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fanman44
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Posted - Apr 25 2014 : 4:24AM
For example, I can only get off if the girl's having hard time during the sex, so I primarily watch throat fucking scenes and big dick scenes. Also, I get off on the humiliation of facials, so thats a big turn on for a big cumshot where the girl flinches. But, I still don't really like the whole BDSM scene and tie ups. Anyone else like this?
LawrenceSingleton
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Pornosexual
52 Posts
6/09
Posted - Apr 28 2014 : 8:08AM
A bit. How I'd put it is I like the sadism & masochism part but I could do without the bondage & discipline. I've no interest in the elaborate restraints or the master/slave roleplay.
charn
fubar

2880 Posts
12/09
Posted - Apr 28 2014 : 8:51PM
Humiliation is a big deal at some sites. I can't buy the concept of pornstars being humiliated in sex scenes.
iowagonzo
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272 Posts
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Posted - Apr 29 2014 : 12:08PM
Love the elements in gonzo scenes as I enjoy bdsm and sex and usiay the only way yo see sex with bdsm is if there are subtle elements added. Kink.com is hardcore bdsm with sex but most mainstream porn won't include whipping and flogging and extreme ties and stress positions with hardcore sex. I love the genre and Jake Malone did a great job of trying to make some hardcore scenes with some rougher edged bdsm added in.
Washington
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126 Posts
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Posted - Apr 30 2014 : 12:50PM
I like any scene in which an attractive woman cums.
 
BumBum
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Posted - Apr 30 2014 : 5:43PM
I love the spanking, but I could do without the extreme restraints, clothes pins, wax, needles, and all of that.
Fld
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48 Posts
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Posted - Apr 30 2014 : 6:04PM
I like the humiliation stuff but not all the fetishist paraphernalia.
wmike1
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181 Posts
12/06
Posted - Apr 30 2014 : 6:07PM
bdsm site are the only ones that actually focus on the female orgasm, which is why I watch porn, I can do without all the other parts. I really wish someone would start a site that was only about the female orgasm
fanman44
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Posted - Apr 30 2014 : 7:41PM
Yikes
The Elbow
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Posted - Apr 30 2014 : 7:59PM
[invalid URL removed] Click on this link to see a thread with a similar topic; you folks might want to check it out.


Edited by - The Elbow on 5/2/2014 3:55:45 PM

LCF All-Star Supporter
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Posted - May 2 2014 : 4:03PM
Absolutely not , I can't bear to see a woman in discomfort during sex unless I know for sure she likes it that way, oddly enough BDSM doesn't trigger any repulsion , maybe because it is meant as such in an agreed role play sub/dom
Cloudburst
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Posted - May 23 2014 : 3:02AM
BDSM is so bizarre and creepy to me, as someone who is into kinky sex and is very open-minded when it comes to sex and porn. Almost everything about it seems cold and unerotic: chains, whips, inflicting pain, denying orgasms, electrocuting people, hurting people, and something called "ruined orgasm" (how horrible, sick, and probably harmful is that)?
I find it very hard to believe people who are into stuff that extreme are not sexually damaged or mentally ill (despite how they like to claim it's safe, SANE - what's sane about enjoying pain or actively inflicting pain on someone else - and consensual.
I do enjoy rough sex, face-fucking, women being dominant but in a sensual erotic way (not a mean cold BDSM way), women fucking guys with strap-ons, etc.

Edited by - Cloudburst on 5/23/2014 6:32:40 AM

Dan
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2056 Posts
6/07
Posted - May 23 2014 : 4:01AM
I think this kind of preference is a matter of degree. It's about the guy debauching the lady, and not just having pleasure for himself. Most porn fans don't care much about the guy's pleasure. Their main interest is in watching the guy debauch the lady enough to have a visible effect on her and get some visible reaction from her.
Every porn fan wants to see some visible effect on the lady and some reaction from her. But some are satisfied with only a little of this, some are in the middle, and some want a lot of this.
And this isn't just about having a visible effect on the lady and getting a reaction from her. It has to be a specific sex act that you like.
I've gathered from your previous posts that anal sex for the lady isn't your thing. Which means that debauching the lady's ass and getting a reaction from her as a result of hard anal sex probably won't do anything for you. But apparently you like oral sex, and that's why debauching the lady this way, enough to make her choke, turns you on.
I can say for myself that I have very little interest in oral sex, and seeing the lady perform a really deep throat doesn't do much for me. But anal sex I like, and I do want to see the guy debauch his lady's ass enough to make her gape un-assisted and get a facial reaction from her as a result of this.

Edited by - Dan on 5/23/2014 7:29:12 AM

ninja1
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2939 Posts
1/08
Posted - May 23 2014 : 1:48PM
There are several genres I enjoy because of specific elements, but not the genre itself.
Crush videos.
I'm not into the crush fetish AT ALL, but I enjoy crush vids because they do a good job of showing the legs and shoes and high heels and such, with the woman standing. There is no genre where you can see good showing of legs and shoes, in standing positions.
BDSM.
For example, scenarios where the girl is tied up and left alone, and she is struggling to get untied. They often show the full body view, (presumably) so you can appreciate the elaborateness of the restraints and watch her struggle. As a bonus, many of these scenes have the women wearing dresses and vintage-type stockings, and classic pumps or other feminine/fetish attire. I like seeing the full body view, but am not into the restraint aspect AT ALL. But again, there are no genres which do a good job of showing full body views for any sustained period of time.
Spanking.
I like how it shows off the booty; many of the spanking women have nice plump booties. And the spanking action is focusing on the act of spanking and how the booty is responding. Usually the positions are such the the booty is in clear view, as compared to hardcore porn, where the movements/positions/actions of the guy are actually ruining the view of the girl's booty. I'm not into the spanking at all, but it does a good job of showing off the booty for a sustained period of time, without excessive closeups, and without it leading to sex (which instantly shifts the focus to the cock).
Cloudburst
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Posted - May 23 2014 : 8:50PM
Just curious what kind of things are the women crushing in the videos you watch?
 
ninja1
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Posted - May 23 2014 : 11:19PM
^Some I remember are:
Peanuts (in the shell)
Popcorn
Various other "crunchy" foods
Beer/soda cans
Small toy cars
My favorite one is crushing record albums. Favorite because she's my "favorite" girl. I like the way she looks; she is wearing a light dress with pantyhose and high heels, showing off her thick legs nicely. Also the albums are a bit tough to break, and she seems compelled to break them down into tiny pieces, so she has to work at it a while, making for extra viewing time.
charn
fubar

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Posted - May 24 2014 : 11:11PM
Restraint is too passive for me. If the struggling leads or might lead to escape, I might watch that, but the scene is still incomplete without some sort of sexual activity.
sinnistar
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47 Posts
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Posted - May 9 2016 : 5:28AM
We hate elaborate nonsense with bondage etc. but quickly tie up a girl and fuck her ass hard...yeah, that makes for the best scene. For example:
[link inactive]Hailey Young tied up and taking painful anal
[link inactive]Tied up and taking painful anal with Gina Lopez
[link inactive]Bondage with painful anal fisting



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