For a start, you might try a few of the Vivid movies.

I you rent from a local shop, many of them will attach a label that it is "couples friendly" or some such thing. Key in on those for a start.

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Occasionally anal pops up, but even when it does, it is usually short and unoffensive as possible. Some Vivid contract girls don't even do acts such as anal and DP at all, so movies that feature these starlets are likely to fit the bill.

-- Snowman

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Probably some of the older titles are your safest bet.

"I knew a girl who liked the prong
but alway brought her dog along..."

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Edited by - tilldawn on 1/8/2003 7:42:35 PM

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I'd be cautious about the Vivid movies, though. Read the reviews carefully before you buy. Both Vivid DVDs that I watched last year (on a whim) contained anal sex, lesbian sex, condoms and slightly rough/violent undertones. In case you're curious, the titles were:
Sweet Things
Nice Neighbors

Sorry I couldn't be more helpful. You might also try checking out the Femme productions directed by Candida Royalle. I haven't seen any myself, but they're supposed to be softer and targeted toward the female market.

Edited by - YogaGrrl on 1/8/2003 7:33:19 PM

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It's not going to be easy to meet all those qualifiers unfortunately, but Karma is a wonderful movie that both of you should enjoy. It does have one lesbian scene in it however, but it's also the only anal scene (Dee fucking Jade Marcela with a strap-on), so if you can skip that one, the rest of it should do nicely. It's also up for an AVN award, and if you click on my link, you can see several screenshots of the movie.

I also have an extensive 'couples friendly' list of movies on my website that you might find helpful.

Good luck
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And if TAKE OFF comes out on DVD, RUN AND RENT! It´s a modern version of THE PORTRAIT OF DORIAN GRAY, with romantic overtones, excellent production values and the greatest ending in the History of Blue Movies. I actually cried during the ending. Yes, is THAT good.

Edited by - Planet Sex on 1/8/2003 8:23:13 PM

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Just so Titan knows, though, I looked up Desires Within Young Girls at IAFD, and that movie does contain lesbian action (one g/g and one g/g/b scene). Still sounds like a winner to me, though.

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Imperator liked it a lot (the equivalent of 5 stars); Rog was less enthusiastic (the equivalent of 3 stars); I'd put it in between. It's a cute story—not too much plot and not too little. I'd give the movie itself 4.5 stars, but the DVD packaging sucks. There are four minutes of compulsory ads before the main menu (including anal sex and one gape, so you might have her leave the room for that) and no real extras (the photo gallery, which consists of random stills, doesn't even play on my machine). For under $10, though, I can't complain too much.

(Edit 1/10/03: I'm now in process of reviewing this movie and have revised a couple of minor points above. I expect my review will be ready for submission in just a couple days.)

Edited by - YogaGrrl on 1/10/2003 10:57:50 PM

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Edited by - tilldawn on 1/9/2003 12:03:40 AM

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imho, i think the candida royalle line offers nothing. i've seen two now (One Size Fits All and Eyes of Desire) and they were REALLY bad. she has a technique for filming which is supposed to be "couples friendly" but it is really amateurish. bad plots, bad acting, bad production values, and average looking actors is a recipe for disaster. also, like most said, any new stuff will have a little anal and a little lesbian action but this isn't neccesarily a bad thing since it isn't the focal point of the movie.

btw, have you checked with your wife about all of this or are you going to try and "surprise" her? has she ever seen porn before? the reason i ask is that most people have seen it and either they like it or they don't and if she doesn't be prepared to accept that and move on (without porn).

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People who are following this thread might also be interested in the "Turning a girlfriend onto porn" thread. In that particular case, the member who posted the question had watched a few movies with his girlfriend and was wondering if it was okay to try something harder. Here's how I responded to that:

My advice would be to strike up a conversation on the subject. You could say, "I've really enjoyed our times watching porn together. I'm thinking I might like to explore some different kinds of porn, but it's important to me that you have a good experience. Is there anything in particular you think you'd like to see? Anything that would likely offend you?"

It can be scary to intiate this type of frank discussion, but in the long run, it's actually safer than making assumptions. Most women are delighted to be asked about their likes and interests--it shows you really care about her.

What I like to watch in porn is not necessarily what I like to do in real life, and vice versa. The same might be true for your girlfriend. I don't think it's wrong of you to make some educated guesses and just see what happens. But if you work up the nerve to ask her what she likes, you might be rewarded with a very rich and interesting exchange of ideas.

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for current DVDs i highly recommend Fade To Black (Vivid)...

- Pornmaster Mike

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For those who are curious, though, my review of Talk Dirty to Me has now been posted.

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