A2M in personal life.

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Darth-Morpheous Deactivated User 1701 Posts 3/02	Posted - Mar 14 2004 : 1:27PM I know this has become huge in porn but has A2M made it's way into the bedroom? I know of few women who find a2m erotic. Pornchick has given us alot of great insight on the subject from a women's perspective. She seems to find it very erotic. I wonder if any other women feel this way. Darth-Morpheous adultdetective.com [Link]
sanchez_1960 Member 582 Posts 2/03	Posted - Mar 14 2004 : 1:34PM As long as the woman has cleaned her ass properly then I don't think she'd have as much problem doing it. [Link]
-lunacy- Senior Member 1081 Posts 4/00	Posted - Mar 14 2004 : 2:05PM Not for me. [Link]
Darth-Morpheous Deactivated User 1701 Posts 3/02	Posted - Mar 14 2004 : 2:34PM Lunacy, are you a female? If so, are you a pornstar or a former pornstar? Thanks for the input. I imagine that all girls are not into it but I'm sure there have to be others besides pornchick and the few others who have said on this board that they are into the idea or at least find it erotic. Darth-Morpheous adultdetective.com [Link]
Sir Noel Plum Senior Studmuffin 1001 Posts 2/03	Posted - Mar 14 2004 : 3:18PM My girlfriend does it happily enough and has done since we met. I'm not so sure there is any great insight to be given here though, the fact my cock has been in her ass I think she regards more or less as an irrelevance. To be honest it is one of those things I've never really discussed with her. She did it totally off her own bat the first time (probably never even thought about it, totally spur of the moment) and I felt disinclined to question her about the whys and wherefores just in case that in itself made it an issue and she changed her mind! A positive aspect of A2M is that it stops sex becoming a bit of a one-way street where anal follows oral or vaginal and, short of a cleanup operation, you can't go back again or chop and change around. That said, I can appreciate women not wanting to do it. I'm scared of spiders and you could rationalise with me all day long about how safe it is to put a live spider in my mouth but it won't make me any keener to give it a go! SNP. [Link]

-lunacy- Senior Member 1081 Posts 4/00	Posted - Mar 14 2004 : 8:32PM I am female, but not a performer. A2M does not appeal to me in porn or in real life. I find it disgusting from a cleanliness aspect and degrading from the psychological. Just me... [Link]
Harri Patel Senior Member #SDNY he's all yours. -- Michael Steele 5110 Posts 3/03	Posted - Mar 15 2004 : 12:56AM Darth-Morpheous wrote: Lunacy, are you a female? If so, are you a pornstar or a former pornstar? Thanks for the input. Click to expand Heh heh. Heh heh. You said "input." Heh heh. Heh heh. [Link]
Percy Walker Member 108 Posts 9/03	Posted - Mar 15 2004 : 3:28AM OK, gross out time. Years ago a lover and I would always finish the weekend with an anal go at it. This always came after a good amount of finger exercises. At that point you can tell if the rectum is empty or not. Twice it was empty for my finger but by the time my cock arrived things had changed considerably. Both times I came inside her and pulled out with a nice brown wad on the tip of my cock. The first time, no condom and much embarrassment on my part for her, I ran to wash off. The second time, after we had not seen each other for several years, I had a condom and less embarrassment. I noticed a certain glint in her eye but was too timid to ask what was on her mind. I am sure that at the very least she was delighted at the slight of that brown tip which I let her get a long look at. Whether she wanted more than that I will never know. You can open your eyes now, percy [Link]
imak Adult Film Legend 3345 Posts 2/04	Posted - Mar 15 2004 : 3:47AM I can't think at all when I am having good sex. I find myself doing and saying the most fucked up stuff. I have done ATM several times in my personal life before I became a performer. but I never thought about it, it was like cock mm mouth good. now that i do it more regularly and with some one going ok time for some atm, i shy away in my private life. [Link]
Darth-Morpheous Deactivated User 1701 Posts 3/02	Posted - Mar 15 2004 : 11:30AM Kami, That is very interesting. Why do you shy away from it now that your a performer? Is it that doing it so much in your sex scenes takes the zest out of it? When you did it in your personal life, did you ever see A2M in porn? Darth-Morpheous adultdetective.com [Link]
Asmodeus Lord of Lust az-mo-day-us 6338 Posts 10/01	Posted - Mar 15 2004 : 1:27PM I have tried A2M in previous relationships but my current girfriend refuses to even consider it and finds the idea completely repulsive. But thank heaven at least she lets me bugger her once in a while so all is not lost. [Link]
imak Adult Film Legend 3345 Posts 2/04	Posted - Mar 15 2004 : 3:43PM Darth-Morpheous wrote: Kami, That is very interesting. Why do you shy away from it now that your a performer? Is it that doing it so much in your sex scenes takes the zest out of it? When you did it in your personal life, did you ever see A2M in porn? Darth-Morpheous adultdetective.com Click to expand I think the fact that I think about it now is what makes me shy away from it. its never spontaneous any more. I am sure there will be exceptions though. I never thought atm was a huge deal before and ya I had seen it in porn but i was never like ew that was in her butt! Of course now that I have all my hepatitus immunizations it is safer. [Link]
VictoriaGivens Member 113 Posts 9/03	Posted - Mar 16 2004 : 9:48AM Hi Darth, I guess you know my feelings on the subject. LOL Yes, I do A2M in my personal life. Victoria [Link]
Debbie Member 7 Posts 3/04	Posted - Mar 16 2004 : 11:16AM Darth-Morpheous wrote: I know this has become huge in porn but has A2M made it's way into the bedroom? I know of few women who find a2m erotic. Pornchick has given us alot of great insight on the subject from a women's perspective. She seems to find it very erotic. I wonder if any other women feel this way. Darth-Morpheous adultdetective.com Click to expand Hi Darth, It's Pornchick here....couldn't log in ubder my old name so I'm here as Debbie. I've written plenty about a2m....but I like doing so and here's some more. To my mind, one the one hand there's the anus, and on the other, there's shit. The first is a lovely part of the body, highly sensitive to erotic stimulation offering wonderful experiences such as anal fucking, rimming and a2m. The second is smelly, mucky, disgusting and to be avoided. If there's a chance I'm going to get laid, and I'm in the mood, I'll check my bum beforehand to try and make sure it's empty and clean. If I don't feel too good, if my anus doesn't feel right, or if curry has been on the menu recently, then we'll not try anal sex. I've only tried an enema once, and it caused more trouble than it solved. Maybe I was doing something wrong, and maybe Kami or other performers can advise, but the enema made the whole thing messy and unpleasant, which had never happened to me before. But if all's feeling right, then a smile creeps over my face and I think 'This is gonna be good!' I love anal play, fingering, licking, toying; giving and receiving. I love the feel of a warm penis sliding in my well lubed, relaxed arse, pulsing, swelling, cumming and subsiding, and to be held by my lover, to be encompassed by his arms, feeling his hands caressing me all over, and hearing him whispering into my ear. When that sort of thing is happening to me, I can't imagine not wanting to suck him. If his cock looks clean, then I love to do it. In fact, I prefer anal when I'm lubed just by my lover's tongue and saliva, just to enjoy the taste. Also this is the best way to get relaxed...lying or kneeling while your anus is lapped and licked....lovely! And no, it doesn't taste of shit, I wouldn't do it if it did, I guess it's the natural lubrication of the rectum; kind of musky and strong, and tastes better after a really good fucking. Sucking during anal sex is good too, to keep his cock wet and slippery, so that I can fuck for longer without getting sore. The years when I did this with anyone but my husband are long gone, so hepatitis and STDs aren't a worry and condoms don't figure, so we can enjoy all the taste and gooeyness of his cum. I first did a2m spontaneously without any prompting.....it just seemed a sexy thing to do at the time. The guy I did it with loved it, and he later showed me a vid (Private Dead Man's Wish) where Mona Lisa dos a2m with Christophe Clark, and that was a huge turn on watching another girl doing it. Sir Noel said he didn't want to analyze a2m too much in case Lady Plum decided she didn't like it. Years ago I decided I definitely do, so I can spend ages wondering why.....but I still don't really know. I just hope that the popularity of a2m in porn will make some of the girls watching take the plunge and try for themselves. [Link]
Myload Senior Member A rose is what you are to me 2069 Posts 6/03	Posted - Mar 16 2004 : 11:36AM My fiancee would never do that. [Link]

kaylanifan Member 57 Posts 9/03	Posted - Mar 16 2004 : 2:32PM My g/f will suck it right after I take it out, but, I don't think she really thinks about it either. She also has no problem with me sticking my tongue in her ass when its opened up and then kissing her. On the other hand, I let her do what she wants with my ass including tonguing it inside and I suck her tongue after too. As for cum in the ass, I have came in her ass before but she found it akward afterwards. I can't deny I thought it was hot. Wouldn't it just be great if there were no STD's and we could all just go wild with no fear! I thinks up some pretty horny thoughts sometimes that are just virtually impossible to ever carry out from a safety standpoint and I think that sucks! [Link]
Asmodeus Lord of Lust az-mo-day-us 6338 Posts 10/01	Posted - Mar 16 2004 : 3:23PM STD's are just God's way of keeping us in check. [Link]
Debbie Member 7 Posts 3/04	Posted - Mar 16 2004 : 5:27PM Wouldn't it just be great if there were no STD's and we could all just go wild with no fear! I thinks up some pretty horny thoughts sometimes that are just virtually impossible to ever carry out from a safety standpoint and I think that sucks! [/quote] And so say all of us!! [Link]
Darth-Morpheous Deactivated User 1701 Posts 3/02	Posted - Mar 21 2004 : 12:54PM Debbie, that was a great post and provided me with lots of insight on the subject. Darth-Morpheous adultdetective.com [Link]
seattle Member 57 Posts 3/04	Posted - Mar 23 2004 : 11:38PM I have a question concerning ass cleansing. A2M means the girl has to clean her ass very deep. About 7 inches deep (or whatever the respective size is), right? How do you do that? I don't expect many non-porn-professionals to exercise gaping. Therefore the ass should be very tight in most cases. Now how do you clean the depth of your ass? A finger is certainly not long enough, a toilet brush is too bulky for a non gaper (and scratchy). --------------------------- I am a total anal virgin, never even tasted a girl's asshole. Can someone educate me on the topics of taste and deep cleansing? [Link]
Coyote Member Daylight Savings Time, is it really Necessary? 972 Posts 3/04	Posted - Mar 26 2004 : 12:35AM First of all I would like to say that this is my first post/reply, so hey all!! I was lucky enough to meet two women, while stationed in Germany who were into this, and thus blew my mind because I had never seen it before! So ever since that experiance anal is a must in a sexual partnership, even if it is just a once and a while thing. [Link]
seattle Member 57 Posts 3/04	Posted - Mar 26 2004 : 5:37AM Coyote22 wrote: First of all I would like to say that this is my first post/reply, so hey all!! I was lucky enough to meet two women, while stationed in Germany who were into this, and thus blew my mind because I had never seen it before! So ever since that experiance anal is a must in a sexual partnership, even if it is just a once and a while thing. Click to expand Have you seen the movie "Buffalo Soldiers"? Ever since I am a bit sceptic about you guys... [Link]
Coyote Member Daylight Savings Time, is it really Necessary? 972 Posts 3/04	Posted - Mar 26 2004 : 6:41PM seattle wrote: Have you seen the movie "Buffalo Soldiers"? Ever since I am a bit sceptic about you guys... Click to expand Yes, good movie. Sceptic about army people?..Well I just got out of the Army...so maybe now you'll feel more secure..however I am going to go into the Air Force, so hopefully your fine with that..lol. [Link]
seattle Member 57 Posts 3/04	Posted - Mar 26 2004 : 11:47PM Coyote22 wrote: Well I just got out of the Army...so maybe now you'll feel more secure..however I am going to go into the Air Force, so hopefully your fine with that..lol. Click to expand What a pity, from whom will I get my weed now? Did you at least like Germany? And hey, if we ever declare a war upon the rest of the world again, you are welcome to bomb us ;) [Link]
Coyote Member Daylight Savings Time, is it really Necessary? 972 Posts 3/04	Posted - Mar 27 2004 : 1:47PM seattle wrote: What a pity, from whom will I get my weed now? Did you at least like Germany? And hey, if we ever declare a war upon the rest of the world again, you are welcome to bomb us ;) Click to expand Germany was really cool. Traveled around a bit when I could, met some really nice people. The weather was a bit gloomy though. [Link]

Sir Noel Plum Senior Studmuffin 1001 Posts 2/03	Posted - Mar 28 2004 : 7:30AM seattle wrote: I have a question concerning ass cleansing. A2M means the girl has to clean her ass very deep. About 7 inches deep (or whatever the respective size is), right? How do you do that? I don't expect many non-porn-professionals to exercise gaping. Therefore the ass should be very tight in most cases. Click to expand Firstly I think your link between anal experience and gaping is erroneous. As an example internet favourite BJ can take her fellas hand and penis in her asshole at the same time and yet she hardly gapes at all, she even admits as much. Similarly it is quite possible for a woman to gape from the very start; all that is required is for the anal sphincters to be relaxed to the point where involuntary muscular contraction has temporarily stopped and for the individual to be inclined to gape in that circumstance. I can't exactly say what characteristics of a woman determine gapeability, it seems to be fairly random, although I feel as if I tend to see more gaping and larger gaping by smaller skinnier women than larger fatter women (although I accept this could just be that I only notice this 'trend' when it reinforces my theory ) Okay anal cleansing. As far as I'm aware most porn stars anal cleansing routine consists of one or more enemas and watching what they eat the day before a shoot. Outside of porn I don't think many women, even those who practise A2M, go to such lengths on a regular basis. I don't want to get all gross here but i think an important point to bear in mind is that different people tend to exhibit different faecal consistency. The issue of getting clean inside will be a lot easier for those producers of firm stools than for those somewhat looser of motion, whose colon no doubt is as shit streaked as the toilet pan inevitably is after they've done their business! SNP. [Link]
seattle Member 57 Posts 3/04	Posted - Mar 28 2004 : 11:49PM Thanks for your great (yet gross) explanation. I shouldn't think too much about it, don't want certain images in my mind when I see the next a2m... [Link]
wire Member USA 35 Posts 3/04	Posted - Mar 30 2004 : 7:29PM Most women don't mind P2M. We men love the pussy so much, it seems kind of hypocritcal to say no. A2M maybe is hard for that reason. [Link]