I've tried in the past to get girlfriends to suck my cock out of their ass but they always refused. The girl I am with now seems like she might be into it, as she is into rimming, but I don't wan't to turn her off to it the first time I try. Should I just give it a shot, or talk to her about it before I try? Anything I might do to make it more palatable for her?
Wow, I'm getting a really strong feeling of deja vu here, like I've just seen this thread elsewhere
Just to add. I think it boils down, not so much as 'does she do a2m' but is she so minded as to be prepared to suck your cock even after it has been in her ass. This might just sound like a semantic argument but it really isn't: the change in emphasis is important. It is not beyond the realm of possibility that she may be horny enough to suck you off and may not care where you've been: this thought in itself (her own wantonness) might turn her on as much as you. My concern is that if you ask her, then rather than a demonstration of her sexual abandon (by her, for you), it becomes more a sexual request and the connotations are somehow changed as may her response.
As I said elsewhere, view it more as nothing significant and just a blowjob after penetration and see if she feels the same. I wouldn't bother mentioning it, nor would I try and catch her unawares, just see what transpires naturally when you're both caught up in the moment.
Well have girls refused it in the past even when they've cleaned themselves out properly with an enema? I wouldn't expect any girl to do it unless she was fully clean inside.
Has she sucked your cock after it has been in her pussy? If not, you might want to start with that.
Is she into porn? If so, you can watch a porn movie together that you know contains some ATM (I wouldn't recommend a title devoted to ATM). At that point you can tell her how much that turns you on. Her reaction to that will tell you a lot.
Do you enjoy licking her asshole? If so, indulge yourself, and enjoy. Does it turn her on? Does she like kissing you afterwards? Does she like you to fuck her ass? Do you still like licking her afterwards? And if you lick her, you'll know what the taste is like. If the answers are yes, then try manoevring yourself into a 69 position after you pull out of her, and start licking her anus. If it turns her on as much as you, she'll go for it. I agree with Sir Noel....just asking her straight is likely to turn her off rather than on.
Personally I like a2m, it's something that I love doing if I'm very turned on, his cock appears clean. I've probably done it over a hundred times and never had any ill effects, but that's not to say I disagree with all the medical facts given below. Maybe I'm lucky; maybe I'm in good health....I don't know. I just seems sexy, so I do it.
I'm all for "switching" myself (it's all play), and I've enjoyed my few (all-too-rare) strap-on ass-fuckings more than my wife has enjoyed her rare real-penis ass-fuckings -- but because strap-on ATM is something that I'd never do myself (for health and taste-bud reasons), I would never ask a partner to do it, either. Fantasy is another story altogether.
Do unto others . . . (a maxim that never exhausts its usefulness).
Once a long time ago, and I don't even think she realized she was doing... I pulled out, it was just there when she looked back at me, and she bent over and just started sucking in a fit of passion. She stopped after a couple of minutes to ask if I had cum yet, so I'm pretty sure she didn't realize what she did.
But specifically pointing to A2M as some sort of task that needs accomplished during sex, nah. A2M is pornographic extremism and I prefer to separate that and reality...
Dunno, man. I have rarely met any women who want more than a finger in their asses, let alone a dick, let alone suck that dick after it's been to kingdom come. Good luck, but it's not even a porn act I have any interest in, personally speaking,
