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gainsbarre
Member


You can be crazy or ugly, but not both.
122 Posts
6/04
Posted - Dec 26 2007 : 4:31AM
I recently created a profile on Lustlab, a kinked up personals site in Seattle and have been surprised by the number of women who are on there because they find men to be too vanilla. One of them said in their profile, "when did all the men become pussies in the bedroom?"
Maybe I'm out of it, but I had assumed the more aggressive porn that's been available for the last decade or so had influenced our generation into becoming more adventurous, animalistic, love-freaks. Or was that just me? I'm not claiming to be Rocco Siffredi, but I can tell you I started getting more dominant and direct in the bedroom a couple of years ago and boy, did it get a positive response!
I talked to a friend about this and he agreed that porn had influenced his sexual performance; he had never thought of face fucking until he saw a Gag Factor video and when he began doing it with his next GF, she loved it! However, he assumed porn had influenced a lot of guys and that men in general were probably kinkier than they had been before, but now I wonder...
So, I guess my question for men would be, has porn influenced your sexual aggressiveness over the last couple of years? And for women, are men aggressive enough to your liking or are most of them pussies in the bedroom?
stinkfist
Senior Member

Subterfuge......
7401 Posts
4/07
Posted - Dec 26 2007 : 6:49PM
I have watched loads of so called aggressive porn over the years and it does not mirror what i get up to in my sex life at all...i lied.
ma meeshka
Iconoclastic Member

3939 Posts
4/06
Posted - Dec 26 2007 : 7:25PM
possibly because they want decent guys who can also fuck like rabid wolves. it's possible that all of the decent guys have been watching sex and the city, while all of the douche bags have been watching meatholes, and there are only two or three people in the middle who are watching both.
perhaps people who like aggressive porn are the people who aren't getting laid.
BlackSix All-Star Supporter
All-Star Member

pornography wasn't sex but fantasies of an impossibly hospitable world
12377 Posts
9/07
Posted - Dec 27 2007 : 4:09AM
Short answer: no.
Joey Starr
Senior Member

Still wanking after all these years.
8082 Posts
10/00
Posted - Dec 27 2007 : 5:07AM
No.
 
Kensington Chapp
Senior Citizen

Mine is the biggest.
610 Posts
7/07
Posted - Dec 29 2007 : 9:31AM
It seems to me that being aggressive with women takes a lot of intuition; if you're aggressive in the courting phase, she runs away and calls the cops.
On the other hand, I've heard/read/whatever many a woman complain about guys not being "manly" enough in bed.
Then again, they also complain about lack of foreplay and "love-making"; foreplay and love-making are not "manly" things!!
WTF??? You can't have it every feckin' way.
Edited by - kensington chapp on 12/29/2007 9:33:37 AM
lindi
Senior Member

12345
3205 Posts
9/02
Posted - Dec 29 2007 : 3:39PM
Maybe it's not the exact same women making the seemingly contradictory complaints.
Maybe some of them are with men who are short on foreplay, and others are with wussy men.
Or maybe all women are not alike, and some like more foreplay than others, and some like more aggressiveness than others.
Or maybe a man can be short on foreplay, and still not aggressive. Like just stick it in, come, and grunt and roll over. Thankfully, not in my life! But so I've heard. Maybe some guys treat women like a fleshlight.
Kensington Chapp
Senior Citizen

Mine is the biggest.
610 Posts
7/07
Posted - Dec 29 2007 : 5:07PM
lindi I apologise if my post came across (grunt, roll over) as a bitch about women being contrary.
What I mean is that I've often heard women complain about lack of foreplay AND not being manly enough in bed. Such as my past female associates.
What I want is a damn signal to say when she's ready for more dominant behaviour.
In my experience, girls have a tendency to expect a man to somehow magically "know" what she wants, or indeed what's wrong when she's upset.
If the guy doesn't, that *must* mean he doesn't love her.
Sorry about the ranting

I really shouldn't be here
lindi
Senior Member

12345
3205 Posts
9/02
Posted - Dec 30 2007 : 2:52AM
Hey, I'm just laughing through the last few posts. Not too serious.
I "get" it, on both sides!



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