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| lovetoeatgirls2775 Member  112 Posts 1/09 |  Posted - Apr 19 2009 : 4:38PMcause most guys that whatch it enjoy it at the time, but get very depressed later for couple things, #1 most girls you see will not do in person what you see in the video, #2 guys that whatch alot of porn usually cannot get girls at all, #3 you actually go in public and look at every girl in a bad way sexually, what i am saying it actually does screw up your mind and depress you. I knew a guy that actually whatched it all the time, he was very good looking guy but he was very shy, he go out see women then go home and cry and get depressed knowing he could not get any of them. even though we tell him man if you were not so shy you be able to meet them. but i do agree porn gives you bad image on women in real life. anyone else maybe understand or disagree ? [Link] |
| StrippedSS Member 85 Posts 4/09 | Posted - Apr 19 2009 : 6:39PM [Link] |
| Dread Senior Member Latex and boobs 5085 Posts 3/07 | Posted - Apr 19 2009 : 7:20PM But if you're getting depressed over porn, then you have other issues that you need to deal with. The Resident Gamer/ComicNerd [Link] |
| solidsnake Member Dying To Live 266 Posts 10/07 | Posted - Apr 19 2009 : 10:05PM [Link] |
| ninja1 Senior Member 2939 Posts 1/08 | Posted - Apr 19 2009 : 11:52PM [Link] |
| wraithlead Member 264 Posts 12/08 | Posted - Apr 20 2009 : 12:09AM as for the other stuff, i don't think it makes things any worse...i mean, seriously, shave your palms, buy some glasses, and get back out there! [Link] |
| seedfeeder Member My balls are full, who's hungry? 716 Posts 4/09 | Posted - Apr 20 2009 : 2:04AM Personally, I've been at least a mild porn addict since age 14. Frankly porn INSPIRED me, I'd say "oh shit, I must do that". And so forth. And frankly, girls tended to like it (the influence of porn on me) because I'd try things they'd never done... girls like being surprised, they don't like routine when it comes to sex. They also like a guy confident enough to engage a new idea with them. I'm average looking, but I never had trouble getting girls, including very hot girls. In college I was famous in my dorm for getting the most ass. Personally, I INTEGRATED the 2. I do think porn can be a problem if it's "your little secret". Fuck that, I'd look at porn mags with girls and we'd discuss the women, rating this or that, it was fun. I ran into a few problems. I remember one g/f that got angry when I liked her sucking me while I watched porn lol. But generally girls are NOT adverse to porn at all, as long as you INCLUDE them (in the RIGHT way for them). Lastly, you are also QUITE wrong about girls not doing what you see in the movies. No I haven't gotten any of my girlfriends to take 3 cocks up their ass at once, I'm a greedy lover, ONE cock only :). But you'd be amazed at what they WILL do, what they WANT to try, what they ENJOY doing, and when you approach it right (example, guilt never works, encouragement and mutual respect do), you can get any girl to do anything. Example: My top fetish is that of the cum swallow. I've never, EVER had a girlfriend who didn't swallow my cum. I'm not magic johnson or anything, but we are talking over 50 g/f's here. And at this time, I'm happily married for several years now, and have a great sex life. But I still watch porn every week. Sometimes it's a together activity. I choose a movie for her, and one for me (my movie involves a lot of fastforwarding lol). Anyway, there's a new perspective. But quit thinking that porn girls are so unique. All women can do those tricks. Just like as a man, I could ram her face like I hated her, or grunge fuck her, or whatever they do (although I cannot say the former is ever something I'd try). Women are very sexual creatures, but you'll never know what they are capable of WITH YOU if you don't explore and try to push the limits a bit... [Link] |
| seedfeeder Member My balls are full, who's hungry? 716 Posts 4/09 | Posted - Apr 20 2009 : 2:09AM I could tell you story after story... BUT I respect what I did with those girls and don't want to defile it as a mere piece of evidence here. The point is if it is about "game" that game is called "Trust". If you can't get what you want including "freaky stuff" you didn't trust yourself enough, and/or you didn't trust her enough, and/or she didn't trust you enough. And he's right about that too... looks are irrelevant. If you dig deep, you'll realize that even for men, the visual creatures that we are, sex appeal is really not about looks. Looks are a plus, but think about how many "hot" girls you've met but weren't really attracted to as they had "the cat's ass face" or looked like they had 6 pinecones shoved up their ass or something. Confidence is what matters. If you think you're worth their time, so will they. We are indeed animals, and like bees and dogs, women can smell fear. Instead it's best to put them on the defense, have them questioning if THEY ARE WORTHY... well I'm not going to go into the rules of warfare here, but they aren't complex in my opinion, they boil down to confidence. And it's also confidence that builds that trust and allows you to say things like "can I cum in your mouth while you're sleeping, you just look so hot when you're sleeping, I've always wanted to..." See, it can roll off your tongue as easy as asking "would you like to dance". Besides, once you've got them to be with you, it's harder for them to decide you're a freak lol so they're more inclined to say "yes" a lot. And while these things are "SIMPLE" they CAN be complex. Like for example, when I was a bachelor, I would actually arrange my house as one big sex trap... paint the living room green to create comfort and incline the word "yes" and so forth... hell, don't get me started, I was a goddamn terrorist of sexual norms lol. Edited by - seedfeeder on 4/20/2009 2:16:34 AM [Link] |
| ninja1 Senior Member 2939 Posts 1/08 | Posted - Apr 20 2009 : 5:07PM We could argue back and forth but it's pointless and impossible to prove how big a factor was your "game", and how much of it was due to the girl being already open to the idea before you even showed up. And it is just an abstract discussion, with no details on what specific sex acts you are talking about, and how unusual it really is, on the broad spectrum of mild to wild to kinky to bizarrre to extreme. I have been able to "pull it off", as you say. But it would be dishonest and arrogant of me to claim total credit without acknowledging that the predisposition of the girls has a lot to do with it. But I understand you (and solidsnake) choosing to hold that confidence mind set. Nothing wrong with believing in yourself. [Link] |
| seedfeeder Member My balls are full, who's hungry? 716 Posts 4/09 | Posted - Apr 20 2009 : 5:18PM As far as "freaky" goes, I just mean something abnormal. Like just hypothetically, for argument's sake, say a girl agrees to eat some ice cream that you spent the last week shooting 20 loads on... I could give several more examples, but I think you get the point. EDIT: okay, I used the word "game" but clearly not in the "classical" way. I said it was a game of trust and I stand by that statement, but I wouldn't personally choose that word (game) to describe what I'm talking about. Edited by - seedfeeder on 4/20/2009 5:19:37 PM [Link] |
Hardware  All-Star Member Your other left 14595 Posts 3/02 | Posted - Apr 20 2009 : 6:11PM In regard to the original post, post-coital depression isn't a porn thing, it's a fact of life for some people. Assigning reasons for it is something best left to psychologists, and I don't even trust what most of them say. [Link] |
| Festus Member Don't let me stop ya. I just likes ta watch. Heh...heh...heh. 95 Posts 6/07 | Posted - Apr 20 2009 : 6:20PM Moral: "Most girls like to be freaky when they feel good and hard liquor drinks helps them realize it." [Link] |
| hollywood woody Senior Member Death is caused by swallowing small amounts of saliva over a long period of time. George Carlin 1567 Posts 2/07 | Posted - Apr 20 2009 : 7:38PM Porn is something people enjoy, if it is way more than a hobby for you, maybe you should curtail your viewing for awhile. The adult industry is really no different the the mainstream movie industry, we both deal in fantasy. If it is more than that for you, you may try something else for the time being, like bowling. But just like everything else, some people obsess over bowling, they always want a better ball, how many leagues can I join, Can I bowl every night or should I keep it to weekends. Is my collection of shirts getting out of hand? We sell a fantasy, if you think you are going to meet these girls and get lucky, think again. That is not what they are here for. Unless you have a ton of money and some real good game, it's not happening. Just an FYI, most of the girls in the business tend to hook up with Guys that have no jobs, lots of tattoos, and are kind of losers. Not all, but most. [Link] |
| StrippedSS Member 85 Posts 4/09 | Posted - Apr 20 2009 : 7:54PM [Link] |
| purplemushroom Member 73 Posts 6/07 | Posted - Apr 20 2009 : 8:12PM We also both like the more gonzo, nastier, 'politically incorrect' end of the spectrum too and as it happens my girl enjoys the so-called 'degradation' aspect of some of the harder porn a bigger turn on than me. I think 20 years ago porn wasn't so popular amongst the girlies as many of the male talent wasn't that hot, was a bit more of a grubby male hobby and simply not as accessible but the web has changed all that. My last few girlfriends before my fiance were also in to it to varying degrees and were fully aware I had a porn collection. No big deal at all. Perfectly natural. We know several couples here who also watch together and we occasionally have 'porn & pizza' parties together. We also swap movies regularly and discuss them. Its fun but I guess we are just open-minded people who don't think porn is anything sordid! Really not as big as issue in Germany maybe where sexshops are everywhere, prostitution is legal and hardcore porn is widely available (much of it far harder in content than the US). Sex is just part of life. I think the unhealthy effects occur in repressive societies where even viewing porn is seen as wrong/shameful and that means somehow sex is wrong and can mess with peoples heads. Like I say, porn is by and large just exaggerated fantasy to provide an enjoyable visual aid to masturbation usually to guy but increasingly women too. I find viewing porn as relaxing and a great release. Adult Entertainment in its purest form but I don't take it any more serious than the regular movies or TV or video games. Agree with the likes of Solidsnake, Wraithlead and Seedfeeder (great name!)...all about compatibility and keeping a sense of reality. I have always looked for girls who are sexually very openminded and independent. I'd never coerce anyone to like porn or behave in a 'porn' way in real life against their wishes because quite simply that wouldn't do it for me! I'm lucky I can use porn to inspire me and my girl sexually but we also enjoy it as entertainment. What is interesting is my girl (and many of her girlfriends) watch porn on their own and happily subscribe to websites and buy DVDs. Cool! [Link] |
| Rosco Fuji Deactivated User On the licking stick, Mr. Magic Dick! 3309 Posts 2/09 | Posted - Apr 21 2009 : 3:56PM I think the original intent of the poster was to find out how he could get girls in real life do kinky sleazy porn acrobatics. Eliminate porn girls from your thoughts, they are getting paid to do it whether they like it or not. It comes down to how much game you have and also how much patience you have. Rome wasn't built over night. If you want a girl to like anal, start with lots of lube and insert 1 or 2 fingers. After a few weeks of that, move up to 3 fingers. After she gets used to 3 fingers, get a small butt plug, use that for a few weeks, then move up to a larger butt plug. After roughly 2-3 months of constant anal play then go for the actual insertion. Remember, lots of lube, lots of patience. Same thing with tieing her up. Practice pinning her hands down over her head while you fuck her. Do this for a month or so before typing her up. The concept works for dirty talk also. Start small. Get her comfy saying, "yeah baby, that feels real good" then move up to "yeah baby, fuck me" the each time you go for it, have her say something a little raunchy. It'd be a good 6 months of so and then go for the, "Oh yeah baby, stick your cock in your little whore's ass, mouth, pussy, etc Edited by - rosco fuji on 4/21/2009 3:57:54 PM Edited by - rosco fuji on 4/21/2009 11:13:13 PM [Link] |
| killbillvol69 All-Star Member ^Lucy Pinder 18635 Posts 4/08 | Posted - Apr 21 2009 : 5:33PM Is there someone I can pay to do this for me? Some kind of service, like "PW Creators, Inc."? I bet that would do good business. Lots of busy men who wish their partners would snort cum, do ATM, beg to be tied up for some pile driver anal, etc. Just get some random extremely patient dudes to do all the "breaking in" of your woman, and then you get her back freakier than you could have ever imagined. Wait... Even better, there could be a factory where these patient dudes break in women and then send them out into the world all nasty and kinky, so that the first time a man meets a woman, she's already like that. Maybe they could make the factories so big that every woman in the world could start out there before being released into the public. Duuuuuuude. That would be fucking sweet. Maybe I could manage one of the factories, and all the girls who are ready to "graduate" can be sent to me for the final "exam". If they're not at least as dirty as Kelly Wells or Annette Schwarz, back downstairs they go until they're ready to take their exam again. [Link] |
| Rosco Fuji Deactivated User On the licking stick, Mr. Magic Dick! 3309 Posts 2/09 | Posted - Apr 21 2009 : 11:12PM [Link] |
| seedfeeder Member My balls are full, who's hungry? 716 Posts 4/09 | Posted - Apr 22 2009 : 2:04AM [Link] |
| purplemushroom Member 73 Posts 6/07 | Posted - Apr 22 2009 : 6:47AM There I was feeling lucky that I have a chick who enjoys porn, adventure and has had the colourful sexlife to prove it but now it seems 'breaking in' a chick is even more fun and satisfying! I can see the appeal of corrupting some young lady to enjoy anal gangbangs might be life-affirming! I like KillBill69's idea but I reckon that is a job tailor made for Rosco!!!! He is your CEO right there! What a service that would be. In my experience the nastiest girls are here in Germany and over in England where I come from but maybe I'm biased! The porn I love is almost all American and the girls there are off the scale too even if many do it for the money but even I know that not all American babes have the same sexual confidence and abilities of a Hillary Scott or Audrey Hollander sadly!!!! A few years ago, while between girlfiends, a few of my buddies and me went to Tallin, Estonia for a few days of drinking and hanging out and I must say the girls there were not only beautiful but also filthy as hell! So maybe THAT is the place the originator of this thread might want to go! From our random sample of around a dozen babes in that highly enjoyable weekend, anal sex and nutting on these girls faces was no problem at all...all part of enjoyable sex for them! That is just one place that stood out but I've had many similar experiences in Eastern Europe in particular where the girls are highly sexual, more submissive (they like men to be men!) and have a much more open attitude to some the wilder aspects of sex. Maybe that's why there is such a glut of gorgeous girls from places like Hungary, Ukraine and Czech Republic in porn...not just the money motivation. These girls really do enjoy nasty sex! Many girls I know have toyed with getting into porn just so they can meet guys who REALLY know how to fuck women and also have big dicks. These girls can't meet guys in their ordinary lives who can step up to the plate and satisfy THEIR lust for nasty sex! They're frustrated and often very jealous of girls who are getting this kind of sex in a seemingly safe, guilt-free environment. This is why more girls than you think now watch porn...the web has liberated them! They can use it in private just like men can but without having to go some seedy part of town and buy a tape from some sleazy adult store. I've met quite a few chicks here in Germany who would out-freak most pornsluts and are not interested in making money doing it. They just love wild sex and have a sense of fantasy and adventure. They are also girls who aren't ashamed of feeding their desires and getting what they want. Many girls want to have sex with lots of men just like many a red-blooded horny male wants to nail as much fine pussy as he can. I think porn chicks also have this high sex drive but also a big exhibitionist streak that gives them an added thrill when they have sex. The true nastiest sluts LOVE attention and being the center of it. Porn is the perfect industry for such girls and I'm sure is quite separate from their private lives. They probably have very understanding partners who realise they can cannot satisfy this side of their sexual nature and they NEED to have nasty sex with hung guys on camera! Getting paid is the icing on the cake! If you are a frustrated guy who hasn't found a girl who can keep up with your own sex drive or isn't open-minded enough to get 'freaky' then you gotta look harder...there are some seriously filthy-minded babes out there!!!! I am often shocked myself at some of the stuff my own girl enjoys sexually and comes out with when we watch porn! The main problem is many guys who would like to explore this kind of sex and enjoy porn are not honest about it from the start...they think it'll put girls off! In my experience, you gotta be yourself from the outset as you a) be pleasantly surprised when the girl you are trying to date confesses she is actually quite curious an turned on by porn and taking this to the bedroom or b) she'll recoil in horror and at least then you aren't wasting your time. Is there anything sadder some guy in a relationship with a hot looking chick who isn't at same sexual level as him and so needs to jack off in secret with his smut stash!!!!??? You are living a lie and will always be frustrated if you do this. On the other hand, some guys I know have gfs/wives who accept their guys watch porn and get their fantasies satisfied by this and they have perfectly normal, conventional, happy sex lives. With the internet there is really no excuse to not find compatible 'freaks' if this kind of sex is all you want. Or get into porn!!!! Edited by - purplemushroom on 4/22/2009 6:59:21 AM Edited by - purplemushroom on 4/22/2009 7:05:28 AM [Link] |
| Rosco Fuji Deactivated User On the licking stick, Mr. Magic Dick! 3309 Posts 2/09 | Posted - Apr 22 2009 : 5:57PM [Link] |
| RandomPrecision Senior Member Enjoy! 8175 Posts 3/06 | Posted - Apr 22 2009 : 6:35PM Edited by - randomprecision on 4/22/2009 6:35:25 PM Edited by - randomprecision on 4/22/2009 6:42:16 PM [Link] |
| Ronald Deactivated User 544 Posts 5/05 | Posted - Apr 22 2009 : 6:54PM [Link] |
| purplemushroom Member 73 Posts 6/07 | Posted - Apr 22 2009 : 7:07PM My problem is the other way. My darling is TOO into porn and is continuously wanting to try stuff plus has a thing for very hung black guys as we watch a lot of interracial movies. We both enjoy lots of black guys gangbanging white girls and she find the helpless chick being overwhelmed by very dominant, thuggish 'gangtsa' type guys with 10"+ dicks a huge turn-on and often comments on how great their bodies are and the way they manhandle the chicks. She's basically into the rougher kind of sex movies where the girls are treated like pieces of meat, pulled around by the hair and the guys brag about their sexual power, etc. For example, the other night we watched a scene on the web where a petite german cutie was being ferociously 'spit-roasted' by two of the biggest baddest hung black dudes you could imagine (I think one was Nat Turner, the other Ice Cold who is one of her fave studs and she literally drools after): this girl was on all fours being orally choked by one stud while the other was pummeling her butthole nut-deep and they were high-fiving, laughing and clearly enjoying themselves enormously! Now my girl is German too and she was so on-heat watching this plus commented how insanely jealous she was of her and how 'cool' and confident these guys were! She would happily swap places! This time she wasn't joking! This happens more and more and we have discussed how she could fulfil her lust/fantasy. Sometimes I think she is getting TOO into this stuff! Other times she is just winding me up! I think with all freaks they want to eventually push the boundaries as their sex drive gets higher and higher. That can be the danger of porn on both men and women, you need to go to the next level and see filthier, nastier, wilder! It's great! [Link] |
| Pagoda Senior Member Thread Killer 1747 Posts 10/05 | Posted - Apr 22 2009 : 7:07PM [Link] |
| killbillvol69 All-Star Member ^Lucy Pinder 18635 Posts 4/08 | Posted - Apr 22 2009 : 8:15PM This shit is genius. [Link] |
| Pagoda Senior Member Thread Killer 1747 Posts 10/05 | Posted - Apr 22 2009 : 8:23PM [Link] |
| Royal Tee Member 665 Posts 6/07 | Posted - Apr 22 2009 : 9:38PM KB,If you want a real freak you gotta got to BYU or Bob Jones. Uptight religious enviroment = Straight up FREAKS! [Link] |
| RFrog Member 396 Posts 10/07 | Posted - Apr 22 2009 : 10:03PM Many people are social drinkers who know their limits and only drink on special occasions or from time to time. Maybe they'll have one drink and that's enough. While some people are full-blown alcoholics. Alcohol destroys their relationships and their lives. [Link] |
| RFrog Member 396 Posts 10/07 | Posted - Apr 22 2009 : 10:06PM But when the drug wears off, the pain is still there. Porn would probably work the same way: Use porn to get aroused and enjoy intense sexual pleasure, but when it's over, it's over... and the emotional pain returns. In that case, get help or work on your emotional troubles, because using porn as a crutch won't help. [Link] |
| RandomPrecision Senior Member Enjoy! 8175 Posts 3/06 | Posted - Apr 22 2009 : 10:57PM [Link] |
| RandomPrecision Senior Member Enjoy! 8175 Posts 3/06 | Posted - Apr 22 2009 : 11:09PM Edited by - randomprecision on 4/22/2009 11:10:51 PM [Link] |
| RFrog Member 396 Posts 10/07 | Posted - Apr 22 2009 : 11:40PM I'm just trying to "help" and offer some kind of insight. Fine. I'll go watch some porn now... after I finish my beer. [Link] |
| dhammer Member 9 Posts 1/09 | Posted - Apr 23 2009 : 1:59AM [Link] |
| HotMandy Member 38 Posts 4/09 | Posted - Apr 23 2009 : 7:32AM [Link] |
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| fu_q All-Star Member Marv Montag (@PornOfYore) 2506 Posts 2/09 | Posted - Apr 23 2009 : 11:07AM As long as everything is kept in perspective, and people realize that it's just entertainment, I don't personally see why so many people are against it. [Link] |
| rski Deactivated User 282 Posts 10/04 | Posted - Apr 23 2009 : 11:41AM Personally I think porn has helped me, I never had too many girls in my teens but once in my 20s things started to happen in that area and I was sexually confident, not in a conscious I’m a sex god way, I just felt comfortable with women sexually and knew how to make them feel comfortable and excited. I think porn played a part in this, I knew what to expect and what stuff I wanted to as well as sense what they liked and would be willing to do. As for getting a partner to get more experimental, as someone said, I agree it is all about trust, once you have that girls will be willing to do a lot and they might expect you to do a few things as well, strap-on time! [Link] |
| rski Deactivated User 282 Posts 10/04 | Posted - Apr 23 2009 : 11:48AM LOL, that’s a lot of time and investment, what if she dumps you after 6 months? [Link] |
| seedfeeder Member My balls are full, who's hungry? 716 Posts 4/09 | Posted - Apr 23 2009 : 1:17PM [Link] |
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