I'm a guy and I'm going to be doing my first porn as a sub in a femdom movie. Right now I have a few things tentatively schedule with a couple different producers, and they look like they do pretty hard movies for the most part. I was wondering if anyone had any advice or if anyone on this forum has ever been in a femdom movie before? Thanks !! Edited by - sub4dom on Oct 4 2013 Edited by - sub4dom on Oct 4 2013
Besides the fear of someone I know or close to me recognizing me naked on camera having sex, being done up the butt with a strap on, or humiliated I'm not sure what I else I should be prepared for. I realize that being recognized is all of porn and comes with the territory, but this is pretty hardcore and degrading stuff. I'm pretty sure I want to do it, the only thing that scares me is I think most parents of porn stars would be upset if they found out..what would a parent do in femdom is they see their kid's ass out gaping and him doing very degrading things while being owned on by a girl lol. Edited by - sub4dom on 10/4/2013 11:41:52 PM
I think if the parents are gonna get weirded out by your being in porn, the particular type of porn you did would be considered (by them) as a distinction without a difference.
Yeah you're probably right. These are pretty hard movies though even as far as most porn is concerned .. I'm going to be doing things like whipping and hitting and also done with a huge strap on, possibly fisted, forced bi, etc. etc. Edited by - sub4dom on 10/5/2013 12:28:59 AM
You're going to lose your dignity, but if you want to be dominated that's part of the package, ya know? Maybe you can wear a mask so people you know won't easily recognize you. Also have a non-verbal safe word (like a signal). If your dom has you choking on dildo, you won't be able to say the word.
My advice: Either take that real or plastic cock (or flogger, etc.) with confidence and pride, or don't perform in the shoot. There's no way to prevent your friends and family from searching for you on the internet if they hear about it, so you should either be willing to deal with the consequences or don't go to set.
I think if it's what you enjoy or want to try, have at it. It's something I'd never be interested in watching/trying but that's me. Don't worry about what others think. There's shit I'm into that I'm sure plenty of people would never watch/do. Have fun
If that's what you really want to do, do it. Tattoos are permanent, sexual humiliation, which is what this is, is fleeting. Yes, YOUR sexual humiliation will be forever documented; but that's what you want because it's sooo humiliating.
Someone else's opinion shouldn't drive you to do or not to do something. If you are having internal dilemma of whether this is something you feel like you should do, then hold off and think about it. You can't undo making an adult film. If this is something you want to do, then you should go for it and not worry about what other people think.
Who needs a loaded gun these days lol,sub if you are lucky the girl might blindfold you and whisper in your ear "how about we play a game of milk the cow" lol
I know they want me to go really hard, which is why I'm wondering what everyone thinks. There's no turning back after this one because I'm sure between these shoots I'm being asked to do I'll probably do every fetish.
There might also be no sitting down for 3 weeks lol. Good luck sub guy im sure it will all go well as soon as the action starts and the nerves fade you will be fine.
I don't know.....I've never seen one. Like I said it's not my thing but if that's what you like then DO IT!! I think maybe you want people here to put you down to humiliate you more. That's it huh?
^No I like lots of different genres from soft lesbian action from Girlfriends Films to KINK.com harder action to German Goo Girls bukkake and piss movies etc and having just checked out Strap Some Boyz from Joey Silvera the lucky guy was paired up with Remy LaCroix,i have not tried any role play action like that in my private life so having an option to watch it on dvd is great..then my mind can wander that im maybe Remy's "bitch" for the day ha ha.
I'm curious as to how did OP get into this situation? You seem unconcerned about the physical aspects of taking a fist or giant sextoy anally. What is your experience level, and did you have to prove (to the studio) that you are able to deliver the scene they want? Or is it unimportant to them, regarding you are very experienced vs. a first-timer?
I just applied and I guess they liked me. I don't know if I'm taking an actual fist, but I think one of the scenes might be a strap on about the size of one. Edited by - sub4dom on 10/13/2013 2:57:20 AM
I guess there's a market for it and a lot of guys are probably fantasizing about what it feels like to be on the receiving end of sex and getting humped by some hot girl. But you gotta be aware that we live in the digital age and that this movie will most likely never go away and be around for years in some pirated version. So you might want to think about it because this can really ruin any future career choices (outside of porn).