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Dan
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Posted - Jul 29 2013 : 9:08AM
In a recent discussion in this forum somebody said:
[url=257544]"Most eastern european porn models are dead inside IMO. They appear like robots during sex. Cold, no energy, no enthusiasm, no emotions.
Yes, they are pretty but the sex is boring."[/url]
I'd say that there is some of this is going in most porn films and not just in porn films made with Eastern European porn actresses.
The problem is that porn actors and actresses hardly ever say anything to each other during their sex. They are just going through the motions and positions in such a smooth way, without saying anything to each other, that they seem almost pre-programmed, the way robots would be.
During real sex, the fucking guy would at least say to his lady, "Now your ass!". And if his lady is willing to take such a drilling, then she would at least smile at the guy and assume the position for him. Or she could tease him a little for being such a naughty boy with his enormous toy, before bending over for him and spreading her sexy ass-cheeks.
Most porn-films are missing the human factor in them. Because the actors and the actresses never call each other by their first names during their encounter. And they never make it personal in the 'I-You' kind of way. The guy never says to the lady, "Now your pussy!", to get some kind of response and reaction from her, before he penetrates her. And the lady never complements the guy, "Oh! You are so big!", before she puts his pole inside her asshole all the way to his balls.
Just the lady and the guy having an 'I-You' kind of personal interaction with each other during their sex with each other would make them both look a lot more human and real and a lot less robotic.
Martin Buber, a famous philosopher of relationships, would probably say that modern porn looks like an 'I-It' kind of sex between the guy and the woman. And he would recommend making porn an 'I-Thou' kind of sex to make it more interesting and enthralling. Because an 'I-It' kind of sex is very limited and lifeless. Whereas an 'I-Thou' kind of sex takes away the limits and puts endless horizons on it.
The way to do it is to get the guy to say "I-You" towards the lady: "I want to fuck you!", "Sally, I want your ass in spoon!", "Now your pussy", and then "Ooops! I missed it. Sorry, I got your ass instead."
The guy can say "Mary, me and my friend are going to DP you now!" to get some kind of response and reaction from the lady, before they DP her. The lady's pre-DP face is something many viewers would really enjoy watching, even as she watches her guys get into position to DP her.
Anals and DPs don't always need to come as a surprise. A lot of viewers want to see the lady's face, when she realizes that the guy is about to nail her pussy or ass, or two guys are going to DP her. All you need to do is show the lady's face, when her pussy guy says to her, "Now your ass!"
This kind of thing doesn't really take any kind of special acting skills. Anyone can do it. Because any kind 'I-You' saying will do, as long as it's related to their sex, and the camera shows their faces. Because it doesn't make sense to say 'I-You' without showing the faces of the 'I' and the 'You. You need to see who the 'I' is and who the 'You' is. Without the faces, it ends up being disembodied voices. Which destroys the 'I-You' humanizing effect.
And of course, the lady can also say some things to her guys in the 'I-You' kind of way to humanize her sex with her guys. During her DP, the lady can say "Oh, you guys! You are really filling me up here", and she can turn around and pinch her anal-guy's nipple to encourage him to do the same with her. Or she can respond to the guys by calling them by their first names, when they say something to her.
WideAngle
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GAMBO192
1367 Posts
9/11
Posted - Jul 29 2013 : 11:25AM
The point is these eastern girls are dead inside out of bed too.
They are extremely cold in every side of personality
Cerebral Jedi
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I don't trust men who don't like big tits.
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Posted - Jul 29 2013 : 6:59PM
Maybe it's just me but "Ok Sally I want your ass in spoon." sounds more robotic and bullshit to me.
Who fucks/talks like that? I get what you mean in general and agree somewhat, but the kind of dialouge you suggest IMO is good for laughs or a "Wtf?"
pat362
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10079 Posts
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Posted - Jul 29 2013 : 7:21PM
I read the comment that Eastern European models are dead inside and I though that the poster simply didn't consider some very important things before making that statement.
1-Eastern Europeans models for the most part speak little if any English and therefore there is normally no talking during their scene because the producers want to sell the scene to an English speaking audience.
2-Since there is no dialogue then you automatically remove a very integral part of what makes a scene seem more alive.
3-Since producers make sure that the performer does not speak then that means that all she has left is moans, whimpers and the standard oh's and ah's.
It's really hard for a performer to make a scene look lively with all those limitations and by default they tend to look and act lifeless.
Cerebral Jedi
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I don't trust men who don't like big tits.
1067 Posts
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Posted - Jul 29 2013 : 7:45PM
^^Hadn't thought about that. Excellent points.
 
WideAngle
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GAMBO192
1367 Posts
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Posted - Jul 30 2013 : 2:43AM
I am european, I know many eastern girls, and I can tell you that difficulty in dialogues does not make them look different than they would be if porn would be shot in their mother language (just look at the czech porn, for example)
That's just how they are. Gorgeous, sweet, classy, but cold.
pat362
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10079 Posts
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Posted - Jul 30 2013 : 9:24PM
^I'll have to defer to you on how Eastern Europeans women are because I'm Canadian.
Dan
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Posted - Aug 1 2013 : 6:50AM
I'd say that the biggest limitation of porn sex, in terms of passion and chemistry, is the fact that the guy and the woman are usually strangers to each other, and they don't have any kind of relationship with each other outside of their porn scene.
This has nothing to do with being from Eastern Europe, because this is true for North American porn stars too.
Porn stars often behave like strangers with each other, because they really are strangers. This is a natural way for them to behave. But this often makes their sex look un-natural and cold, which is a problem for the entertainment value of porn.
My point is that behavior usually causes and creates people's feelings, and this something you can use to produce real chemistry and truly passionate sex in porn. When you want to make friends with a woman and get her to feel friendly with you, then you behave in friendly way towards her, and this often changes her feelings towards you and makes her feel friendly with you. And it works the same way for changing the guy's feelings, when a woman behaves in a friendly way towards him.
Which means that getting the guy and the woman to speak and behave in friendly ways towards each other on the porn set will probably lead to some real sex-chemistry between them.
It's hard for a guy to feel much towards a woman, when she doesn't make much eye-contact with him, doesn't call him by his first name, and doesn't smile at him either. But if she does all of these things, and she is reasonably attractive, then virtually any guy will bang her pussy or ass with some real feeling, like he means it.
And the same is true for the woman too, when the guy behaves in a personal and a friendly manner with her.
Simply speaking with each other on the 'I-You' kind of terms changes people's feeling and makes them more friendly with each other in a real way. It's a way for behavior to change feelings. All you need is to get people to speak and behave with each other in really personal and friendly ways, and their sex with each other will have some real feeling, passion, and chemistry.
Edited by - Dan on 8/1/2013 6:54:32 AM
Jedi Master Bates
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Posted - Aug 1 2013 : 9:39PM
eastern euro stars seem more sexy to me because the sex feels more real. Instead of spewing a M-M-M-M-MONSTER COMBO! of cliched, forced, and corny phrases, they simply grunt or moan depending on how much their feeling the sex. If you listen to some of them, it sounds quite real. Especially when some heavy anal action starts.
Dan
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Posted - Aug 2 2013 : 8:47AM
Anyone, who is a fan of anal fun, owes a debt of gratitude to Eastern European porn stars. Because it was porn stars from Eastern Europe who popularized anal porn so much after the fall of the Soviet Union and the Warsaw Pact.
Some of the greatest Anal Queens of all time came from Eastern Europe.
Katja Kassin was born in Eastern Germany
Sandra Romaine in Romania
Sylvia Saint, Angel Dark, Anastasia Christ, Nikita Denise, and Monica Sweetheart in Czechoslovakia
Cassandra Wild in Hungary
Alexa May in Ukraine
Izobella Clark in Russia
A lot of Russian porn stars have a bad habit of using only one-word name to identify themselves, which makes it harder for them to become popular among porn fans. It's hard to follow a porn star, when several porn stars have the same name.
But guys like Rocco Siffredi and Omar Galanti have made their porn careers out of banging the asses of Eastern-European lasses, including those from Russia.
Without Eastern European porn stars, anal porn wouldn't exist in its present form and popularity.

Edited by - Dan on 8/2/2013 9:15:52 AM

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