Anal fingering for men

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ilikeithairy9 Member 72 Posts 12/15	Posted - Dec 29 2015 : 4:18AM In porn all male performers don't like getting their butt fingered and in reality we all don't want anything stick in our butts. But, since I'm an Evil Angel fan I've been seeing some male performers who enjoy anal like getting fucked by a tranny or pegging. Manuel Ferrara, Rocco Siffredi, and Mike Adriano likes getting their butthole licked but, that doesn't count to me. My point is that the reason why some girls like fingering guys because guys have a G-spot too. For porn fans who don't know where or what it is the Male G-spot is your Prostate gland and the only way to penetrate it is in your butt. So I think girls want to pleasure guys in an intense way. The same way when guys pleasure a women by hitting their G-spot. I want to try it. I never had sex but, I want to know how it feels just for the experiment. So.............. it was just a thought. How do you guys feel about this? Would you try it or not? Topic Moved by - killbillvol69 on Dec 29 2015 [Link]
killbillvol69 All-Star Member ^Lucy Pinder 18631 Posts 4/08	Posted - Dec 29 2015 : 1:24PM I've had two girlfriends that would regularly stick their fingers in my butt during sex and I enjoyed it a lot. I've never done it to myself though. No reason why, really. Maybe it just seems like something I want someone else to do to me. [Link]
Canadian_Cindy Deactivated User 1102 Posts 2/15	Posted - Dec 29 2015 : 3:10PM Anal penetration, if you give it a chance over your first few times, is very pleasurable for the vast majority of people; once they get past the initial tightness and discomfort and all that It is unfortunate so many men won't even give it a shot because they think it is somehow "gay". I never understood that logic. I mean, gay men give each other blowjobs, that doesn't make a blowjob gay if you want a woman to do it to you. It is always nice to meet men that are willing to give anal a go... they generally will swear by it after a few times..... anal pleasure can be good for everyone, man or woman or trans or gay or straight or anything in between. Edited by - Canadian_Cindy on 12/29/2015 3:12:06 PM [Link]
Gore Gore Girl Doctor of the Erotic Arts 7238 Posts 1/09	Posted - Dec 30 2015 : 2:08PM ^ Absolutely agreed. In fact, I find the openness to it attractive in a man. Seeing as you brought up anal pleasure in general, another thing that bothers me in connection to anal penetration in general is the notion that it inevitably hurts. Prep and communication are important, especially if something bigger than a finger is going in there. If you're not comfortable prepping and talking, maybe it's not the time to be having butt sex. [Link]
BlackSix All-Star Member pornography wasn't sex but fantasies of an impossibly hospitable world 12377 Posts 9/07	Posted - Dec 30 2015 : 3:49PM Tom Byron is a performer who loves having the female performers stick a finger up his butt, particularly in his blowjob series, the name escapes me right now. Sasha Grey was really enthusiastic about it in her scenes with him. [Link]

Canadian_Cindy Deactivated User 1102 Posts 2/15	Posted - Dec 31 2015 : 12:26AM Gore Gore Girl wrote: ^ Absolutely agreed. In fact, I find the openness to it attractive in a man. Seeing as you brought up anal pleasure in general, another thing that bothers me in connection to anal penetration in general is the notion that it inevitably hurts. Prep and communication are important, especially if something bigger than a finger is going in there. If you're not comfortable prepping and talking, maybe it's not the time to be having butt sex. Click to expand Problem I have seen over the years with many women I have talked to about it, is they get some idiot who bugs them to try anal, rams it up there, it hurts like hell.. and then they slam the door shut to any future guys wanting to try it. I always say, you got to give it 10 times.... if it still hurts and sucks after 10 sessions, I will apologize profusely and buy you dinner..... I have yet to buy a friend dinner on that bet. Its' one of those things that can hurt at the beginning with lack of knowledge, prep, etc.... but if you wait it out and keep at it for a few times until you get used to it, it is almost unanimously loved and most of the time addicting. Unfortunate that so many people shut the door before they get through that initial learning curve; or set with some "this is gross" deal and never understand it. As for men, I have yet to meet a man who didn't fall in love with it once he gave it a try a few times. I just hate hearing the "this is gay" thing over and over again. Stupid. Edited by - Canadian_Cindy on 12/31/2015 12:29:17 AM [Link]
ilikeithairy9 Member 72 Posts 12/15	Posted - Dec 31 2015 : 1:30AM Canadian_Cindy wrote: Gore Gore Girl wrote: ^ Absolutely agreed. In fact, I find the openness to it attractive in a man. Seeing as you brought up anal pleasure in general, another thing that bothers me in connection to anal penetration in general is the notion that it inevitably hurts. Prep and communication are important, especially if something bigger than a finger is going in there. If you're not comfortable prepping and talking, maybe it's not the time to be having butt sex. Click to expand Problem I have seen over the years with many women I have talked to about it, is they get some idiot who bugs them to try anal, rams it up there, it hurts like hell.. and then they slam the door shut to any future guys wanting to try it. I always say, you got to give it 10 times.... if it still hurts and sucks after 10 sessions, I will apologize profusely and buy you dinner..... I have yet to buy a friend dinner on that bet. Its' one of those things that can hurt at the beginning with lack of knowledge, prep, etc.... but if you wait it out and keep at it for a few times until you get used to it, it is almost unanimously loved and most of the time addicting. Unfortunate that so many people shut the door before they get through that initial learning curve; or set with some "this is gross" deal and never understand it. As for men, I have yet to meet a man who didn't fall in love with it once he gave it a try a few times. I just hate hearing the "this is gay" thing over and over again. Stupid. Edited by - Canadian_Cindy on 12/31/2015 12:29:17 AM Click to expand Really? That's the problem now these days? Wow that sucks. [Link]
BlackSix All-Star Member pornography wasn't sex but fantasies of an impossibly hospitable world 12377 Posts 9/07	Posted - Dec 31 2015 : 3:08AM 10 times seems a bit excessive... [Link]
ninja1 Senior Member 2939 Posts 1/08	Posted - Dec 31 2015 : 5:06AM ^+1 And that sales pitch would've gotten me unceremoniously thrown/laughed out the door by the women I've known. [Link]
Gore Gore Girl Doctor of the Erotic Arts 7238 Posts 1/09	Posted - Dec 31 2015 : 8:24AM Yeah, I guess my point is it doesn't need to hurt/suck ten times, and the scenario presented where it is being done just because the guy is bugging the chick is exactly the problem. Then there's the whole shaming of women, viewing anal as dirty, which is reinforced and probably part of the reason dudes are bugging chicks to do it. This approach means there's probably no prep, no conversation, no sense of sharing something, and thus no fun. [Link]
francios Senior Member 1802 Posts 2/05	Posted - Dec 31 2015 : 8:29AM My girl will play with my asshole during oral right before I explode knowing it will make my explosion more powerful than if she doesn't. She loves having some power over me during sex [Link]
Ben Mockridge Deactivated User 382 Posts 9/15	Posted - Dec 31 2015 : 9:46AM I figure we are all irresistably compelled by our sexual demons to do all kinds of beastly things, but for me personally i draw the line at any form of anal insertion. Rational or irrational aversion though that might be. Rational insofar as anal insertion is warned aginst by doctors as being potentially injurious to health , its also technically incorrect and also seemingly rather unhygenic. Irrational insofar as the same rational misgivings do not prejudice me in the same way against other activities that might be similarly identified, for example smoking or injecting heroin (not that i do either of them btw) I have no censore for those people that do do it , but personally i am enough of a degenerate without adding anal to the charge sheet. [Link]
Zonker Senior Member 1369 Posts 11/13	Posted - Dec 31 2015 : 2:41PM I personally don't have any desire to get it on with another man but when my lady is riding me and she reaches around and sticks her well lubed finger up my ass about the time I am ready to cum, it sends me into high heaven. [Link]
BlackSix All-Star Member pornography wasn't sex but fantasies of an impossibly hospitable world 12377 Posts 9/07	Posted - Jan 1 2016 : 2:39PM Ben Mockridge wrote: Rational insofar as anal insertion is warned aginst by doctors as being potentially injurious to health , its also technically incorrect... Click to expand Wha? What doctors are you talking about?? [Link]
Ben Mockridge Deactivated User 382 Posts 9/15	Posted - Jan 1 2016 : 5:39PM ^ Medical ones. Medical doctors generally recommend against inserting any foreign object into the rectum. [Link]

Canadian_Cindy Deactivated User 1102 Posts 2/15	Posted - Jan 1 2016 : 7:04PM BlackSix wrote: 10 times seems a bit excessive... Click to expand you clearly missed the concept I was sharing and decided to focus on one raw number........ I am learning this place is very literal when it comes to numbers and using things for illustration purposes doesn't work. The concept was a lot of women give up on anal too quickly, and by seeing it through for several sessions that allows the body to adapt, then they can experience the pleasure from it. I am sorry this concept has fallen like a lead balloon in this thread. Some men beg and plead for girls to try it, ram it up there, and the girl is not interested again. It is simply my life experience with people I have known in this world. Maybe I should stay out of sex threads...... I just thought since this place is 95% or more male posters (I am sure someone will take that literally and tell me I got the percent wrong), women posting in sex talk would be a nice thing. Edited by - Canadian_Cindy on 1/1/2016 7:09:29 PM [Link]
Gore Gore Girl Doctor of the Erotic Arts 7238 Posts 1/09	Posted - Jan 2 2016 : 10:31AM ^ I don't think it's weird that we took you literally when you said ten. I get confused as to why people use an inflated number or stat in any case, unless there's a reason for it. Just use a reasonable, non-exaggerated number. We were having a sincere conversation, I thought. There's certainly no need to get upset to the point of leaving sex talk. [Link]
BlackSix All-Star Member pornography wasn't sex but fantasies of an impossibly hospitable world 12377 Posts 9/07	Posted - Jan 2 2016 : 3:06PM @Canadian_Cindy, I agreed with your post but thought the number seemed a bit much is all. If something was painful and unpleasant I can't imagine having much motivation to do it over and over again. [Link]
Bob All-Star Member 5516 Posts 3/03	Posted - Jan 3 2016 : 9:01PM I love it, as long as she's careful about her fingernails. [Link]
Bob All-Star Member 5516 Posts 3/03	Posted - Jan 3 2016 : 9:10PM Canadian_Cindy wrote: It is unfortunate so many men won't even give it a shot because they think it is somehow "gay". I never understood that logic. I mean, gay men give each other blowjobs, that doesn't make a blowjob gay if you want a woman to do it to you. Click to expand +1 The logic is so obvious, isn't it? [Link]
Macko69 Senior Member Gone for a walk. 1985 Posts 5/08	Posted - Jan 4 2016 : 3:15PM ^I enjoy having my wife put her finger up my ass. I am heterosexual, but in no way does it feel "gay" to me. It's just enjoyable. That said, I do understand why some guys might think it feels gay, and it's not faulty logic as you both alluded to. The analogy you made isn't applicable, because when a guy receives a blowjob, he isn't being penetrated like he is when he gets a finger up his ass. If you want to make a more applicable blowjob analogy, imagine instead how a guy would feel if a woman made the guy suck on a dildo. Yeah, I'd think most hetero men would be a little uncomfortable with this. I know I would. One thing that does make me a little uncomfortable about having a finger up my ass is worrying about poop. The few times we've done it, I've used an enema beforehand and we didn't have any poop issues, but it still makes me worry that some chunks will find their way down to her finger. [Link]
ilikeithairy9 Member 72 Posts 12/15	Posted - Jan 4 2016 : 11:25PM Macko69 wrote: ^I enjoy having my wife put her finger up my ass. I am heterosexual, but in no way does it feel "gay" to me. It's just enjoyable. That said, I do understand why some guys might think it feels gay, and it's not faulty logic as you both alluded to. The analogy you made isn't applicable, because when a guy receives a blowjob, he isn't being penetrated like he is when he gets a finger up his ass. If you want to make a more applicable blowjob analogy, imagine instead how a guy would feel if a woman made the guy suck on a dildo. Yeah, I'd think most hetero men would be a little uncomfortable with this. I know I would. One thing that does make me a little uncomfortable about having a finger up my ass is worrying about poop. The few times we've done it, I've used an enema beforehand and we didn't have any poop issues, but it still makes me worry that some chunks will find their way down to her finger. Click to expand I would also highly recommend to use anal lubrication for easy penetration. [Link]
escort Deactivated User 30 Posts 7/15	Posted - Jan 5 2016 : 8:21AM Anal sex for sure has to be one of the most sought after sex fantasies for all men. It is unfortunate so many men won't even give it a shot because they think it is somehow "gay". I never understood that logic. I mean, gay men give each other blowjobs, that doesn't make a blowjob gay if you want a woman to do it to you. The problem most men have to tackle when trying to get their lover to have anal sex with them is that their lover will not do it because they are afraid it may hurt or will not feel good for them and are completely unwilling to try in case this is true. [Link]
Canadian_Cindy Deactivated User 1102 Posts 2/15	Posted - Jan 7 2016 : 2:08AM . Edited by - Canadian_Cindy on 1/7/2016 2:09:27 AM [Link]
Chloebell Member 11 Posts 9/15	Posted - Jan 7 2016 : 11:20PM Being a woman it'd always been a fantasy to be able to play with a lovers ass! Both times I've tried with exs they turned me down. I understand why it would make them uncomfortable but I feel that if a guy would give it a shot and relax he'd end up enjoying it! [Link]

Ben Mockridge Deactivated User 382 Posts 9/15	Posted - Jan 8 2016 : 5:06AM ^ Just because it may be enjoyable dosnt necessarily mean its a good idea or a practice anyone should feel any pressure to be persuaded into (male or female). Its perfectly ok to not want to have things inserted into your ass. Indeed not wanting to have things inserted into your ass might even be consider3ed sensible. [Link]
Steve Smith Senior Member 2669 Posts 11/11	Posted - Jan 18 2016 : 4:11PM A finger in the butt can be quite enjoyable. [Link]
Canadian_Cindy Deactivated User 1102 Posts 2/15	Posted - Jan 18 2016 : 9:49PM Ben Mockridge wrote: ^ Just because it may be enjoyable dosnt necessarily mean its a good idea or a practice anyone should feel any pressure to be persuaded into (male or female). Its perfectly ok to not want to have things inserted into your ass. Indeed not wanting to have things inserted into your ass might even be consider3ed sensible. Click to expand You won't know until you try it a few times Ben. Live a little! [Link]
Ben Mockridge Deactivated User 382 Posts 9/15	Posted - Jan 21 2016 : 6:30AM Canadian_Cindy wrote: Live a little! Click to expand Well maybe i should but i think id still go for the heroin option rather than the anal option. As a hetero male my focus is strictly pussy and insertion based and when it comes to my ass no means no - unless i was offered an unrealistically large amount of money which isnt going to happen. [Link]
Canadian_Cindy Deactivated User 1102 Posts 2/15	Posted - Jan 21 2016 : 2:25PM Ben Mockridge wrote: As a hetero male Click to expand Sexual acts are neither gay or hetro.... they are sex acts. If you don't like anal penetration.. cool. But you really need to stop equating it with being gay as your reason to not consider it. Gay men give each other blowjobs (I noted before), and I am sure you wouldn't refuse one because "I am not gay". Gay, Bi, Straight, etc have to do with who you chose to be your sexual partners........ not the individual sex acts. [Link]
Ben Mockridge Deactivated User 382 Posts 9/15	Posted - Jan 21 2016 : 4:31PM ^ Ive not equated it with being gay. Ive said im hetero and my focus is pussy and i dont consent to anal however much you try and badger me into it. Please respect that No means No just as much for men as it does for women cindy ! [Link]
Canadian_Cindy Deactivated User 1102 Posts 2/15	Posted - Jan 21 2016 : 6:07PM Ben Mockridge wrote: ^ Ive not equated it with being gay. Ive said im hetero and my focus is pussy and i dont consent to anal however much you try and badger me into it. Please respect that No means No just as much for men as it does for women cindy ! Click to expand LOL :) Not a bad comeback :) [Link]
Bob All-Star Member 5516 Posts 3/03	Posted - Jan 21 2016 : 10:17PM Unlike Ben, I'd let my ass be raped by a beautiful woman -- as long as I could return the favor. "Yes" means "yes". Oops, but then I guess it wouldn't be rape . . . [Link]
Melvyn Senior Member 2797 Posts 12/12	Posted - Apr 1 2016 : 1:59AM I never had that done to me nor done it to myself. I think I like the idea more as a mental kink, or at least as a mental kink. If a girl wanted to do that with me, I'd consider it. [Link]
wanka Senior Member 1678 Posts 5/13	Posted - Apr 2 2016 : 4:37AM Agreed about the finger nails.I love rimming.A tongue in there is an amazing feeling.However I was extremely shy when my gf tried inserting her finger in and stopped her from doing it.She had big nails however in hindsight it was more a case of me not being ready for insertion than the nails I think. [Link]

Gore Gore Girl Doctor of the Erotic Arts 7238 Posts 1/09	Posted - Apr 2 2016 : 9:30AM ^ Yikes. Encourage her to at least trim and file a couple of them! [Link]