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ken2
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Posted - Jun 28 2001 : 2:55AM
Hellooo Ladies,
Dumblonde this is for you, though any lovely lady here can answer.

First off, thanks for answering my other question about how to use "it" properly. I always enjoy reading ways to improve my technique.
Anyways, I've been reading about squirting and wanted to find out what you exactly
thought about it. I've read the thread in oct about the subject, but that just left me more confused. Is it pee is it not? Also, can anyone do it? Is it really good? I've been trying to follow the advice from positivelysexual.com but so far
my partner just said that she felt like she had to pee. Any advice?
Thanks

Also, I've seen your review about the vibrator shaped like a 7 (g spot something or another) and was wondering if using that could help you achieve a squirting orgasm?

Evil_Rip
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Posted - Jun 28 2001 : 3:31AM
Its not Pee.

-lunacy-
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Posted - Jun 28 2001 : 12:40PM
It seems to be a controversy around here, lol, course if you read the Oct thread you know that.

All I can tell ya is that I have experienced it so I am a converted beliver that it does happen.

It was unexpected when it did happen so I cannot suggest how to replicate it. And it did not look or smell like urine.

Good luck in your experiements!

ken2
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Posted - Jun 28 2001 : 2:08PM
Lunacy,
Was yours liquidy or was it more viscous? Also, how was it? Did it blow your mind or was it like anyother big O?
dumblonde
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Posted - Jun 28 2001 : 3:03PM
Ken,
I love this topic because it would occasionally happen to me, in varying degrees. There's no question this does occur now and then, but it is not 'female ejaculation' per se.
Although I'm no expert on the subject, this whole myth has gotten out of control, and my main objection to the countless sites on the net who insist on propagating this, is not only is it not true, it puts undue pressure on females, and leaves males believing they haven't satisfied their partner.
There is an aversion to calling the substance urine, as well as a strong need to believe this ability we seem to have quite suddenly acquired. I can almost hear Darwin spinning in his grave. Some more thoughts on it can be found in this thread.

I checked out the site you mentioned, and found it interesting that nowhere in the lengthy article and instructions did it come out and say exactly where this fluid comes from. It does go so far as saying "it passes through the urethra" but skirts the issue about it coming from the bladder, although it does state that 'it's not pee'. Oh, okaaaaay, well what IS it then?
Another glaring misstatement of facts I found is "it's impossible for females to urinate during orgasm. The pubococcygeus muscle contracts when terminating a stream of urine, and is the muscle which contracts during orgasm. This contraction helps prevent retrograde ejaculation (ejaculation back into the bladder),"
This is patently untrue for females, because well, females don't ejaculate, and it has been proven that this 'fluid' DOES come from the bladder. I believe Sting could expound on this topic, from what I hear.

But let's put aside the scientifics. If it makes people feel better, we won't call it pee, but your g/f is absolutely right when she says it feels like she's going to pee, because well, she IS. That's not necessarily a bad thing, in fact it can be a turn on if both partners are into it, and she has drunk plenty of water or fluids. Is this something your girlfriend wants to do, or was it your idea? I just worry you might be putting pressure on her to perform something that is usually mastered only by some porn stars for purposes of getting around the "no pissing" video bans, as well as being the latest trend in porn. But, if they can do it, I'm sure your girlfriend can learn this trick as well, with practice. Just keep in mind Ken, that it is kind of a trick, otherwise why would it be necessary to 'learn it'?

The G-Spot vibes will probably aid you in this regard, though I can't say for sure. When I use mine, I'm underwater. Like Luna said, have fun with it, and have her drink lots of beer.

Edited by - dumblonde on Jun 28 2001

 
ken2
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Posted - Jun 29 2001 : 2:52PM
Thanks Ladies,
Dumblonde: Yep, she's into it. I mentioned to her and asked if she wanted to try and by the time I turned around to see if she heard she was naked and on her back waiting. I just hope we can accomplish this sexual goal (everyone needs goals right?)

BTW: Sorry if I'm a little slow, but on a scale from 1-10 how good was it?

dumblonde
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Posted - Jun 29 2001 : 3:11PM
Well, my partner-in-crime in these games and I found it REALLY, REALLY hot, so I'd give it a 10. But I tend to love anything wet, even the word wet gets my vote.
There's something about those warm, WET gushes of 'water'
that was such a turn on, it would make him start squirting
too, if ya know what I mean.
Glad to hear your g/f is into it (not everybody is), even the practice can be fun! Keep us posted, hee hee.
take care,
DB
tricia_devereaux
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Posted - Jun 30 2001 : 9:13PM
like in my first response, I think that I've done both:

orgasm and pee at the same time, and orgasm and "cum" which is not pee.

The second one is usually when my orgasm feels stronger.

patrickpiteo
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Posted - Jul 29 2001 : 12:05PM
I have experienced squirting first hand. My wife just stared to squirt about a year ago, No it is not urine. Sometimes it is like a faucet and she goes on for a while. Sometimes it is just a couple of wet spots. for us it is a total turn on... We found out that you have to hit the infamous "G" Spot. I keep going until she explodes. She has said that there is a tendency to hold back because it can feel like you are peeing, but believe me it is not. It does not taste or smell like pee. This is the truth sometimes after we get done there are puddles on the floor.

dumblonde
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Posted - Jul 29 2001 : 12:53PM
Patrick,
welcome! Glad to hear you and your wife enjoy this, and I
don't like to call it pee either, but when it's in the copious amounts that you say, it does come from the bladder.
That it's colorless and tasteless is pretty normal, so is mine. Maybe someone should come up with a better word for watered down pee.



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