This is very true! However as far as I have read on her twitter she is no longer active. I'm almost hoping when she has her day in court for her DUI/Meth possession the judge orders her rehab or something! Besides it ruining her once beautiful face I'm sure it is hurting her family. Porno Dan have you tried to reach out to her? I would hate to see so Something happen to her. She seemed like such a sweet girl in her hay day....
Seems like she got sucked into drug use and mental insanity. I would guess she has no real friends looking after her and no guard rails of her own to keep her intact. She is actually a fucking hot porn performer who could still have a smoking career, at least for a year or so .. I sort of imagine that she'll be dead, in jail, in a Nevada brothel, or praying with Shelly Lubben before too long. Option 3 hopefully.
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Posted - Aug 21 2012 : 3:45AM
At one time Tanner Mayes loved being a porn star more than anything in her life. She was very proud of winning XBIZ Best New Starlet and loved to talk about her high FreeOnes rankings. I know Tanner always has, and continues to read this board. That is why I was asking for her fans to wish her well and let her know she could return to porn if she wishes.
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Posted - Aug 21 2012 : 4:07AM
as a fellow native Michigander I wish Tanner nothing but the best. I have my demons as well .....I saw ms. mayes 1st in "Boned at Home" by SCORE. She was beautiful and screaming mr J-mac. Get well tanner just crzck z few beers and chill out
Dear porno Dan, dont you feel like there is something you can do besides ask her fans to support her, you are, at least thats what I think, more close to her, I hate to read about her young life ending and nobody did something
Come on Dan I think we all know the last thing she needs is to get back in porn... And I'm hoping she still isn't doing escorting either... She needs to get as far away as possible from the sex trade and get her life together and learn a trade and obviously get clean and sober... She doesn't need to have access to quick money to fuel her hard drug habit... And regardless of her reading these posts she is too far gone in delusion to even take any of this serious... She needs someone she is or was once close to sit her down and have an intervention maybe put her on a 5150 hold by going to a judge after all she is gaining quite the record but unfortunately it seems nobody cares enough to do this... It's tragic and sad. I've tried reaching out to her via twitter but it did no good...
Tanner already tried to get out of drugs and stayed out of porn for six month she re-entered at her seventh month after withdrawal , sadly enough nobody told her that it is the worst period after withdrawal from meth , on same cases the withdrawal effects last for three years , so she re-entered and maybe put back in contact with meth at the worst time possible , impossible to resist. For those who don't know meth link to nerves an neurons , its mental effects contrarily of those with cocaine aren't reversible as of yet , researches are running since 1996 with no result I wish her well , really in any way possible I saw her scene in Up your White Ass #3 , she was great in there although appeared a little bit nervous , but it was clear she badly wanted to do a great scene and she did , she still is a great performer , I really wish her well
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Posted - Aug 21 2012 : 2:23PM
Please don't encourage dan to go anywhere NEAR Tanner.
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Posted - Aug 21 2012 : 8:34PM
Porno Dan wrote;
I know Tanner always has, and continues to read this board. That is why I was asking for her fans to wish her well and let her know she could return to porn if she wishes. Porno Dan's response is exactly what I would expect from him. In his mind, Tanner is damaged goods. He has made his money off of her (and also got to fuck her in the ass) but in her present condition he has no use for her. What he is totally saying is "it's not my problem, let her fans deal with it". What a man! I just hope real soon, Tanner will get the much needed help she needs because the next time we may be reading about her as a DOA!
^ Sorry TB but it really is not Porno Dans problem. It be nice for her to get treatment but that's her choice and problem. It's shitty to see people destroy themselves with drugs but in all reality it's her fault. She shoulda said no. I used to be hooked on meth but I ended up stopping on my own.
Her tweets are protected and she changes her user name literally daily but here's the link twitter.com/imtannerbitch I'm sure someone else saw it and confirm but I couldn't have made thy statement up if I tried l that's drug induced out there.. lol
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Posted - Aug 21 2012 : 10:11PM
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Posted - Aug 21 2012 : 10:29PM
^I know it's not Porno Dan's problem Oh Great Dude One. The point I was hoping to make is it doesn't sounds like Tanner has very many good sober friends she can turn to. I had the impression Tanner and Dan were pretty tight beyond only being a performer for him. Maybe just maybe he could sit her down and somehow convince her she needs serious help, even to the point of an intervention. You should know all to well that an addiction is very hard to overcome especially alone. This is coming from a person who has not had a drop of alcohol for over 6 years.
Meth induces paranoia , it is VERY difficult to help someone with that addiction even for a psychologist , let alone an amateur, also it is one of the hardest drugs to get rid of , its withdrawal effects (mainly psychological) last for months , the worst month with the hardest effect is the seventh. She is now in a period every addicted or formerly addicted can recognize , everybody is an enemy and his only friend is his drug anything and everybody is used as an excuse to take more drug , you can't do anything right now , if you push her she will take more meth as a reaction , if you say nothing she will take it because you don't care enough.All of this is true for every drug from alcohol to heroin. The last time she tried she feared she was about to be kicked out from porn and she wanted to stay that was the trigger pushing her to get rid of it , right now she doesn't care , so the only thing anybody can do is to find another trigger that can push her out, a reason for her to get rid of it and able to give her the strength and the will to do it , she has both , she proved it but has been taken back too early she just had to stay out for just another month over the six she stayed , just another month. It depends on her will , she has it believe it or not she's way stronger than it appears now , she could do it , she just need a reason enough. Edited by - Laurie Cameron Fan on 8/22/2012 2:37:02 AM
totaly agree with you trouth bum, mr porno Dan doesnt care, I really hope she gets the help she needs, but if I look at the picture's on her twitter page, and see her sitting on the couch with that old dude both looking totaly off the planet, I dont think its going to happen soon
It's so sad to see someone's life slowly fall apart... What's weirder is that it's happening through Twtter of all things! Seriously, she's on it like 24/7 - spewing nothing but nonsense and vaguely depressing tweets... O_o What can Porno Dan do about it though? What she needs now is someone close to help her out, not some porn producer, that's the last thing she needs. (No offence, Dan) ______________________________________________________ Edited by - unreliable narrator on 8/22/2012 12:32:00 PM
She should be the new faces of meth spokes person... I mean really Tanner? Your smoking meth and proud of it! Look what it is doing to you?? Please get help! Its so sad even Andy San Dimos referenced her to another pornstar Lia Lor saying "thats very tanner mayes of you" referencing a girl acting like she was on drugs Lia responded that she was talking about her to someone else that day... everybody sees it and knows how far gone she is... it's almost a joke now among the industry... She's what 23? and doesnt look a day under 40 now...
I cant follow her anymore. For real. She's barraging my Twitter feed with random nonsense! Sad thing is, this morning her "follower" count was at well over 33.550 - Now it's down to around 33.400. Her fanbase is steadily declining! Can you really blame them though? ________________________________ Edited by - unreliable narrator on 8/22/2012 11:36:45 AM
Guys , if you really want to help her , this must end, stop "stealing" her pictures from her twitter , stop continue saying how pathetic she looks right now , cease to steal her tweets and use all she says against her. THIS WON'T HELP , quite the contrary this is pushing her more and more in her personal world, feeding her induced paranoia. She has a full comprehension of her situation , she knows who she is , she knows how her life is now , she doesn't need everybody reminding , she will refuse any critics , no matter how logic and constructive it appears to you, she's addicted and she knows it , she even knows that her refusal depends on her addiction yet she will take our critics as a manifestation of hatred and this will push her further in her drug induced paranoia. so for Tanner's sake stop it. She needs a friendly place , where nobody judges her no matter how strange she seems , I'm not judging her and so should do you. For all those here including me who have had experience with addicted or has been addicted himself , you all know what is happening and you all understand VERY WELL what MUST NOT be done and you see very well that the way this topic is turning WON'T HELP , you all know that. So cease to expose her in some kind of reality , she's not a monkey , and she need any help she can find , first of all a VERY FRIENDLY place , a SUPPORTING place. Edited by - Laurie Cameron Fan on 8/22/2012 11:38:43 AM
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Posted - Aug 22 2012 : 11:38AM
. [/quote] ^I know it's not Porno Dan's problem Oh Great Dude One. The point I was hoping to make is it doesn't sounds like Tanner has very many good sober friends she can turn to. I had the impression Tanner and Dan were pretty tight beyond only being a performer for him. Maybe just maybe he could sit her down and somehow convince her she needs serious help, even to the point of an intervention. You should know all to well that an addiction is very hard to overcome especially alone. This is coming from a person who has not had a drop of alcohol for over 6 years. [/quote] She has literally worked for every agent in the industry and all of them have been unable to convince her to stop or even slow down with her drug use As far as friends in the industry goes she doesn't have any. The only person she associates with is the guy you see in her pictures who is an attorney friend of hers who does as much or meth as she does. I have tried talking to Tanner countless times, she does not think there is anything wrong with doing meth, or other drugs. To say I don't care about Tanner is ludicrous. I have not given up on her, rather I feel that is just a temporary situation from which she will emerge stronger. The reason I keep asking for fans support is that I know that she wants to please her fans. If enough of you write kind and positive things about her instead of attacking her perhaps she will listen.
He is supposidly a crooked lawyer and her pimp. I know this from her twitter feed and two industry insiders/writers. His name is Steve O'reilly and she is constantly writing about him trying to kill her and giving out his name if she goes missing... its so odd. And I am about to unfollow her as well her random tweets literally fill my entire screen and block out all the normal porn girls that have something normal and relavent to tweet about.
This really is sad but whenever I see those tweets I can't help but to laugh, its pathetic. She is the only one who can help herself out of this fucked up situation. Saying anything positive or negative won't change a thing.
^I know it's not Porno Dan's problem Oh Great Dude One. The point I was hoping to make is it doesn't sounds like Tanner has very many good sober friends she can turn to. I had the impression Tanner and Dan were pretty tight beyond only being a performer for him. Maybe just maybe he could sit her down and somehow convince her she needs serious help, even to the point of an intervention. You should know all to well that an addiction is very hard to overcome especially alone. This is coming from a person who has not had a drop of alcohol for over 6 years.
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She has literally worked for every agent in the industry and all of them have been unable to convince her to stop or even slow down with her drug use As far as friends in the industry goes she doesn't have any. The only person she associates with is the guy you see in her pictures who is an attorney friend of hers who does as much or meth as she does. I have tried talking to Tanner countless times, she does not think there is anything wrong with doing meth, or other drugs. To say I don't care about Tanner is ludicrous. I have not given up on her, rather I feel that is just a temporary situation from which she will emerge stronger. The reason I keep asking for fans support is that I know that she wants to please her fans. If enough of you write kind and positive things about her instead of attacking her perhaps she will listen.
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Nobody is attacking her but I think all these fanboys telling her how great she is and looks is just feeding her ego and making her feel like she is doing nothing wrong. She needs to see and hear how it is. Meth is destroying her brain and face plain and simple. I know she cares about pleasing her fans so why not take that and get some help! because like you said she thinks she is doing nothing wrong. Unless a judge orders her to rehab like a year long rehab she is going to end up another statistic the odds are not in her favor and she is not going to just come out of this stronger... try and get the police involved before its too late seriously... im sure under california law she could even be committed to a mental hospital... but sitting back and just watching is horrible in my opinion if you care about you would be at her door beating that dudes ass and taking her to a hospital i mean something... jesus.
thanks girlfan, a lawyer?? he looks more like a pimp and from the looks of him he's up to no good, I read Dan's contibution above, man I hope your right and that she will come to her senses
full comprehension of her situation? are you serious? It took someone to shake me, tell me I looked like shit and my life sucked for me to finally snap out of it and seek help but continuing to feed her ego and denial is going to make it worse.
with all of that being said TANNER! You are so young and once so beautiful and smart! you can get all that back by going to rehab and seeking professional help! Rehab will be hard trust me i know and it can seem scary to make a huge life decision but think of all the people that would be so proud of you and how happy your life could be! go to school, model! (no more porn please!) have a family with a nice guy someday your potential is limitless and professionals can help you see and belive this but the first step is realizing you do have a problem and being brave enough to seek the help and turn your life around! proove everyone wrong! dont be a statistic! you can do it! but time is not on your side! please seek help!! Edited by - girlfan69 on 8/22/2012 11:57:07 AM
^ Believe me an addicted knows exactly how deep in shit he is ,the point is that he likes it or it doesn't matter , it is HIS place against all the others , the only way for him (or her) to refuse it is when he personally compares HIS LIFE with that of the others , what he has and what have the others , what he's missing and the others are not , only then , when he personally decides he wants to have what everybody else have then he will decide to climb out. No matter how she says , about how marvellous the meth is, and about how good her life is and how she doesn't care about anybody else, fuck them. It is not true and she knows it , what you say will work with someone in a bad situation who wants to get out and just need to be pushed. She is in a bad situation but right know she wants to stay in, there's no shake you can give her ,it won't work the way this topic is going seem to me like those witnessing an accident and filming it instead of doing something useful. Many looks like those waiting a death and be content to say: I saw it , I was right there! I know everything I saw it! It's pretty disgusting believe me.
Edited by - Laurie Cameron Fan on 8/22/2012 12:07:23 PM
^ Hey man, get off your high horse! I read "Psychology for Dummies" too. _______________________________ Edited by - unreliable narrator on 8/22/2012 12:50:00 PM
^ So you know what I'm talking about and you first hand the way of thinking of an addict. Do you really believe that pushing on her will work? we both know it won't
I was an addict for 15 years. I was addicted to marijuana, alcohol, coke and last but not least methamphetamine. I started with coke at age 13 then moved on to alcohol and marijuana then finally meth. I can tell you that no addict gets help until they are ready and that's if they are ever ready to quit! You can do all the pushing and talking you want to an addict but it's not gonna do shit until they want to quit. I am lucky and have been clean for 2 years, not a drink, not a line, not even a bowl, and I did it with my girlfriend as my only support. If you read this Tanner just look at me and if you really want to stop you can find help. There's medicine to help with the detox and withdrawals. I know the come down on meth is shitty! I used to be up for a week sometimes a little longer. After day 3 I was seeing shit and was peeking out of my blinds with a 9mm handgun in my palm. Shit was crazy back then. I was dealing and taking it to facilities for the homies. I am so glad I never got caught. It would have ruined my life. Looking back do I regret it? No! But would I do it again? Hell no! You can lead a normal life, I am.
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If this happens to Katie St. Ives I'm going to intervene. Tanner isn't going to make it, guys. She'll either be in jail or dead by the end of the year.
Isn't all of this what I'm saying? is it? just one question , when you were addicted were you aware that you were as such?, Were you aware how shitty your life was? I'm not asking if you cared I know you didn't , but only if you were aware that you were deep in shit.Nobody want this that is why I'm begging all of you to create a very friendly , non judgemental place here , a place where she can speak no matter how illogic it can seem , she need a reason , as far as I know she wants to please her fan , she wants to do her job good , it is a reason , the only rope to get her out , we can do NOTHING to push or pull her out and she will give shit in return if we try , if we REALLY want to help her then we should continue to enlight the only way out , she's doing a good job , she's trying I can tell I saw her last scene , she was nervous and not because of the meth she wanted to do a good job it was clear she feared she could fail, she didn't it was a very good scene , we should keep it that way Edited by - Laurie Cameron Fan on 8/23/2012 4:50:12 AM
^ You really need to step back and consider if maybe you're attaching just a little bit too much significance to ADT. There are potentially hundreds of contact points between Tanner Mayes and the porn world, and you seriously believe turning ADT into a make-believe "everybody loves you, Tanner" place is what's going to turn her around?
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