hey rive. i don't know how i'm going to find such a guy. i guess i need to put some more effort into it. i'd check out guys if we all walked around naked. i'm just not interested otherwise.
i live near annapolis and used to go to national fitness near the annapolis mall. now i workout at home. wish i could find this guy. he used to wear biker shorts and wrestling shoes. he had black hair. i never saw him naked though. but his butt looked nice. he's actually the only guy i've ever fantasized about. at the time i wasn't in touch with my gay side.
darn, i wish you could find someone, so you can experience it, you sound like you are very sexy, try on-line dating services? they show nude pics so you can see the body. Oh okay, I thought you were in the d.c. metropolitan area, DARN (LOL).
Just another bare bum in the shiower 1739 Posts 12/04
Posted - May 14 2005 : 4:14PM
I have drifted into watching transexual films and the occasional bi-sexual film from time to time, but these films have never really excited me as much as I'd hoped.
I like to see well-built, well-hung, men in straight porn (there are all too few of them), but I have no inclination to have sex with another man in real life. I must confess to having the occasional gay fantasy though (although when I am horny I also fantasize about fucking snakes in woodpiles, mind you!) - but the gay scenes I have seen in movies have never come close to doing it for me.
If you fanatazie about gay men but don't want to act on it, what's the point? we usually fantasize about things that we want to act out or desire right??
I'm a straight guy who discovered gay porn by accident...I grabbed what I thought was a regular vhs cassette from my video store, but the films were mixed up and I ended up with Best of Joey Stefano!!! I decided to watch it and got really turned on by some of the scenes, especially the D/s one where he totally serviced this muscular dude from head to toe!!!
The scene was more erotic than most hetero porn I've seen, probably because the guys really seemed to be into the action, not just going through the motions, like in a lot of hetero porn. Ever since, I've looked for more gay porn involving well built or bodybuilder tops being serviced and/or worshipped by slim, smooth bottoms...Being a fairly massive musclehead myself, the whole concept of dominating a willing twink or slim guy is a turn-on, mainly because of the enthusiasm for cock that guys seem to show...Unfortunately, I haven't found anything that realy gets me going other than the scene I mentioned...
well have you tried blue blake studios or titan? i thinkt they have muscular guys (well i know blue blake empahsizes muscular men). i hope you find something that you like :o)
Just another bare bum in the shiower 1739 Posts 12/04
Posted - May 18 2005 : 11:12AM
You would not believe what goes through my mind when I have a boner - any conceivable act of friction involving my penis comes into my mind (woman, man, animal, vegetable, automotive, white goods, kitchen utensils). I could do myself some serious damage if I ever attempted to act these thoughts out.
Just another bare bum in the shiower 1739 Posts 12/04
Posted - May 22 2005 : 3:46AM
No, I certainly wouldn't be offended. Neither would I resort to the "Guardsman's Defence". In real life it just would not appeal to me - I need the smell and taste of a woman. I suppose the furthest I would be tempted to go in real life would be perhaps to get a blow job from a good-looking transexual or stick my cock in a glory hole.
oh okay cuddly, i'm gong to come to austraila and convince you otherwise (LOL), once i give you head you want it from a woman, they say no one can give u head better than a man (smile) . . . (just joking with you don't take me serious) . . .
Just another bare bum in the shiower 1739 Posts 12/04
Posted - May 25 2005 : 10:22AM
i am prepared to perhaps also concede mutual masturbation:
1.In a locker room prior to a sporting event (I hear it boosts the testosterone levels and improves performance on the sporting field - Manchester United and the New England Patriots have apparently been doing it for years - and it also prevents prostate cancer!); and
Just another bare bum in the shiower 1739 Posts 12/04
Posted - May 26 2005 : 10:10AM
Sorry for the obscure references to Kylie Minogue concerts and sports performance-enhancing masturbation. Both stories have been getting a lot of press here in Oz over the past week.
Having given further consideration to the question as to how gay I would ever be prepared to go, here is a further concession:
'Incidental frottage' occasioned as part of a double oral, double vag or double anal with Kinzie Kenner, Hillary Scott, Haley Page, Tiana Lynn, Penny Flame, Jessica Jaymes or Jane Darling. I have my limits!!!
Edited by - Cuddly Wombat on 5/26/2005 10:11:41 AM
I am another of those straight guys that enjoys gay porn. For me it's seeing guys REALLY get full serviced. Straight porn seems centered around the guy screwing the hell out of the girl. There doesn't seem to be a balance to me of the guy getting taken care of. Gay porn, usually, has that balance that I like to see. There are things about gay porn that I cannot stand: bondage, fisting, rough sex, demeaning talk, and one guy being dominating. Just not my thing. Just about any other thing goes for me.
i know what you mean hambcha, it's rare that you see a man truly getting serviced in straight porn, sure he gets sucked off and he pounds a girl, but it's not the same, however, i lvoe to see a sexy man getting rimmed by a woman, that turns me on, i look for scenes that feature this or female on male rimming is a central theme. Would you try man to man hambcha? just curious, or do you jut prefer watching it?
I just like watching man to man, nothing more. I have messed around with a couple guys in the past during drunk fests but it just wasn't very good to me. Sex with girls has always be tons more satifying.
WEll at least you can say you tried it hambcha and it wasn't for you. So have you seen any good stuff lately? I haven't, i get tired of all the garbage that's out there, you have to search and find what appeals to you and that's a task.
Being a straight male in a committed relationship (engaged) I have chosen to stick with women in my life. There was a time in college though, or a few times rather, where I have found myself with a few guys, so to answer the question yes I do find myself attracted to watching gay porn. It is obviously not my first choice of adult entertainment to watch but once or twice a month I will watch a flick or two involving a few hot men engaged in some of the hottest sex I have witnessed.
Back to college and my fiancee...she has been witness to one of my encounters. She was my girlfriend at the time and she sat on the bed and watched me give head to a hot 19 year old guy, who would later, after cumming in my mouth, fuck my ass in both the missionary position and with me in the doggy position while my girlfriend/now fiancee was watching. She has no problem obviously with my past and my present choice to watch gay porn on occasion.
Other experiences with guys have helped me discover my love for being on top and riding a hard cock. My first attempt at this wasnt the best, but later I found that I can get a good tempo going and take long strokes and really grind on a cock. I have actually given my fiancee a pointer or two when she is on me and I am taking her anally.
All those experiences are in the past, and were all safe (condom only), experiences. Just had to add this because I found this topic interesting.
I used to think I was straight and just "curious" about gay porn. I always looked at str8 stuff because that's how things are "supposed" to go and whatnot. But thanks to the internet and the relative anonymity of internet surfing I explored my other interests as well. Especially gay porn. When I finally bit the bullet and bought my first gay DVD I was very nervous. It was like admitting that I actually liked the stuff rather than having it just be a passing curiosity. For years afterward I'd make sure I bought or surfed/downloaded as much str8 porn as I did gay just so there could be that "balance," nevermind the fact that all I ever would actually go back to and look at was the gay stuff. :)
That was the beginning of my curiosity when it came to men and gay sex. Though I'd had 1-2 sexual relationships with women, it'd always come back to men. I was afraid to kiss a guy until maybe 2 years ago though. That would be the almost-last straw in it being way more than passing interest. "I'm not gay 'cuz I've never kissed another guy! Sure, I've blown guys but that only makes me 'curious.' I couldn't have the same kind of relationship with a guy." That's what I thought. Long story short, I threw out all the str8 stuff on my HD about 4 months ago, came out of the closet and am now dating a pretty awesome guy. :) Feels like a huge weight has lifted off my shoulders.
I'm glad you had your homosexual epiphany. I have been aware of being gay for sometime now but I have not come out of the closet because of my unique situation. I'm still in school and it would just be better if I came out later.
Good for you STroker_Tex, I'm glad that you are free to be yoruself and i hope for you Ryan05 when you're ready you'll have that same feeling of the burden of not being free without feeling the pressures of society, just becuase you're gay you don't have to announce it to the world (should you choose to that's yoru perogative).
yeah - good for you. one of my best italian friends came out in kinda the same fashion. i dont know how he did it for so long & i had no clue because we were always taking care of pussy.
I went through a very similar experience myself, but for me, the weight off my shoulders was accepting that I was bisexual. I was pulled both ways, hating myself for wanting to be with guys, because that would make me gay, and I wasn't ready to give up women. And not wanting to give up being with a guy. Like you, Tex, I hadn't kissed a guy, so that meant I wasn't gay, but I then started getting the desire to, and that just made the turmoil that much worse.
Then one day I was talking with a lesbian cousin about this, and she told me not to worry about trying to sort it all out. Just live in the moment and enjoy it while you can. Her words hit home for me, and since then my sex with my male partner has been fantastic, and not affected my sex life with my female partner. She doesn't know about my bisexual side, though. I'm afraid she isn't that open minded yet. But I am very comfortable being bisexual.
Personally I dont get off on gay porn. But once in a while I like to check out a few pics or a high-budget movie to have a look at bodies, physical shape, hairstyle and so on...couple of beauty tips basically. I value my looks a lot, and there are hardly any better advisors for beauty secrets than gay men, cause nobody can deny that many guys in the gay community are extremely handsome.
I consider myself straight in that I am not romantically attracted to men, but I do on occasion watch gay porn. Out of my collection of 250-300 DVDs, maybe 4-5 of them are gay-themed. I also watch bisexual porn occasionally, and frequently watch she-male, strap-on (F-M) and straight porn.
For the most part gay porn tends to leave me cold - I dislike kissing, or scenes that make any effort at a romantic build-up. I do like interracial scenes where a white guy is topped by a black guy - and penis size is a huge factor for me. If the guy is well above average size, I'm interested. Unfortunately, most of the interracially themed gay videos I've managed to see have been disappointing, and tend to focus on the whole "white boy being gang banged" thing, when in my mind one-on-one scenes would be much more appealing, as long as they retained the element of domination.
I guess ultimately I am attracted mainly to a feminine form, and big cocks - which is why I find she-males appealing, and tend to be most interested in MMF bisexual scenes where the woman serves as an enabler in the M/M contact. This is also the reason my fiancee has a growing collection of strap-ons.
I have ALWAYS been visually/physically attracted to women. My first sexual experience though was with my buddy when we were 13 - 15....yeasr later when we were 20 and hadnt done anything in years, we went on a trip and shared a motel and a bed.. finally after all those years of sucking each other off in the alley or in his basement we had a bed and I was up for it but he wasnt! Mens features dont turn me on.. until I get below the belt. I guess I am sexually turned on by cock and ass.. but yet wouldnt think of kissing a man unless he ws very fem looking and acting (I also like shemales)
I like straight porn but I hate that the women dont eat out the guys asshole or finger fuck him or spend time on his balls. Gay porn gives me that. I also think its bogus that even today porn can be called straight and have women do each other, but if a guy does another guy its "BI"
The whole package of women turns me on, while just the sex organs of men do that...unless like I said..they look twinky and fem.. when Hansen the pop group first hit it big, I jerked off over watching the youngest one with the long hair... he looked like a girl but was a boy.. freaking turned me on.. Weird huh?
Natural 6 - review by Captain Jack
Posted - May 8 2005 : 3:06AM
