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| gainsbarre Member You can be crazy or ugly, but not both. 122 Posts 6/04 | I recently created a profile on Lustlab, a kinked up personals site in Seattle and have been surprised by the number of women who are on there because they find men to be too vanilla. One of them said in their profile, "when did all the men become pussies in the bedroom?" Maybe I'm out of it, but I had assumed the more aggressive porn that's been available for the last decade or so had influenced our generation into becoming more adventurous, animalistic, love-freaks. Or was that just me? I'm not claiming to be Rocco Siffredi, but I can tell you I started getting more dominant and direct in the bedroom a couple of years ago and boy, did it get a positive response! I talked to a friend about this and he agreed that porn had influenced his sexual performance; he had never thought of face fucking until he saw a Gag Factor video and when he began doing it with his next GF, she loved it! However, he assumed porn had influenced a lot of guys and that men in general were probably kinkier than they had been before, but now I wonder... So, I guess my question for men would be, has porn influenced your sexual aggressiveness over the last couple of years? And for women, are men aggressive enough to your liking or are most of them pussies in the bedroom? [Link] |
| stinkfist Senior Member Subterfuge...... 7401 Posts 4/07 | |
| ma meeshka Iconoclastic Member 3939 Posts 4/06 | perhaps people who like aggressive porn are the people who aren't getting laid. |
| BlackSix All-Star Member pornography wasn't sex but fantasies of an impossibly hospitable world 12377 Posts 9/07 | |
| Joey Starr Senior Member Still wanking after all these years. 8082 Posts 10/00 | |
| Kensington Chapp Senior Citizen Mine is the biggest. 610 Posts 7/07 | On the other hand, I've heard/read/whatever many a woman complain about guys not being "manly" enough in bed. Then again, they also complain about lack of foreplay and "love-making"; foreplay and love-making are not "manly" things!! WTF??? You can't have it every feckin' way. Edited by - kensington chapp on 12/29/2007 9:33:37 AM |
| lindi Senior Member 12345 3205 Posts 9/02 | Maybe some of them are with men who are short on foreplay, and others are with wussy men. Or maybe all women are not alike, and some like more foreplay than others, and some like more aggressiveness than others. Or maybe a man can be short on foreplay, and still not aggressive. Like just stick it in, come, and grunt and roll over. Thankfully, not in my life! But so I've heard. Maybe some guys treat women like a fleshlight. |
| Kensington Chapp Senior Citizen Mine is the biggest. 610 Posts 7/07 | What I mean is that I've often heard women complain about lack of foreplay AND not being manly enough in bed. Such as my past female associates. What I want is a damn signal to say when she's ready for more dominant behaviour. In my experience, girls have a tendency to expect a man to somehow magically "know" what she wants, or indeed what's wrong when she's upset. If the guy doesn't, that *must* mean he doesn't love her. Sorry about the ranting I really shouldn't be here |
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