This is a serious question. Its kind of embarressing. But I blast off a lot quicker then I did when I was younger. And I'm still pretty young at the age of 28. So it kind of concerns me. Thanks.
You should work this out with your partner to insure that whatever you come up with is mutually satisfactory. Having said that, I'm going to go out on a limb and guess that you've developed a routine for sex. If that's the case then the solution may be as simple as breaking the mold.
Thanks for your response. I think that what she and I have going on is mutually satisfactory. Im the only man thats ever gotten her off, although I have to use my tongue for that. And she enjoys the sex too, but I would feel alot better about it if I could last as long as I used to. I roll over afterwards and she says it was amazing. And by the look in her eyes I know she means it. But it doesn't seem like "good" sex to me because I can't pound away for a long time. As for the routine, we do have a bit of a routine, in that she prefers only one position. Doggy style is the favorite for both of us. But I'd like to change it up occasionally. I especially want her to try cowgirl more often, because I last alot longer that way, as opposed to when I'm just pounding as hard as I can from behind. Wow, only one response? Anyone else have any advice? Edited by - freakdude28 on 4/24/2011 11:21:39 PM
Have a wank half an hour before hand. You have to time it so your cock (and sperm) is still recovering, so you aren't feeling like a loaded gun about to go off at the slightest touch. Of course, if you do it too close to having sex you might not be able to get an erection at all - so it's finding the comfortable point for you. Alternatively, just cum fairly quickly, then spend a while going down on her whilst you recover for round 2 - everyone's a winner! ;)
Rub one or two out before you plan on having sex. Then while you are inside her and you feel you are going to cum start thinking about your mom or grandma. Works everytime.
I've found and unusual solution for this. I recently got back on an anti-depressant I used to take. One of the side-effects listed is "sexual side effects". And now I last so long that its kind of frustrating. I just want to get off, but its very difficult sometimes. She loves it though, so I'm happy.
Alcohol works, a good cock ring can help (and I mean the jelly with a vibrator type)< that way it appears you're using it for her sake (which is still partially true) but it also adds some stamina to you. You can also do some research on tantric sex, edging techniques, and of course think of awful things as you get close :0
this is serious problem man. You should take it very consciously. have a healthy diet. Follow a good exercise plan and even try to join the power yoga. There are various polls like Regenerectand viagra are available in the market but take them under the guidance of some doctor so that they does not cause any side effects.
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Posted - May 4 2011 : 6:19AM
So what will happen with me? As i am 23 and i blast off very quickly too. Should i have to consult my doctor for this? need help
way back then I had a problem, i came too fast probably 5 minutes or so but def no more than 10 minutes. For the past 2 years or so, I have managed to control myself and not cum for prolonged period of time sometimes even longer than 1 hour. I had this problem sometimes that i tell my mind not to cum for so long and it does obey and when i want to cum it doesn't want to shoot it lol. I guess you have to practice more and have more sexual experience. Remember practice makes perfection.