As for stores in Sopranoland here are my suggestions:
'Romantic Depot' on Route 17 South in Paramus--have basically everything you want but very pricey ($35.00 + for stuff by the top studios with top stars and be prepared to pay top dollar for new releases.)
'Adult Essex Emporium,' on Route 46 East in Parsippany--great selection but again very pricey pretty much every disk in the shop except older stuff and comps is priced at $ 35.00. Only drawback: they don't carry Wicked Pictures.
'Video Thrills,' there's one in Flemington at the 206/202 Circle and one on Route 22 East in Green Brook. Have tons of discounted stuff, really good for some older disks. Hit and miss if you're looking for a new release or a particular title.
'Adult Playtime Boutique,' on Route 10 in Randolph. Pretty good for new feature releases from DP/Vivid/Wicked and discounted older and classic stuff.
There's one on Route 46 in Kenvil but the name escapes me. If you're looking for a new release or a specific title this is not the store, but tons of discounted disks and every once and a while you'll come up with a really good find.
PS. Recently I hit 3 different stores before I found 'Operation Desert Stormy,'and to add insult to injury--I overpaid for it


