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All Forums > Sex Talk > Sex Talk Forum Page 12 > Anal on first date?
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davebowman
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294 Posts
6/09
Posted - Oct 9 2013 : 3:06PM
Would you lose all respect for a girl if she didn't let you fuck her ass on a first date?
SexShopGrl
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940 Posts
5/11
Posted - Oct 9 2013 : 5:53PM
No. But I would lose any respect I had for a guy that expected her to.
lindi
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12345
3205 Posts
9/02
Posted - Oct 9 2013 : 6:29PM
Yeah, I know.
BBW fan
Member

13 Posts
10/13
Posted - Oct 9 2013 : 6:35PM
Expecting a girl to do anal on the first date or loose her respect is ridiculous, I don't believe that your serious about that. Some women never do anal and that's ok.
His Dudeness
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2793 Posts
4/10
Posted - Oct 9 2013 : 7:48PM
No, I wouldn't lose respect for her, she wouldn't have any respect from me to begin with!
* Hi SSG! Long time no see
 
SexShopGrl
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F is for Forty and Fabulous!
940 Posts
5/11
Posted - Oct 9 2013 : 8:03PM
LOL Hi Dude!
davebowman
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294 Posts
6/09
Posted - Oct 9 2013 : 10:12PM
It is? I'm so sad now, I feel like a child who has just been told there is no Santa Claus. :(
angryDragon
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486 Posts
10/12
Posted - Oct 11 2013 : 6:27AM
I understand and comprehend that some women will simply never do anal but...
...WTF do you mean NO SANTA?
BYOB_Kenobi
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2684 Posts
8/09
Posted - Oct 19 2013 : 3:08PM
that's some high expectations.
Sex on first date, not common, anal sex on first date degree of difficulty = extremely rare.
H1gh Contra5t All-Star Supporter
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8498 Posts
1/13
Posted - Oct 19 2013 : 4:49PM
Not at all, she would have won a life time of respect from me though .
Cerebral Jedi
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I don't trust men who don't like big tits.
1067 Posts
12/04
Posted - Nov 21 2013 : 5:31AM
Anal on the first date? I'd he happy with/surprised by a hug. This dude wants his cock hugged by her anus.
novadates
Member

41 Posts
11/13
Posted - Dec 9 2013 : 12:25AM
Yea anal on the first date is hitting the jackpot. Anything more than a kiss on a first date is usually hard to pull off, and isn't advisable if you want a relationship with her. I think the stats on girls who actually like anal is 1 in 6 or something. Most dislike it immensely and a lot of girls will never even try it.
Steve Smith
Senior Member

2668 Posts
11/11
Posted - Dec 12 2013 : 12:27AM
^ There would need to be kissing for it to be classified as a first date.
spyduh
Member

39 Posts
9/13
Posted - Feb 26 2014 : 4:18AM
i would marry her....... lol
bragy2008
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248 Posts
10/13
Posted - Mar 21 2014 : 11:55AM
Lol....She's A Keeper. I would marry her too
 
pooman
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26 Posts
6/14
Posted - Jun 14 2014 : 6:16AM
marry her asap
euellgong
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77 Posts
1/14
Posted - Jun 14 2014 : 8:12AM
AS for me - Anal not for the first date!!!
ANAL - first relax !!!
mharris127
Senior Member

1844 Posts
8/09
Posted - Jun 17 2014 : 2:19PM
Frankly from what I have seen over my lifetime most people don't fuck on the first date, period. Generally only in porn and prostitution do you see a "couple" doing anal on a first "date". Of course there are exceptions to everything but frankly any man that would push a chick into fucking him when they have just met a few hours earlier (unless the chickie is a prostitute and was paid to fuck him) needs to have his head examined. If the feeling is mutual and a couple fuck like rabbits on the first date more power to them but IMO it isn't likely to happen. Get yourself a fuck buddy if you want sex on short notice.
Please note that most people aren't the type to post about their sex lives on a porn forum so we may not be representative of the general population. People here may be also be more likely to fuck someone shortly after they meet each other for the first time than the general population. Therefore if His Dudeness and Dana DeArmond meet up at the AVN convention next January maybe they will do anal right after their first dinner together. The chance of two people meeting up on a date that post here is slim so in the vast majority of cases this paragraph does not apply to your date.
To answer the question asked, no I would not lose respect for a woman if she wanted anal on the first date. However if I don't already know her from some other time and situation I likely won't fuck her on the first date anyway so I probably would not even discuss sex during that date.
WardqueenJanine
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914 Posts
2/08
Posted - Jun 21 2014 : 8:44AM
I've been through a few pretty wild periods in my life and fucked on a lot of first dates but never anal. There again, I'm not a fan of anal in my sex life but still never had that request made of me on a first date.
The Coaster Justin
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301 Posts
5/14
Posted - Jun 23 2014 : 1:32PM
If she offers, I should be a gentleman and do what she wants.
mharris127
Senior Member

1844 Posts
8/09
Posted - Jun 23 2014 : 8:57PM
^ Justin, if she offers (and isn't either high or drunk out of her mind) than I guess you should not be criticized for accepting. However if it happens more than maybe once in a lifetime I would be shocked. I think the concern is a man using the fact that he paid for dinner and drinks to coerce a woman (who is usually much smaller and less able to assert herself than a man) into having sex with him.
The Coaster Justin
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301 Posts
5/14
Posted - Jun 24 2014 : 6:31AM
It should be the woman's decision rather to have sex or not. If you force something, that's called Rape.
davebowman
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294 Posts
6/09
Posted - Jun 24 2014 : 8:08AM
Why did this thread suddenly get so heavy? :o
mharris127
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8/09
Posted - Jun 24 2014 : 11:16PM
Preferably it is a mutual decision. I know as a man I would not want to fuck some cracked out, rough as hell chick from the local jail or prison (granted, there are a few cute chicks there too but at least in my area most jail inmate chicks are rough and cracked or methed out) -- with the web you can look at mugshots from many jails and prisons online easily .
As for rapists, non-rapist prison inmates in Michigan have a way of taking care of them. All the judge has to do is sentence a rapist to prison and the rapist will be tortured for years. It got so bad that Michigan DOC opened a prison just for child molesters but there I hear the guards have a special way of punishing them.
AbsolutePorn
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9 Posts
7/14
Posted - Aug 2 2014 : 12:01AM
I fucked a girl in the ass on our first "date" if that's what you wanna call it, I just met her and she was hitting on me hardcore dropping mad sexual hints that she wanted to put out for me , so I took her back to my house and I assassinated dat ass raw, literally only fucked her in the ass all night and the next morning load after load, I fell in love at first which turns out was just incredible lust, and to tell you the truth "I" actually lost respect for HER, I thought to myself, jesus fuckin christ who else does she let just bust a nut in her ass that she just met? So I didn't talk to her again. Me being a typical guy I still think about that night and I get mad horny over it lol I Iove it for everything I hate it for.
 
euellgong
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1/14
Posted - Aug 26 2014 : 5:20AM
AbsolutePorn
Luck!
StarGrek
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10/11
Posted - Sep 11 2014 : 7:39PM
Folks, times have changed... anal was always popular among men (I mean for women not between them) but these days is starting to be trendy among women too. If you look at the palls you will notice that the percentage of women that have tried anal is getting bigger and bigger every year. The modern woman is more aware about sex practices including anal and many girls are curious to know the feeling. So it is natural to be a number of women that have practiced anal sex many times and got accustomed to that so much, that for them it became a common sexual action. In reality this is what it is. If you keep sanitary precautions and don't exceed too much anal is just another way to get pleasure from sex. That's all. So maybe you are a lucky man. You just met a girl who already knows the secrets of anal sex and you save lots of fuss and time trying to convince her to try it.
Plus, there are women that they use sex as a weapon in order to "seduce" us, or better to make themselves more pleasant to us. They know that we like anal so they are offering to us as a candy, if you know what I mean. So another possibility is that this girl liked you so much that in order to have you she tried to please you in any way she could. Anal sex was one of the things she thought at that time. So in a way you are lucky again because you are flattered by her gesture. (Now sometimes this returns boomerang to them especially when a man considers anal as a "dirty" and strictly "pornographic" action. )
Personally, I have tried anal with nearly all of my gfs but it took lots of time, first to convince them to do it and then to get accustomed to that. The truth is they don't really like it that much but there are times they allow me this entrance in order to please me.
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Gore Gore Girl All-Star Supporter
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7238 Posts
1/09
Posted - Sep 27 2014 : 8:56AM
Trust me, it has always been popular between them, also.
AriannyKoda
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6 Posts
9/14
Posted - Sep 29 2014 : 10:56PM
Keep her on your phone...LOL
myssterymann
Member

17 Posts
10/14
Posted - Oct 3 2014 : 4:05AM
interesting thread...but since i love anal i'm gonna put my two cents in.
sex on a first date is sex on a first date. if it's anal, oral, a hand job or whatever...if the both of you want to have sex that first nite (or morning), whatever form it takes on doesn't really matter unless one of you isn't into it. i'm in my mid-40s and, while the 20-somethings are sooo sooo sexy and firm, when you get past mid-30s, folks stop losing track of what's taboo and start doing them. the beautiful thing about most mature women (of any age) is that if they want something, they're not afraid to let you know, and if they don't like what you're doing, they'll let you know that too. and if a woman i take on a date (which means we know each other) wants me to, or doesn't mind if i come in through the back door, the only way she could lose my respect is if she didn't join me in the shower.
caiunanet12
New Member

1 Posts
10/14
Posted - Oct 4 2014 : 5:35AM
Sex on first date is not compulsory, after few dates. If she is ready then its good.



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