I always prefer anal way but lots of women don't want it I think. What is the wrong with anal sex? Is it really taboo? I could not get myself away when I saw a pornstar's ass but the girls don't like to be fucked in ass? I wonder Why? Does it give pain more than being fucked in pussy? It is alyaws exciting for me to get closer a girl behind her.
Some girls are a little scared to try it or they don't want to try it again because of a bad experience. My girlfriend had a bad experience and it took alot of convincing to get her to try it again, but now she likes it.
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DenverDon Benevolent
Firmly Embedded in Depravity 5914 Posts 7/02
Posted - Apr 10 2005 : 12:26PM
Mihra,
Have your g/f put on a strap on and then do you. You can get first hand knowledge of the experience.
Haha your so kind DenverDon :D Its not the same thing! Well lets pretend its not, we dont want anything up our shitter, but the girl's gotta have some :D I think I read in a magazine awhile back, for the girls to turn on their boyfriends during sex more was to do this amongst other: "Put a finger upp his butt to find the g-spot" Noooot quite what I want but hey maybe some like it
It's actually 'Put your finger in his ass to massage the prostate.' Seeing as how Grafenberg's spot is in the vagina most men aren't going to have a "G" spot.
why is no the same thing,an ass is an ass. And how could you ask your gf something you're not willing to do it yourself?. let's pretend we are all equal, and get our women, some fun too.
Research on this has shown that AT LEAST 1/3 of all couples have engaged in anal sex... And that number is moving closer to 1/2 as there is more and more talk of it these days...
Although some women are leery at first about trying it, a lot of women do like it and practice regularly...
I frequent several sex forums and many women are trying it and enjoying it now as there is more and more GOOD and HEALTHY information about it on the web and in books now...
The books "ANAL PLEASURE & HEALTH" and "THE ULTIMATE GUIDE TO ANAL SEX FOR WOMEN" are the two most popular books on the topic out there and are highly recomended...
57% of my sexual partners have done anal and enjoyed it. One partner hated it, but tried and another was interested in it, but we never got around to it. If a girl is approached gently about the subject and you show trust and good will (and the aformentioned anal books) she will be open to experimentation.
I mention too that the experiment can be turned back on me. Only one girl even cared to try anything on me, but being open to that opens up the girl to anal experimentation.
Anal sex done wrong hurts like a MOTHER FUCKER! It doesn't matter whether it's being done to a male or a female.
You've gotta remember that the anus was meant as a one way opening. There was never a biological system made to enter something in there.
I'll say that anal sex can be some of the most intense orgasmic activity that two people can do of a sexual variety. But there are some hard core rules to making it good and not an experience that she'll (and probably you'll) never want to experience again:
Take lots of time to loosen the sphincter.
Use lots of lube to make sure that there is no problem with entry friction.
Make sure that the guys cock is rock hard. A Flabby cock will hurt going in. This is why you see ATP and ATM. It's a production trick to make the anal hurt less. Even if you don't see the ATP or ATM? Odds are they shot the anal first.
Take your freaking time to enter, as the sphincter needs time to relax in different areas, as the entry is made.
Learn how to do it right and you'll find a lot of women re all for it. Fuck up just one of these steps and you'll be pulling her foot our of you're ass.
I agree here totally... The guy really has to do his homework on anal sex... If you really want it, then learn how to do it properly because if it is done RIGHT then the odds are very good that you will have a partner who will beg for anal all the time after...
Do it wrong and you will be the one begging and never get a chance to do her that way again...
It's REALLY that crucial the impact between, knowing what to do and just going for it... NEVER EVER just go for it... Read the books, look up some good posts on adult groups, plan... And do it RIGHT and you will have an amazingly great anal sex life.
Jeez, what total BS. I've been butt humping for 40 years, and most women like it, and prefer real men who don't get all wimpy, like those above. I've used spit the majority of times, and sometimes nothing at all. Most women like playing on the edge. But if you are going to drop to your knees and beg and cry, don't expect much. These responses explain why RCA is so popular here. Easy to pretend it's not anal.
Anal sex takes some preperation. Plenty of Spit, fingering to loosen it up and a slow entry. Everytime I get my girl off her ass is always more relaxed and entry is no problem. Some girls are self conscience about how it looks so compliments are always helpful.
Spit works, so does lots of female cum and pre-cum. But if there isn;t much lube there, it's only going to be the real "hurt me" types that dig it.
The hotter she (or he) is, the easier the entry will be back door. Of course, that usually goes along with the lube topic. LOL
The tough call is that anal sex with a condom is pretty hard to accomplish, but without one you're dealing with one of the most efficient ways to pass AIDS and HIV.
Clean up is another issue all of it's own. I'm not even going to go there. Most people don't do an enema or two a day as the talent does.
Francois is right, the compliments help a lot. But so does the fact that the orgasms are out of this freaking WORLD. ;)
Thanks for all about your answers. It is my idea what ever u like or not. I have never done it before may be it is interesting for me because of it. I just wander. Thanks
Paying trib-ute to SinncentVanSage 1412 Posts 12/04
Posted - Apr 22 2005 : 3:01PM
I don't thing I would like having something stuffed up my ass so I guess I can understand girls who don't like it, either. The pussy fascinates me a lot more, anyway. But if anal sex was a girls fantasy I'd do it for her, no problem.
You're missing out then man 'cause anal masturbation gives mind shattering orgasms while just whacking off will give a small quick buzz...
Many women also find that they have these mind shatering orgasms from anal with clitoral stimualtion whereas they maybe can't even get an orgasm from vaginal...
Paying trib-ute to SinncentVanSage 1412 Posts 12/04
Posted - Apr 29 2005 : 6:25PM
I can have mind shattering orgasms when whacking off if I choose to. Of course not in 5 to 10 minutes, though. I've heard about that stimulating the prostate anally. Tried it a few times but felt nothing at all (at least nothing I qualified as pleasant). I guess I can do without it.
Yes this is quite true... It also takes a lot time to prepare oneself for anal insertion... It gives you a true appreciation about how much preparation must go on behind the scenes in porn films.
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Just another bare bum in the shiower 1739 Posts 12/04
Posted - May 7 2005 : 12:30AM
I'm not all that fussed about anal. One opening is as good as another - it is all about the intimacy and any old means of friction will do it for me! I have always been fascinated by those stories of 19th Century French prostitutes who could satisfy a man in at least a dozen ways without using their pussies.
I had a girlfriend once who insisted on inserting a dildo up my rear, but with me being an ultra-tight little anal virgin it would not go in properly or stay inside me and so that put paid to her devious plans. But I must say, that when the dildo was inside me it didn't feel that bad - just like that great feeling of taking a really big dump!
I actually enjoy having a vibrator in my ass when I jack off. Butt plugs are nice, but the vibrating really gets me off. I also don't like em too big, I'm not a stuntman or a member of the jackass crew. It may not be everybody's taste however...
yes the preperation for anal sex is so important I think because of giving pain to girl.but it is really amazing for me to get closer a women from behind.It is so hot and soft because of bottom.As I said I have never done anal sex but when I get close to my women from behind I feel more in safety and happy.
What about double anal Taryn. Could you get two dicks in ass at the same time. And also what do you think about double penetrations. Do you prefer to be fucked wit two dicks?
WAAOOOOWWWWW!!!!! You are so nice beautiful and sexy Taryn. Your face is so innocent while you are taking that big dick in your ass. MMMMM. I loke to be instead of that guy now. Because you are magnificient
I had a girlfriend who loved it in the ass and still loves it. At that time, we both thought anal sex without a condom was safe and there was no HIV and AIDS infection, we thought people only get infected by having vaginal sex... well now I guess I was wrong... lol