Advice For Getting the Most From Masturbation

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Hubardo Member He gave himself to the river and it carried him away 213 Posts 8/17	Posted - Dec 6 2020 : 9:19AM I'm going to share my own advice, but everyone else should feel free to share theirs as well. I've experimented plenty over the years and have found certain things that have really increased the pleasure I get from masturbating. I'll list them in order of "biggest difference" to "least-big difference." 1. Prostate stimulation Like most guys (I imagine) I was pretty leery of trying this, but, holy hell, I can't stress how much of a difference it's made. The prostate has as many nerve endings as the penis and can have its own version of an orgasm that feels entirely different than a regular orgasm: more like a full-body ecstasy type feeling, and it can last for minutes if you concentrate hard enough. Even without the P-Orgasm, prostate stimulation will increase the intensity of your regular orgasms by a ton because it plays such a huge role in that already. After getting into it I've tried various massagers and the best I've found is this one: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07GKXF8YR/ (not affiliated with the company/manufacturer in any way). It's small enough that it's easy to forget it's even in, and unlike most it has a "wave motion" that's basically like a finger putting pressure on it. This feels very different than just vibration, and both can be extremely pleasurable. I've also found that, of all the various things I've tried to improve masturbation, this is the thing that doesn't seem to "get old" or lose much of its effect. Of course, your 100th time probably won't be as good as your first several, but that's true of anything regarding sex. 2. Fleshlights After using these it's hard going back to my hand and sometimes these can feel even better than a real pussy. The first few times using this was probably the most intense orgasm I'd ever had, and while that effect has lessened with time, I still find them much better than the alternative. The different textures are fun to play with/mix up too (for those who have them: don't forget to try the OTHER end occasionally!). 3. Edging Basically the process of bringing yourself close to orgasm but holding back. The longer you do this, the more intense the eventual orgasm will be. It takes patience and discipline, but I've "edged" for hours before and it does make the orgasm a lot better. The effectiveness does decrease the more you do it, though. 4. Cannabis Pretty self explanatory. Weed makes most everything better. I've found that I especially love close-up/POV porn when I'm high, like cowgirl with a camera right up on a big, beautiful ass is just heavenly. Something about the tactile nature of everything is enhanced. Cannabis also messes with your sense of time so that when you orgasm not only does it feel more intense, but it seems to last much longer. These effects do lessen considerably the more you do it, though. I still enjoy masturbation (and sex!) more when high, but not as much as I used to when it was all really new. 5. Nipple stimulation This will probably be hit-or-miss with most guys, but I have found that my nipples are sensitive enough to where I can rub them and easily get an erection and even induce those little "spasms." One great use I've found for this is that if you only do nipple stimulation for a long session you can really build up your sensitivity so that when you finally do start actually stimulating your penis (via hand or toy) it will feel much more intense. 6. Longer sessions Most of the above tools work better when you're willing to take your time rather than just rubbing one out as fast as possible. This is good because it means more time to watch more porn! I've found the "sweet spot" (for me) is 2-3 hours. I basically look at it as another form of entertainment like watching a movie. 7. Frequency of sessions This will also be different for all guys, but how often you masturbate will have a huge impact on how good it all feels. I've found I can easily masturbate twice a day, but at that frequency each session is less pleasurable the orgasm less intense. I've found the sweet spot for me is actually about 3-5 times a week. At that frequency every session is really pleasurable the whole way through. I've tried going longer and find that it's really diminishing returns after that. Though I recently went 11 days because an ice storm knocked out the electricity for that long. When I came back I was really too sensitive to enjoy a long session, but I will say the first few sessions after that were more intense than usual. Even so I wouldn't want to wait that long just for the added intensity, but YMMV. [Link]
mcs1025 Member 70 Posts 7/13	Posted - Dec 7 2020 : 11:57AM I like to masturbate while others are around, in a legal setting of course. I go to an adult swinger's hotel / club and sit around and masturbate while others are all around me, some just walking around, some conversing with others, and some having sex--either solo or with another person. It is wildly orgasmic for me to be so sexual and animalistic in front of everyone like that. [Link]
BigLoads New Member 1 Posts 5/20	Posted - Dec 28 2020 : 3:54PM Hands down, cannabis is the best orgasm and masturbation enhancer I've ever found. [Link]
MegaPajizo Member 11 Posts 11/20	Posted - Jan 7 2021 : 3:56PM At least for me, doing it with another guy is the most enjoyable way to masturbate. It's not everyone's cup of tea, but watching porn with another dude and crank one out is an amazing experience. Sadly, there aren't many guys who enjoy those kinds of acts. [Link]
Pr0nLover Deactivated User 247 Posts 1/19	Posted - Jan 7 2021 : 9:35PM Is that prostate stimulator good for beginners or does one need more experience to take it on? Hubardo wrote: I'm going to share my own advice, but everyone else should feel free to share theirs as well. I've experimented plenty over the years and have found certain things that have really increased the pleasure I get from masturbating. I'll list them in order of "biggest difference" to "least-big difference." 1. Prostate stimulation Like most guys (I imagine) I was pretty leery of trying this, but, holy hell, I can't stress how much of a difference it's made. The prostate has as many nerve endings as the penis and can have its own version of an orgasm that feels entirely different than a regular orgasm: more like a full-body ecstasy type feeling, and it can last for minutes if you concentrate hard enough. Even without the P-Orgasm, prostate stimulation will increase the intensity of your regular orgasms by a ton because it plays such a huge role in that already. After getting into it I've tried various massagers and the best I've found is this one: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07GKXF8YR/ (not affiliated with the company/manufacturer in any way). It's small enough that it's easy to forget it's even in, and unlike most it has a "wave motion" that's basically like a finger putting pressure on it. This feels very different than just vibration, and both can be extremely pleasurable. I've also found that, of all the various things I've tried to improve masturbation, this is the thing that doesn't seem to "get old" or lose much of its effect. Of course, your 100th time probably won't be as good as your first several, but that's true of anything regarding sex. 2. Fleshlights After using these it's hard going back to my hand and sometimes these can feel even better than a real pussy. The first few times using this was probably the most intense orgasm I'd ever had, and while that effect has lessened with time, I still find them much better than the alternative. The different textures are fun to play with/mix up too (for those who have them: don't forget to try the OTHER end occasionally!). 3. Edging Basically the process of bringing yourself close to orgasm but holding back. The longer you do this, the more intense the eventual orgasm will be. It takes patience and discipline, but I've "edged" for hours before and it does make the orgasm a lot better. The effectiveness does decrease the more you do it, though. 4. Cannabis Pretty self explanatory. Weed makes most everything better. I've found that I especially love close-up/POV porn when I'm high, like cowgirl with a camera right up on a big, beautiful ass is just heavenly. Something about the tactile nature of everything is enhanced. Cannabis also messes with your sense of time so that when you orgasm not only does it feel more intense, but it seems to last much longer. These effects do lessen considerably the more you do it, though. I still enjoy masturbation (and sex!) more when high, but not as much as I used to when it was all really new. 5. Nipple stimulation This will probably be hit-or-miss with most guys, but I have found that my nipples are sensitive enough to where I can rub them and easily get an erection and even induce those little "spasms." One great use I've found for this is that if you only do nipple stimulation for a long session you can really build up your sensitivity so that when you finally do start actually stimulating your penis (via hand or toy) it will feel much more intense. 6. Longer sessions Most of the above tools work better when you're willing to take your time rather than just rubbing one out as fast as possible. This is good because it means more time to watch more porn! I've found the "sweet spot" (for me) is 2-3 hours. I basically look at it as another form of entertainment like watching a movie. 7. Frequency of sessions This will also be different for all guys, but how often you masturbate will have a huge impact on how good it all feels. I've found I can easily masturbate twice a day, but at that frequency each session is less pleasurable the orgasm less intense. I've found the sweet spot for me is actually about 3-5 times a week. At that frequency every session is really pleasurable the whole way through. I've tried going longer and find that it's really diminishing returns after that. Though I recently went 11 days because an ice storm knocked out the electricity for that long. When I came back I was really too sensitive to enjoy a long session, but I will say the first few sessions after that were more intense than usual. Even so I wouldn't want to wait that long just for the added intensity, but YMMV. Click to expand Edited by - Pr0nlover on 1/7/2021 9:36:09 PM [Link]

Hubardo Member He gave himself to the river and it carried him away 213 Posts 8/17	Posted - Jan 14 2021 : 11:13AM Pr0nLover wrote: Is that prostate stimulator good for beginners or does one need more experience to take it on? Hubardo wrote: I'm going to share my own advice, but everyone else should feel free to share theirs as well. I've experimented plenty over the years and have found certain things that have really increased the pleasure I get from masturbating. I'll list them in order of "biggest difference" to "least-big difference." 1. Prostate stimulation Like most guys (I imagine) I was pretty leery of trying this, but, holy hell, I can't stress how much of a difference it's made. The prostate has as many nerve endings as the penis and can have its own version of an orgasm that feels entirely different than a regular orgasm: more like a full-body ecstasy type feeling, and it can last for minutes if you concentrate hard enough. Even without the P-Orgasm, prostate stimulation will increase the intensity of your regular orgasms by a ton because it plays such a huge role in that already. After getting into it I've tried various massagers and the best I've found is this one: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07GKXF8YR/ (not affiliated with the company/manufacturer in any way). It's small enough that it's easy to forget it's even in, and unlike most it has a "wave motion" that's basically like a finger putting pressure on it. This feels very different than just vibration, and both can be extremely pleasurable. I've also found that, of all the various things I've tried to improve masturbation, this is the thing that doesn't seem to "get old" or lose much of its effect. Of course, your 100th time probably won't be as good as your first several, but that's true of anything regarding sex. 2. Fleshlights After using these it's hard going back to my hand and sometimes these can feel even better than a real pussy. The first few times using this was probably the most intense orgasm I'd ever had, and while that effect has lessened with time, I still find them much better than the alternative. The different textures are fun to play with/mix up too (for those who have them: don't forget to try the OTHER end occasionally!). 3. Edging Basically the process of bringing yourself close to orgasm but holding back. The longer you do this, the more intense the eventual orgasm will be. It takes patience and discipline, but I've "edged" for hours before and it does make the orgasm a lot better. The effectiveness does decrease the more you do it, though. 4. Cannabis Pretty self explanatory. Weed makes most everything better. I've found that I especially love close-up/POV porn when I'm high, like cowgirl with a camera right up on a big, beautiful ass is just heavenly. Something about the tactile nature of everything is enhanced. Cannabis also messes with your sense of time so that when you orgasm not only does it feel more intense, but it seems to last much longer. These effects do lessen considerably the more you do it, though. I still enjoy masturbation (and sex!) more when high, but not as much as I used to when it was all really new. 5. Nipple stimulation This will probably be hit-or-miss with most guys, but I have found that my nipples are sensitive enough to where I can rub them and easily get an erection and even induce those little "spasms." One great use I've found for this is that if you only do nipple stimulation for a long session you can really build up your sensitivity so that when you finally do start actually stimulating your penis (via hand or toy) it will feel much more intense. 6. Longer sessions Most of the above tools work better when you're willing to take your time rather than just rubbing one out as fast as possible. This is good because it means more time to watch more porn! I've found the "sweet spot" (for me) is 2-3 hours. I basically look at it as another form of entertainment like watching a movie. 7. Frequency of sessions This will also be different for all guys, but how often you masturbate will have a huge impact on how good it all feels. I've found I can easily masturbate twice a day, but at that frequency each session is less pleasurable the orgasm less intense. I've found the sweet spot for me is actually about 3-5 times a week. At that frequency every session is really pleasurable the whole way through. I've tried going longer and find that it's really diminishing returns after that. Though I recently went 11 days because an ice storm knocked out the electricity for that long. When I came back I was really too sensitive to enjoy a long session, but I will say the first few sessions after that were more intense than usual. Even so I wouldn't want to wait that long just for the added intensity, but YMMV. Click to expand Edited by - Pr0nlover on 1/7/2021 9:36:09 PM Click to expand It's both the best one I've tried for beginners and the best one I've tried period. It's great for beginners because it's really small and comfortable, maybe a bit larger than a finger. It's the only one I own that I can comfortably leave in for hours. It's the best I've tried overall because the "wave motion" effect is an awesome addition to the usual vibration modes. EDIT: I will add the only caveat is that the "wave motion" maybe prone to malfunctioning. I'm on my second one as the wave motion broke on the first, but thankfully Amazon took it back and replaced it for free. On my new one the first setting in the wave motion mode doesn't work very well, but the other modes are still working fine. Edited by - Hubardo on 1/16/2021 12:56:14 AM [Link]
user1508 New Member 2 Posts 1/21	Posted - Jan 15 2021 : 8:30AM MegaPajizo wrote: At least for me, doing it with another guy is the most enjoyable way to masturbate. It's not everyone's cup of tea, but watching porn with another dude and crank one out is an amazing experience. Sadly, there aren't many guys who enjoy those kinds of acts. Click to expand I agree [Link]
Rou933 New Member 4 Posts 12/20	Posted - Jan 17 2021 : 10:10AM I use fleshlights to jerk. It's really hot!!! Btw, do you guys know if these lubes are okay? No allergic reaction or skin irritation? [Link]
rakhidas Deactivated User 2 Posts 3/21	Posted - Mar 26 2021 : 3:44AM Masturbation while waching porn its a real fantasy for me. [Link]
Lenny Voyeur Senior Member It's the ass, stupid! 8504 Posts 2/07	Posted - Mar 30 2021 : 4:06PM I read the thread today for the first time. Thanx and respect to the OP for these detailed informations. Cannabis really worked out well for me for a couple of years but the positive effect was lost finally. [Link]
2manyDVDs Member 155 Posts 4/21	Posted - Apr 14 2021 : 4:30PM Might be considered gay or too kinky but creaming on yourself does it for me. Nothing too taboo here, right? [Link]
Hubardo Member He gave himself to the river and it carried him away 213 Posts 8/17	Posted - Apr 20 2021 : 10:34AM Lenny Voyeur wrote: I read the thread today for the first time. Thanx and respect to the OP for these detailed informations. Cannabis really worked out well for me for a couple of years but the positive effect was lost finally. Click to expand Thanks, and you're welcome. Like with most things I have found that it helps if you take cannabis breaks so that when you come back to it you're more sensitive to its effects. Mixing up strains and intake methods (I alternate vaping and oil) helps too, especially because any edible variety actually releases a different form of THC compared to smoking/vaping. [Link]
Muse Deactivated User 107 Posts 3/21	Posted - May 6 2021 : 5:19PM Use socks. You don't need anything else, no lube, no condom and it doesn't make a mess. Jerk off with a sock over your cock it gives so much stimulation from the texture. For beginners this is probably too much or even unpleasant, but if you persist you ejaculate so hard every time. I get shaky legs while doing it and get an orgasm with 14 contractions every time. I'm totally addicted :) Sometimes after ejaculating in my (clean but soaked) sock I smell it and it's so good. It makes me horny and I get right back into the mood. I can masturbate an hour or longer no problem to get another one of those super orgasms. Although the second time there's definitely less semen. After that, I feel like I don't have any more which is satisfying. The backside of an electric toothbrush on vibrate in the anus and pushing it towards/against the prostate is also very nice but I never had an orgasm just from that without any other stimulation. Massage your balls with the waterjet from the shower. Very nice feeling especially if you also pee at the same time. I also love to play with glass marbles. Multiple, big and heavy ones (4.5cm or 1.8inch) to fill up my rectum. You can feel the pressure and weight pushing against the prostate. You can combine this with the toothbrush stimulation or you can push out marbles and repeat until your sphincter muscle is totally relaxed. I do this in the shower because it can get messy and needs some cleaning. [Link]
ironKnight Deactivated User 2524 Posts 4/21	Posted - May 8 2021 : 4:27AM I need an advice or suggestion on Lubes . I have been using only natural based products like coconut oil and stuff but really want to explore something new . [Link]
YourFisting Deactivated User 3 Posts 5/21	Posted - May 21 2021 : 5:17AM Muse wrote: Use socks. You don't need anything else, no lube, no condom and it doesn't make a mess. Jerk off with a sock over your cock it gives so much stimulation from the texture. For beginners this is probably too much or even unpleasant, but if you persist you ejaculate so hard every time. I get shaky legs while doing it and get an orgasm with 14 contractions every time. I'm totally addicted :) Sometimes after ejaculating in my (clean but soaked) sock I smell it and it's so good. It makes me horny and I get right back into the mood. I can masturbate an hour or longer no problem to get another one of those super orgasms. Although the second time there's definitely less semen. After that, I feel like I don't have any more which is satisfying. The backside of an electric toothbrush on vibrate in the anus and pushing it towards/against the prostate is also very nice but I never had an orgasm just from that without any other stimulation. Massage your balls with the waterjet from the shower. Very nice feeling especially if you also pee at the same time. I also love to play with glass marbles. Multiple, big and heavy ones (4.5cm or 1.8inch) to fill up my rectum. You can feel the pressure and weight pushing against the prostate. You can combine this with the toothbrush stimulation or you can push out marbles and repeat until your sphincter muscle is totally relaxed. I do this in the shower because it can get messy and needs some cleaning. Click to expand Oh, God. Are you a DIY guru? A lot easier to purchase a stroker or fleshlight like this. There are a lot of discounts, Black Friday etc. if it's too expensive for you. Take care! [Link]

Muse Deactivated User 107 Posts 3/21	Posted - May 23 2021 : 8:26PM ^ a fleshlight is too sticky so you need lube. It's messy and not discreet. Cleaning and drying afterwards is annoying. A sock you just throw in the washer and you're done. With a sock you can control pressure and use various textures for different feel. And yea it costs nothing in comparison but that's not the point. [Link]
Slector Member 655 Posts 2/14	Posted - May 24 2021 : 7:39AM I've tried a lot of things for jacking off in my life, but I can't say I've ever thought of using a sock. That just sounds like it would rub your dick raw. I think I'm going to pass on that one. [Link]
Muse Deactivated User 107 Posts 3/21	Posted - May 24 2021 : 8:30AM ^ it's definitely intense but never even had blisters. You can use different techniques like having a few pressure points by pinching 2-3-4-5 fingers instead of using your whole hand. So there's less friction from the sock and you still get the benefit of stimulating all nerve endings by the rubbing of the sock to get a strong orgasm everytime. [Link]
Hubardo Member He gave himself to the river and it carried him away 213 Posts 8/17	Posted - May 24 2021 : 9:23AM Muse wrote: ^ a fleshlight is too sticky so you need lube. It's messy and not discreet. Cleaning and drying afterwards is annoying. A sock you just throw in the washer and you're done. With a sock you can control pressure and use various textures for different feel. And yea it costs nothing in comparison but that's not the point. Click to expand Fleshlights aren't messy as long as you don't overdo the lube, and cleanup is far easier than having to do a load of laundry for just a sock! I'll give you the point about price, but no sock is going to feel as close to a pussy/ass than a Fleshlight, and if you've got the cash they have a ton of different textures to try. [Link]
Muse Deactivated User 107 Posts 3/21	Posted - May 24 2021 : 9:38AM ^ it goes with the other dirty laundry. :) [Link]
Hubardo Member He gave himself to the river and it carried him away 213 Posts 8/17	Posted - May 25 2021 : 4:26AM ^ I only do laundry maybe once a month... that's a lot of splooge socks! [Link]
Slector Member 655 Posts 2/14	Posted - May 25 2021 : 7:45AM I think the main problem from the sock method is your dick is going to get so desensitized from that kind of friction that a real pussy is going to feel like nothing at all. [Link]
Muse Deactivated User 107 Posts 3/21	Posted - May 25 2021 : 8:29AM ^ in my experience it only makes me last longer and reach higher peaks. If I can't have sex I do it every day. Masturbating a lot has the same effect. [Link]
cupidboutique New Member 1 Posts 8/21	Posted - Aug 11 2021 : 6:26AM Would like to share some tips on how get the most out of masturbation: Masturbation doesn't have to be a quickie in the bathroom! You can plan your alone time just like you would anything else There's no reason to stick to the same routine while masturbating. Instead, add some excitement by switching up positions. Don't hurry, taking your time to discover what turns you on could lead to a better orgasm Change hand just like switching position Try different types strokes Don't forget you prostate There are a number of toys available for people with penises that can add loads of fun to a solo session (check out: https://cupidboutique.com/) [Link]
bingfan Member 15 Posts 6/21	Posted - Aug 16 2021 : 9:19AM First: Sleeves: Jerk off Sleeves designed from Japan are extremely satisfying and inexpensive. Also, Japanese Lubes are soooooooooo much better. They're slimy and a lot more biological feeling than the stuff we get...For more advanced and those who have a dedicated room: fuckable hips are pretty awesome especially if you have VR. VR Goggles! holy crap, even flat screen videos are amazing. In fact, when the director has it all just-right, its better than actual videos shot in VR. You can move the screen to make it as if it's your own imaginable giant building sized dick destroying hoards of vaginas, asses and throats of gorgeous girls beyond most mortal reach. POV BJs, reverse-Cowgirl and Doggy style views with goggles are amazing. In some moments, my imagination is so much stronger, I actually caused "premature ejaculation" even from holding still (is there such a thing as premature ejaculation for jerking off?). It has actually made me multi-orgasmic. Combined with a huge toke from the bong, a sleeve attached to your cock, or a hip on a bench, VR immersion... you can almost feel her insides. You're so much more of the performer than the observer. Edited by - bingfan on 8/16/2021 9:31:17 AM [Link]

Flawless34 New Member 4 Posts 9/21	Posted - Sep 24 2021 : 5:32AM There is one fantasy I would like to explore and that is sex dolls. I particularly like the ones that are made like Japanese dolls. They are expensive, there's no doubt about that, but it's mostly the idea of doing it in a different way. I know a lot of people are afraid of some taboos but maybe it's something interesting and makes masturbation more pleasurable. [Link]
Slector Member 655 Posts 2/14	Posted - Sep 24 2021 : 12:54PM I would fuck a sex doll in a heartbeat!! I would even buy one. The problem is what to do with it when you are not having 'funtime"....Do you just put it in a closet or under the bed or what? That would seem creepy to me, like having a dead body or something hid away. Too weird. I'd rather have something like that chick in Bladerunner 2049. [Link]