A few thoughts (there may be some overlap):
To begin with, I'd ask whether you want to "train an animal" or "nurture a relationship".
Second, I'd be interested in knowing why you feel so lucky and why "she's the coolest". If your sense of your luck and her coolness are not primarily about the way she looks and more about the fact that "you get along great", then I'd keep a close eye on the answers to those two questions.
Third, I'd question whether you actually have the ability to "mould her". Her lack of sexual experience doesn't mean, in the least, that she's a "clean slate" to be freely written upon by you. Perhaps what you have is merely the chance, on the one hand, to lovingly explore with her the question whether you and she are sexually compatible or the opportunity, on the other hand, to be one of her first bad experiences with romantic love and sex.
Fourth, I'd suggest that, rather than trying to "get her" to do what you'd like, you'd do better simply to communicate to her what you like, try to learn what she likes, and find out what the two of you like to do together.
Love is perched on the thin, sharp edge of a razor blade. Be careful for her and be careful for yourself.
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