But I can understand your frustration. Multi-tasking between the lady's three holes often means that the guy doesn't do a good job in any one of them. Such sex looks less than passionate, because it looks like the guy can't make up his mind about what he wants and samples a bit of everything.
True passion comes from the single-minded guy, who focuses on nailing the pretty lady, rather than on pleasing himself by sampling a little bit of everything. It's the guy who stays in one hole with his big pole and keeps nailing the chick with his dick, until she is red in the face and shows some passion of her own.
It's a lot more entertaining for porn fans to see the pretty lady get the ride of her life inside either her pussy or ass, than to see her guy poke here and there without much intensity anywhere.
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