I've always wondered where/how my fetishes came about. the only one i really have is for blowjobs. dont really know why. maybe its because i never really come across girls that suck dick like pornstars? lol. I dont have a very large porn collection, about 30 movies over a few years. but majority of my DVDs are blowjob-based. I honestly CANT STAND anal. unless the girl is really fuckin hot, (like, Isis Taylor, London Keyes, Emy Reyes, Rita Faltoyano hot). and it is done tastefully. Is it the way we are raised or past sexual/social expierences? i was raised by a single mother, so i think that plays a part in why i cant really stand all that shit where women are degraded, slapped, etc. Like i said, i have no prior knowledge of why we like what we do, but the only explanation i can come up with for that fetish is just anger towards and rejection by the opposite sex in real life. If im completely wrong and ignorant for that statement, please set me straight if thats not the case. I have a boring fuckin job, so i have a lot of time to think haha.