unless something happens that I don't know about, it was also one of my last. It wasn't THE last, but it was one of them. Cuz for the ball and chain that I've been lugging around for the past 23 years, that door has been CLOSED, DO NOT ENTER, GO BACK FROM WHENCE YOU CAME, DON'T EVEN THINK ABOUT IT, THIS MEANS YOU.
Man, unlike most everyone else I just don't have enough of an experience to relate. Until that day comes I just have to keep living vicariously through all you guys.
I did have my first real, ah, putting of something in my ass more substantial than a finger only a few months ago. But that still pales in comparison to BSD's story.
I had anal sex a few times when I was a teenager...this was back in the 80's. Twice was with girls my age who somehow thought ass sex would keep them in the "not going to hell" camp as virgins (LOL at Catholic Girls). In both cases, it was messy and not at all pleasant. The other time was with a woman almost 10 years older than I and it was after she obviously prepped some...not as messy. But then I got married and for the next 17 years, no anal sex. The wife enjoyed a bit of buttplay now and then, slipping her the shocker during oral or a digit when she's about to orgasm, but nothing beyond that.
Until our 17th anniversary when she gave herself an enema and did a striptease for me in front of the fireplace and slowly impaled herself onto a suction-cup buttplug while I watched. We had anal sex 3 times that weekend and once every so often ever since.
Who says you can't teach old dogs new tricks? Oh and for the record, she got the idea from watching porn and reading a couple of internet boards on the subject. We've dabbled in D/s stuff off and on as well, but for her, she claims ass sex is the best when I tie her up and "take" her ass. Of course, that's AFTER she's prepped for it, so it's a bit of role play.
I'm not sure I'd be into doing this without the prep work. To be blunt, it doesn't feel as good to my cock as does her pussy or her mouth. But the dominant feelings of fucking her ass are a turn-on, no doubt about that. But the ass isn't a pussy and just doesn't feel as good to me. YMMV of course.
I guess porn BTS really are a public service when it comes to educating people about the realities of anal (and other forms of) sex.
Yeah...the preparations that need to be done for relatively clean anal sex can be a rather unsavory affair. It never bothered me but a lot of women aren't too fond of all things ass anyway.
Well, it wasn't my first time but I also had a girl shit on me - I don't even think she knew that she did it...
We were both hammered and it was the 1st time we tried ass sex - well I was going pretty good and then all of a sudden shit started squirting out around my dick...The worst part was the stink, but there was no way I wasn't finishing, so I got done, and I ran for the shower, with her close behind.
my first shot at anal sex was about 20 years ago when my first wife and i had gotten a little drunk (the only way she would have ever tried) after attending a porno in a theater. it didn't go well at all...a very forgettable experience.
i had been dating my present wife for about 2 months when the subject came up. she immediately took me by the hand, led me to her bed room, and after undressing stood me by the bed lubed and stroked my throbbing cock to full erection. she assumed the doggie position, and i lubed her tight little hole first with one finger, then with two. i felt her muscles totally relax and inserted said erect cock slowly until i felt my balls against her warm pussy. i slowly stroked in and out of that tight ass until she started to meet me with each stroke. i then sped up my pace, and could hear her breathing increase, and she began moaning a sweet breathy sigh with each thrust. i asked if she were okay....which she assured me she was fine and just wanted more...harder and faster. i picked up the tempo, slamming into her sweet ass as hard as i could. she equally increased the volume and pitch of her vocal moans and pants. i could feel the tingling tightness growing in my groin as i exploded with what felt like the largest load of cum i had ever spewed in my life. jet after jet of cum went up her ass as she tensed her anus with each throb of my cock.
we fell forward...spent and very satisfied. we have anal sex often, and always while she is having her period. it's a wonderful part of a great relationship.
I was about 17 and (honestly!) didn't know that people did such a thing. One afternoon I was having sex with my boyfriend who was a few years older than me and much more experienced. Just for fun he had tied me up to the bedposts and blindfolded me. We was taking me from behind when he wispered 'do you want to try something new that you are going to love?' At that point I was so excited that I agreed. Then I noticed that he was rummaging around in my purse which was on the floor beside the bed. I had no idea what he was looking for. Even though I was blindfolded I could see a little bit and realized that he had pulled out a small tube of Vaseline. He then proceeded to rub the vaseline between my legs, taking care to focus on my asshole. It felt so good yet I was freaking out thinking 'this is my asshole he is playing with!' I asked half-heartedly for him to stop yet my voice likely told him to keep going. At that point he must have greased up his cock because it was super-slick and I could feel it at my asshole. I remember asking 'isn't this dirty - do people really do this?' 'yes, and you are going to love it' he said. I was pretty adventurous and thought 'why not?' and I was really horney and wasn't thinking clearly. Slowly he pulled my hips back towards his cock and impaled himself slowly but steadily into my ass. I remember at first thinking that it hurt and that he felt huge. He asked me to let him stay in for a while but he promised to pull out if it continued to hurt. But hey, after getting over the initial stretch, I began to fuck him back. He kept saying 'baby, baby - you're so tight' It also didn't take long for him to cum.
We did this several more times before we eventually broke up the following year. I'll never forget it even though it was over 20 years ago.
Before i met my current girlfriend, i had one for about 4 years. She was very locked up in terms of sex, wasn't experimental, dirty or naughty. She didn't even give blow jobs! But i was okay with that, because i really loved her. Ok, 2 years ago we broke up and about a half year later, i met my current girlfriend. And she's just the opposite! She's very open minded, a little devil in bed and loves some naughty stuff. We talked a lot about sex and stuff we want to try and some day, we were together for about a year then, anal sex came up. I said i would love to try this one time, but i would never pressure her about it (yeah, i'm a pretty thoughtful guy), because she said she just will need some time for that. A few months ago i was lying in the bed and she came in the bedroom after she had a shower, naked and with her typical horny facial expression. She just said "Should we try it?". My heartbeat just pumped up and i was just like "YES, sure!". So, she came in the bed, i cave her a massage for about 30 minutes and started fingering on her ass. Lubing it in with massage oil and sticking a first finger in. I tried a second one and a third one. She was perfectly relaxed and said she's ready. So i placed my cock just between her cheeks. I had some trouble getting in. It slipped away a few times. Finally i got in a little bit and started to work my way in, till i had my whole dick inside her ass. And jesus, this was a great feeling and a beautiful thing to look at! We started in doggy, moved to cowgirl and then spoon. It last about 15 minutes (she just gave me a blow job before she went to the shower;) ) till i came inside her ass. This was the first time i had anal sex (i was 23) and since then we're doing it maybe once or twice a month. Sometimes more, sometimes less. We just want to keep it something special, not an all-day thing.
I will never forget the first time me and the wife had anal sex. She had been out one friday night with a few mates and came home a bit merry not drunk just merry. We went to bed and started to have sex. Now let me set the picture for you I was taking her from behind and she said you can use my ass if you want. Now I think that she was thinking that I was going to come all over her ass but we had talked about anal and she knew that I wanted to try it so there I was being offered her ass. I just moved my dick up and down her ass then just pushed it in nice and slow. She did not tell me to stop so I just went nice and slow. I guess that I did not last long but when I came inside her ass it just felt so right. She later told me that she did not mean for me to take her ass but it felt so good that she did not want me to stop. We do not do it all the time but when we do it is just so special.
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Posted - Jun 8 2007 : 5:29PM
I took up electric bass when I was a junior in high school. I didn't get good enough to play in front of people performing in a band until I was a freshman in college. I frequently went home for the weekends and joined a band with some friends from high school. The lead singer/guitarist was a guy named Scott who's mother gave him a house for a graduation present. We practiced there and this guy had girl after girl after girl. I once saw him have sex with 7 women in 1 day. His favorite saying was 'Fuck 'em in the ass and make 'em squeal like pigs.' It turns out that Scott loved to de-virginalize women anally. This was in 1973 or so and anal sex was very taboo. Most of his girls were 18 or 19, 1 year out of high school like we were. Sometimes I slept at my parents house but on some nights where we played in a tavernc or saloon and didn't get back until 3AM, I'd sleep in Scott's spare bedroom. One night he brought home 3 ladies and wanted to have group sex. I'm sort of a free spirit and we'd had our share of beer so the two of us and the three gals began to have partner-switching sex. He's seriously into butt-fucking, something I'd never done and he was corn-holing one of the gals while I was doing another and the third was feeding her cunt into Scott's face. She was on top and she lifted off me, guided my boner into her bunghole and it slid right up that forbidden tunnel. Boy did that feel good and I took an immediate liking to anal sex. It allows you to play with the gals clit and finger her pussy all the while having intercourse in the back 40. Scott started to do the other lady and I took the gal Scott had just stopped fucking, dragged her to edge of the bed, lifted her legs and entered her butthole. I was trying to avoid cumming since I also wanted to try the third gal Scott was in the process of sodomizing. Scott liked to switch ladies frequently and when he left that gal for the one I was first engaged with it allowed me to take Scotts place and this gal was Playboy Playmate pretty. She was reluctant to let me have her butthole but Scott told her to open up and shut up, he being sort of a control freak. If she didn't want to have anal with me that was OK but after Scott ordered her to allow me to do that, she rolled over on the bed so I could do her belly-flat and when I slid up that backdoor the little soldier erupted. That was my first time and I learned to like it but let's face it, most women don't like it. I've never forced a gal who didn't want to do anal and it's been about 8 years now since the last time I did a gal backdoor.
My ex-girlfriend had the most perfect ass I had ever seen or been in contact with-it looked like Kinzie Kinner's ass. I used to play with it a lot during sex-finger in her ass during cowgirl; eating; massage; other general worship. Well, one day, she was giving me oral-she was laying on her back with her legs in the air, head turned to the side. I was fingering her pussy and worked my way down fingering her ass as well (a digital DP) when she took me out of her mouth and said "I want you to fuck me in the ass". So I got the lube and put it on her hand. She stroked me to as hard as I could get. She put her legs up in the air and opened them. I slid myself in and started pumping away at her request-harder, softer. She wanted it bad so I went to town on her asshole. I lasted abot 2-3 minutes, during which she said she had 2 orgasms (she was fingering herself like crazy). Afterwards we went into the shower. I asked her if it hurt cause i went so fast and hard and she said "No-it felt good". And talk about a creampie-I must have had some on reserve or something cause not only was the bed a mess from me but it was dripping out of her ass as well, down her leg. We started making out in the shower, and yada yada yada can you guess what happened next? She took me in her ass again-bent over and I had a view of that perfect ass. Anal was all we did for about a week after that.
u better fucking believe it. although i haven't been with a girl who was an anal animal like my ex, i haven't and don't give up on the backdoor. and i never will-i'll keep trying and trying cause i ain't too proud to beg if i have to. (click on my handle to see my response to the "personal ass-eating experiences" thread to see how that went...) Edited by - comatised on 6/29/2007 4:44:18 PM
I never understood anal. Maybe because I am such a tight-ass, but I would not give my dick to a but hole, and yes I have been asked. One lady told me that after quite a bit of it, a woman (or man) has to wear a diaper, because the ole anal sphincters are wore out, so the shit just falls out when it’s ready. There is also the occurrence of a tear in the inner tissues within the vagina and the shit holding area, as it were. Here honey, have some bad infections for the rest of your life. And wait a sec, that creamy stuff that comes out of my dick, do I really want to mix that up with shit? And I hate the fixation modern porn has on anal. There are so many better places to focus. Well, no anal sex for me. And for those who love it, to each their own. I still don’t believe there is such a thing as an anal orgasm though. There is a mental orgasm which appears to be centered on one’s area of erotic interest perhaps. Foot orgasm? Well, maybe. Prude? I think not. I love it when a beautiful young woman loves pulling trains. I would love and support a girl like that for life. But gang banging is just a prescription for disease it seems to me. Just my opinion. New guy
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Hellhamster. 2947 Posts 10/03
Posted - Jul 10 2007 : 1:13AM
Maybe not a prude, but totally uninformed you are.
Perhaps not inspired. Looked at an abdominal x-ray with a doctor once, and asked, what would drive a man to stick that battery powered dildo that far up inside his ass? Must have felt good, doc says. Well, that makes it ok, I replied. Now how do we get it out? No one likes facts that contradict their beliefs. This man did not like the fact that his dildo was not comming out on it's own. It had been in there for three days. Talk about faith! Didn't help his health none though.
Priceless. I think I just found my next avatar quote! But please, zmeow, don't be a downer on our anal fun. It's about the most worthwhile thing going in porn. That and facials.
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Posted - Jul 11 2007 : 4:59PM
This is for real man. I was in high school and i was banging this chick named michelle. What a friggin ass she had... really round and smooth. I was doing her doggy and she asked if i wanted to try anal... Wooo Hoooo! I thought. I lubed'er up and stuck it in her ass. It felt great but it had this strange sandpaper kinda feeling. I pulled out as she said and was gonna come on her ass. When i pulled out to stroke off on her booty. I see this carrot sitting on the end of my dick! No lie man, there it was. I just flicked it off and started pounding her pussy till I came. That was my forst time dicking ass. I still love anal anyway.
Ok. But I prefer to see young beauties shudder and moan from deep feelings, and then smile for more. But yeah, I hear ya. Off to find something I DO understand.
Gotta love that there is still so much misinformation out there, rumors and half-truths, when if people really felt compelled they could find some actual truth about anal in several reputable places, some in books, some on the internet. Seriously, anal sex wasn't invented in the last decade, it's been around for as long as human civilization has and no one in ancient Roman or Greek times were wearing diapers. The sphincter muscles are just that, muscles, and the more they get exercised the better they function so no worries about "shit falling out". My God, some people just love to remain ignorant.
I must take time out to thank Tristan taramino for her book a woman's guide to anal sex. the book clears up many of these all to common misconceptions it's because of this book that I get to slide my cock in my wife's ass on a regular basis. we have enjoyed a good ass fuck at least every third time we fuck ( witch is about three times a week give or take)We think of anal sex as a natural erotic act of ultimate intimacy. I have pounded her welcoming asshole without mercy for years now and she has none of the bogus side affects that some less informed people believe
