Steve, I do wonder why in this case you last time wrote that you also fuck Sandra Romain in private, but not anal. She is such an anal sex queen, she easily gets off with you fucking her anally on set. Why do you pussy-fuck her only in private?
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To Peter: I dont agree that the vast minority of non-porn girls is not anal friendly. But maybe, luckily, I met the "wrong" girls so far. All you need IMO is to start slowly...
Yes, maybe you are the lucky man. This was the reason to make that my question about the possibilities of recognising "anal friendly" girls, for example from their behaviour, reactions, u know just before you ask them about it. It seems very interesting for me if that would be true. But my little research I revealed also that it is sometimes based on actual circumstances. U know, the girl you may judge anal friendly turn to be non-anal friendly and vice versa. I say its nature's will ;-).
The most important is that the girls trust you . She must feel secure to relax.
You on the other side need to be able to read her body language. Push when it is the time to do and wait, stroke her lovingly and hold her gently when she needs the time to adjust.
Some girls need some distraction to relax. Play with her clit, kiss her or fondle her breasts. Others want to completely focus.
It's like playing tennis. Each partner is different and every game is a new one.
We had anal sex in private, but mainly vaginal. Maybe because our scenes are always anal focused and to fuck her pussy is the special sensation.
Anal sex is just another step up the ladder. I enjoy watching it. And I love jamming anything up a girl's ass if she's willing to play along (and not every woman is, let me tell ya!). Hence, I suppose, Oren's comment. But, you know, especially now when you have female porn fans who are i their 20s, and much more open about sex, I think Mason's right: There's a lot of viewers out there who are not the classic raincoat crowd. They like it nastee. And nothing is nastier than anal sex, in the mind of most people who volunteer what is on their minds regarding that topic when I am in earshot -- in my experience.
Oh, thank you very much Steve for your advices. I really appreciate that! This make me think again and yes, maybe its possible with an exceptional caution and patience and trust between partners to turn non-anal friendly girl into a anal-friendly one, maybe most of them are only afraid or had a bad previous experience.
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Posted - Oct 15 2004 : 2:05PM
Oh, thank you very much Steve for your advices. I really appreciate that! This make me think again and yes, maybe its possible with an exceptional caution and patience and trust between partners to turn non-anal friendly girl into a anal-friendly one, maybe most of them are only afraid or had a bad previous experience.
Thank you again.
Mr. Peter
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I think you are right in what you say Mr. Peter. Many girls, including myself, had bad anal experiences early on, usually by inexperienced men. Sadly, many people think anal is just as easy as sliding it in since it is portrayed that way in movies -when in reality it is something that takes time, trust, patience and communication.
Steve Holmes is correct about the loving approach too...kissing and petting and dirty talk in my ear always make me wilt. Anal sex can be sensual and romantic just as well as it can be dirty and nasty.
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Posted - Oct 29 2004 : 3:07PM
My wife and i practice anal sex and we both love it. For that reason we do like to watch adult dvds that contain anal sex too. Sometimes we'd like to rent a 'classy' vid with some anal here and there and sometimes we deliberately rent a dvd with an 'all anal' or 'anal only' label on it.
You know, that's the good thing about the freedom of choice. We choose to watch and practice it. Therefore we don't need folks who tell us to 'get real' on this subject. You don't like to watch and enjoy anal, well then don't watch or rent it. End of story.
There's people in this world who consider a lady's behind the most erotic part of her body. That's what makes them want to make love to that area: The Ass.
You should try it sometimes, my man, you'll probably be cured for life. But since you haven't practiced it yet, you shouldn't even start a thread like this, 'cause you don't know what you're complainting about.
I personally like everything, the nastier the better for me. I like scat, beastiality, gay porn, straight porn, bisexual porn, transexual porn, DP, DPP, DAP, TP, Old people porn, Vomit porn. I like everything thats sexual, i'm so horny i'd probably fuck 9 out of every ten people i see if i could.
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Posted - Nov 2 2004 : 6:04PM
Thanks a lot for sharing that much with us, Steve! I think I get your point: With so much anal, pussy is a nice change. Me, I am hoping for many more Steve-Sandra anal scenes to be released on porn dvds. Go on and fuck her pooper heavily on set, Steve!
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Posted - Nov 2 2004 : 9:19PM
On November 16th my latest release as a director (plus one new scene with me) will include a scorching 3-way with Steve, Sandra and John Strong which includes not only DP but double pussy and double anal - Sandra is obviously having a great time, the chemistry with the 3 of them is amazing!
The movie is called 'Ass Wreckage' from Platinm X Pictures and has Sandra Romain on the cover.
Anal or vaginal sex is irrelevant to me. I don't see the revolution in most anal and I don't see the fixation. I don't find anal a fetish like I find earings, feet and hair. The anal issues is really a non-issue. Those who find it disgusting and those who love it, I really don't relate to.
I don't care about the sex style, I care about the quality. Maybe I am different but I am not a die hard raincoater who finds anything short of anal, boring. And I am not a feature/softcore dude who finds hard fucking mysogynistic. I guess I go both ways. And I can see people from both camps, having a hard time why I like the other camps styles.
It's no different than my tastes in soaps and very hard porn. Guys look at my soap watching, and have no clue why I like it. I know many women can not understand how I don't find 5 guys fukking a girl demeaning.
Given the high number of rentals and sales I strongly suspect that they portray this as their "official view" and in-closet these people are fond of the "pervert" stuff. The few "open or semi-open perverts" can't be enough to produce such numbers in sale.
I also noticed that whenever the talk in non-adult boards comes to porn "normal people" always talk about this very extreme porn they watched when [insert]in the army, a friend forgot; whatever excuse they come up with and it is a given they say how disgusting, degrading whatever (this type of) porn is. Now anyone who knows something human nature, knows that it is these very people who actually rent or buy (this type of) porn also. :-)
I love anal sex. TO me, it is my favorite thing to practice. My wife and I practice it. Honestly, it feels the best. But that is just me. I too am turned of by porn where it looks like she is not enjoying it especially if she is in pain. My wife does not love it as much as I do, but I do not hurt her when I do it. Lets put it this way: My wife would rather do anal than go down on me. It would suck for me except I do love anal sex and therefore don't mind. Anal sex is a must for me in porn. People on this page are arguing that there is too much anal sex. I agree most women in porn do engage in it but not the hottest stars. Usually, anal sex and other extreme acts (i.e. bukakke) are done to compensate for a lack of natural beauty: breastless/small breasted actresses, fake breasted actresses, and usually fat BBWs all engage in anal. DOn't believe me? Try to find a hardcore actress who is smaller than C cup or has fake boobs that doesn't do anal. Excluding Europeans, typically American pornstars who are naturally hot (nice face,hot body, big naturals) hold off from having anal sex in their careers. Many do mostly non-anal scenes. So you analphobes should be happy about that. For me, I am very happy that Gianna is anal certified (one scene) and love European actresses for being the best, especially Jasmine Black. I can live without pussyfucking and like scenes with longer anal scenes or anal only. I REALLY LOVE AURORA JOLIE. There is a variety on porn so you will find what you like. Guess what I hate?: Messy facials. I like it when she swallows (again, wife won't), but why ruin a face with cum? I prefer cum on tits, anal creampie or clean swallowing
You seriously had to bump up a four and a half year old topic for your first post? Did you make an account just to comment on this topic? Oh and you really want to go there. Name pornstars that are smaller than a C that don't do anal. Dani Jensen, Lexi Belle, Jaelyn Fox, Sadie West, Tanner Mayes, Stephanie Cane I can keep going but I think I made my point.
Anal is awesome. My favorite site is Everything Butt on Kink. There is nothing like a woman moving her hips around with a cock in her ass.
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Posted - Jul 20 2010 : 9:10AM
You know Don Juan back until about 1992 or so. I tended to agree with your opinion. Now I don't have any idea of your age, nor am I asking but I am an older fella and I hear similar comments at the vet lounge, so in that croud you may not be alone. That doesn't mean your ideas are outdated, I am sure younger folks are around that may agree with you. I can say now thanks to European porn films I am very much hooked on movies with lots of Anal and DP in them. As others have said here I think it is very important to note how the scene is presented to the viewer. If the angles are crappy and the models are very hot. Well there you go you just wasted a very hot piece of ass commiting a very erotic act on film. Shame shame. I don't think it is fair for anyone else who enjoys erotic film to classify it as a deviant act or something we should be ashamed of or abnormal. It just doesn't seem to fly with my concept of giving people choices when it comes to eroticism. I am just tickled though at the way the topic is presented. Just my opinion but I feel very ripped off now when I go to the porn shop and see several beautiful well endowed porn actresses feigning to commit anal sex in the films and boooom bam thank you sir, NO ANAL. I reference 1992 or so deliberately because that is when I first remember seeing some of my then favorites from Europe in some very steamy anal and dp scenes that I would never have otherwise seen from American girls at that time. Thankfully, slowly but surely the trend of having attractive American girls do Anal is catching on. I recall for maybe the first 10 to 15 years or so post 92 it was the same skanky chicks doing anal with an occasional treat of nice looking girl next door mixed in. Thanks for bringing it up and don't let the fact that others such as myself don't agree with your thoughts discourage you from posting.
OREN wrote: You know what's great about the porn industry? You have variaty. Oren Anarchy Films My friends and I strongly disagree with that statement, we think most porn is stale and boring, and find it difficult to find what we are searching for
Anal I don't mind but it's not top of my list as I prefer to watch vaginal sex. However I do understand porn and sexual tastes in general have almost limitless boundaries where we choose to draw the line is a matter of personal preference and at times our preferences can even shock us from time to time. Man I'm preeching but I doubt this would go down well in a place of worship,,,let's not go there.
Every few days or so, another one of these threads pops up. OK. So maybe anal is over represented in porn and I guess if someone is really that opposed to it, it could seem like a scourge. But people's desire to see it isn't going anywhere even if anal porn gets harder to find.
As shot by most directors, it's visually boring to me, except with a few women who get exceptional enjoyment from it. That list starts with Dana DeArmond and Amber Rayne. Maybe also Kylie. I haven't watched her anal scenes, but her post arouses my curiosity.
[Also, some months back, possibly even more than a year, sombody came up with the wayward idea, that by sticking one's finger into an ass, digging around, for what we as viewers, can only assume to be "particles", and then tasting or "sampling the residue, somhow represents somthing, the audience wholeheartedly applauds or yearns to witness? ============ There is a word for this phenomenon: porn drift
+1,000,000! Majority of the time I cum way... harder from anal sex. Especially after lomg penetration sessions. The walls of my ass get really sensitive and it makes me cum extremely hard. I can't imagine not having anal sex ever again. I love vaginal sex just as much but i'm pointing out that some women do indeed cum harder from anal sex. :)
lol why was this ancient thread bumped.. might be the most retarded post i ever seen on adt real question is why aren't there more bluerays like this... jenna haze doing anal in HD is something that has to be seen :)
I think guys like anal videos,because alot of girls want do with them in real life,i get laid pretty often,but getting anal is tuff. The more you repress something the more it is wanted,which is why porn is watched more in the U.S than europe,because europeans have more real sex.
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and it is a given they say how disgusting, degrading whatever (this type of) porn is.