Do you think there is such a thing as an anal orgasm? I am ASSuming that the only stimulation the orgasmer has is anal. Can this happen and does it feel different than a traditional OOOOOH?
I personally can not make it to the top via anal only. The only thing that pushes me over the edge is direct contact with my tallywacker, just under the head on the bottom side.
PS. How do you spell tallywacker, tally-wacker, tally wacker?
PSS. I heard a new one for when a woman is pleasuring herself... Polishing the Jaguar, I like it! (actually it's from an old David Wilcox tune)
Denver, I wonder if the females are getting some additional help?
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DenverDon Benevolent
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Posted - Oct 31 2002 : 9:50AM
Seems to be a mixed bag.
Watching performances by some that say anal is great and intensive, some seem to get off strictly by anal penetration, and others use fingers and/or toys.
Yeah I have heard of this as well, not just from Porn stars. It is my understanding though, that they need to have clitoral stimulation as well as the anal to be able to get off. I'd imagine it to be quite extreme for a lady to be able to get off on anal sex alone.
As for men, I wouldn't know, I'd imagine that they would also need stimulation of the penis to be able to reach orgasm.
Allright lindi, is this some of that meta-physical mumbo jumbo, or is there some reality (read that as tangible, measurable, scientific evidence) behind this? Pray tell cause I am all ears!
Well, this thread has gone off course, may have to open one for no-contact orgasms, and one for male multiple orgasms. But our unscientific poll in the chat room tonight showed two men with personal experiences with multiple male orgasms, which requires that orgasm and ejaculation be two independent events. (They are two different reflexes, and can be experienced separately).
Many men have experienced orgasm without ejaculation when masturbating before puberty, and ejaculation without orgasm during wet dreams.
As far as the power of the mind - most of the women on this forum, including myself, have experienced waking up in the throes of orgasm.
As a total aside, most of the 6 men polled had either never had a wet dream, or had only had a few, and not in adulthood. Which should cheer up those who thought they were odd not to have had them.
Back to your first topic...yes I believe an anal orgasim exists. I have had partners, both men and women shiver and quake in what can only be described as a "full body orgasm" while I conducted lengthy ass-play sessions on them. And...while we're on the subject, I have had a couple myself in the reverse situation.
For men, the prostate, just a few inches inside the rectum, is the secret "happy zone" and in some ways corrisponds to the female G-spot.
That's my two cents. Good topics, hope to see you in the chat room.
I have heard of orgasms from only prostate stimulation, but have never had one myself. I must say that it does give me a different/more intense orgasm when I stimulate my P spot, but I go limp without other rubbing and buffing. I can cum without being hard though.
It isn't surprising that you need a little extra rubbing and buffing when stimulating your prostate. From what I have seen, men often go limp during anal penetration. This, I believe, is because all the attention imediately focuses on your ass and the intense stimulation anal penetration and sex causes.
However, I have had ejaculation from anal sex without an erection as well. But you know... it was still good!
Fascinating. Does that feel any different? My boyfriend once had a spontaneous 'hands free' orgasm, and I have them in my sleep sometimes, but not while I'm awake. Although I did have one from just a foot massage once, and a couple times from nipple stimulation.
I know we are slipping away from the original topic of anal orgasms, but I have to share this story with you, as it regards hands free orgasms.
A few years ago,a few mates of mine came back to my house after being in the pub, and we thought we would watch a porno ( some old flick about people fucking in the middle of a boxing ring and being rated out of 10). Anyway, after about 10 minutes into the film, one of my frineds "Phil" had to walk away from the room and went to the bathroom, to which we all laughed at and started saying that he was going off to the toilet for a wank. Anyway he was in there for about 10 minutes, and he came back looking all sheepish.
About 10 days later, my mate Phil said "You know that time when we watched that Porno round your house?", and I was like "yeah", he said "I just shot my load".
I couldn't believe that he had shot his load without touching himself.
Anyway, he is now known amongst close circles as being called "SPILL" rather than Phil.
DB, The times I recall cumming without being hard is when I was all wound up from long stimulation and then get presure on my prostate, which seems to make me go limp, but it feels great, and wham I can't help myself. I have also been able to masterbate so quickly that I cum before I have a chance to get hard.
As far as feeling different, I would say it is less intense and I don't ejaculate as hard, but it doesn't suck. I suppose the quick masterbation thing is less intense because of the lack of build up.
I am also able to approach the edge with mental and phisical stimulation and then I can cum with a bite on the shoulder or a twist of the nipple, but I need help getting to the edge.
"I did have one from just a foot massage once, and a couple times from nipple stimulation."
So you actually had an orgasm from a foot massage?
Reminds me of Pulp Fiction and the argument between John Travolta and Samual Jackson, I love that movie. OK now I am completely off the subject, sorry...
Orgasm without an erection is not as intense for me either. I have also heard of a technique for "milking" the prostate through massage. Sometimes used to get sperm from impotent men for artificial insemination.
I have often thought of voluntering for that job. Always willing to lend a hand...or a finger.
Here is a really cool one. It's for milking the ejaculate by prostate massage, so you can keep a guy in a chastity belt and not let him come for a long period. The ejaculate is drained into the urethra, then milked out without an orgasm.
Wow, a bunch of questions were brought up in this thread. And rather that sit shyly in the corner, I thought I'd add my experience to the thread.
Can you cum from just anal stimulation?
Yes. I'd read about it and was doubtful. But after trying for a while I found what worked best and eventually I was able to make myself cum just from anal (prostate) stimulation with no other stimulation necessary. As with anything, practive makes perfect.
Can you cum without having an erection?
Yes. Many times (but certainly not all) when I cum from anal stimulation, I am not erect. Furthermore, whenever I have taken ecstasy I find it extremely difficult to both get an erection and to cum. However, if I work at it, eventually I can achieve an orgasm and cum (this is from regular penile stimulation) but without ever having maintained an erection.
Can you cum without having an orgasm?
Yes. I think this along the lines of the "milking" discussion. I've done this by stimulating and applying the correct amount of pressure to the prostate but without working myself up to an orgasm.
Can you have an orgasm from just anal stimulation?
Yes. Usually (but not always) I will have already cum at least once. Once again, this is by working the prostate gland. It definitely took a lot of practice and finding the right toys to work with in order to work myself up to an orgasm simply from prostate stimulation. Now, this also ties in with the multiple orgasm/prolonged orgasm aspect that was discussed before. So...
Can men have multiple orgasms?
Surprisingly, Yes. After continual practice of the prostate stimulation, I found that if I continued the stimulation even after I achieved an orgasm then I could keep the orgasm stimulation going in waves. While some people above mentioned that they believe the whole idea of men having multiple orgasms was simply the idea of prolonging the plateau before the actually climax. While that may be one method of increasing pleasure, it is entirely different from having multiple orgasms. I find that after an orgasm from prostate stimulation, it is very easy to maintain the heightened level and while continuing to stimulate the prostate, you can have continued waves of orgasms. The times that I've done this, I usually end because my hands/arms get tired, not because the orgasms ceased. I may invest in one of those fucking machines in order to see how far or how long I can actually take it.
On a related note, it may be noteworthy that I have never read any of the books about male multiple orgasms, and, before I achieved it I didn't even know it was possible. I happened upon all of this kind of by accident. While I'd always been a bit curious about anal play, I never really found it to be a main source of pleasure or anything. However, I occasionally like to party a little with some psychedelics and one time while taking ecstasy, I noticed that my whole anal area was abnormally aroused, more so than any other body area. Being curious and uninhibited, I decided to go with it. To my surprise, my prostate was extremely sensitive and aroused. I found that while stimulating my prostate was MUCH more satisfying than any of the orgasms I had ever had.....and this was before I was able to reach orgasm from the stimulation. I found it amazing that I was able to stimulate myself, without achieving any sort of climax and that it felt better than any orgasm I had ever had. This led me to try ecstasy a number of times after that simply for the purpose of exploring this further. I've since learned how to achieve orgasm from such stimulation....but oddly enough only when I'm sober. When I take ecstasy, I don't seem to be able to achieve the final climaxes but the heightened stimulation makes that it provides more than makes up for it.
P.S. This should not be read as an endorsement for illicit drugs. Likewise, all events described herein occurred either in another country, planet, or dimension where such events are legal. I do not admit to having broken any laws of any country in this or any other lifetime.
I have had an anal O once. No other stimulation. It was amazing. I have O'd with only nipple stimulation. Not all women can. I don't think it's the woman's ability to relax or whatever the books and scientist say is needed to be able to O so easily. I think it's just that some women are more sensitive. My body is very sensitive to medicines, pollens, foods, etc. and hence touches. I can O when I'm driving my car w/o touching myself. I can O on my fantisies w/o physical stimulation. And, I can and do mulit O when w/ my partner. Just my experience......a little off topic but my point is don't assume all women are the same and they don't respond or act the same. Some women can do things that are so hyped in media and porn but don't put those values on every women. A woman can be incredibly sensuous and sexy and all you could want but still only cum with oral or just with good 'ol vaginal stimulation.
I think the key thing to keep in mind here is that everybody is different. While some people can achieve multiple/anal/whatever orgasms, I wouldn't worry about it if you can't seem to do it.
I stopped worrying about the fact that I'd never had a "wet dream" years ago. And now, of course, it seems that not many men actually do and of the ones who do, it probably doesn't happen often. .
It is true, however, that your mind is your primary sexual organ. I've often found that if I'm not psychologically aroused (you could call it "being in the mood"), no amount of pysical stimulation will help. I've had times when I was completely unable to achieve an erection, much less an orgasm. Other times, it seems I can pop a boner just from looking at a naked woman.
My wife almost always has an orgasm from anal sex. The biggest problem is trying to not have her have an orgasm too soon because once she does, it is over fast. Apparently the good sensations can go south after the orgasm. Be careful what you wish for.
Same here. Sometimes I can get a boner from just looking at a photo of a sexy woman and sometimes no amount of sexual stimulation can get me hard, even if it contained vaginal, anal, oral, BDSM, fetish, you name it.