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| JohnW Senior Member  1351 Posts 6/08 |  Posted - Dec 8 2009 : 8:47PMADT is a place where few people state their real identity. I guess that's common for most internet forums, but most don't really want the world to know you're watching hardcore porn or that you might have some very specific fetishes. Or that you dabble in some experimental stuff that defies labels. Groups of people with the same interests and views also tend to reinforce each other. On ADT we take porn for granted as a part of our lives and we are happy to discuss movies, fantasies and thoughts about the industry, but only with each other. So my question is: What if anything have you gained from discussing porn with people who are much less familiar with it than ADTers? Any actual valuable insights that you hadn't thought of? Or just the old prejudices and denouncements (some of which might be interesting)? [Link] |
Gore Gore Girl  Doctor of the Erotic Arts 7238 Posts 1/09 | Posted - Dec 8 2009 : 9:36PM [Link] |
| RandomPrecision Senior Member Enjoy! 8175 Posts 3/06 | Posted - Dec 8 2009 : 10:06PM I have had conversations about porn with people I worked with. Few of them seemed offended or anything. I don't think any of the conversations ever went far beyond an acknowledgment of viewing porn. It gets a little awkward if you get into too much detail with someone you're not intimate with. It's not that I was ever that shy about it. Rather, I think some people would be very offended if I just started going into graphic detail. [Link] |
| ChodeMasterJ Perpetual Marxist 5405 Posts 4/03 | Posted - Dec 8 2009 : 10:19PM Most of my friends are cool and I've always been known as the pornhound of our group. I brought "Buttman Goes To Budapest" to one of our parties one time and had it going in the living room the whole time. This was 2000ish, I think. My friends thought that Buttman was a crazy name and found that odder than me bringing a backpack full of porn to a party. I didn't care. That was before I drank anyways. Fast forward a few years and I'd be at a party at the same house walking around shitfaced hitting on chicks. Never worked and I didn't even bring porn then.  [Link] |
| TheCuriousDizzle Member 91 Posts 11/09 | Posted - Dec 8 2009 : 10:42PM "Most people aren't happy with their jobs. Whether or not the waitress likes being a waitress is totally inconsequential to me so long as I believe she's a happy waitress and she brings me the food I order in the way I asked it to be prepared." [Link] |
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| stinkfist Senior Member Subterfuge...... 7401 Posts 4/07 | Posted - Dec 10 2009 : 9:29PM I also have other friends who cannot believe the amount of time and money i spend on my "hobby" each to there own i guess but they do not give me grief for it and i do not try to tell them what to do with there money or life etc. At work there are a few asshole types and at breaks they talk porn,at least they try to i must admit it's amusing to hear them and there "know all" comments,i would never get into a full blown discussion with those type of people no matter what your argument is you would never win.Instead i sit there quite content to listen and little do they know i am on ADT and sharing posts with the likes of Kelly Divine,Kristina Rose and Directors Jonni Darkko etc. [Link] |
| JennaRulez2006 Member The Best things In Life Are Chocolate 732 Posts 11/05 | Posted - Dec 10 2009 : 10:25PM They all know porn is very much mainstream and that it is no secret people watch. Even them. They think it is pretty cool to meet the people in the industry and they find some dicussions I have about the industry to be interesting. As most people I know say "Big deal, they are just acting out sex scenes." [Link] |
| JennaRulez2006 Member The Best things In Life Are Chocolate 732 Posts 11/05 | Posted - Dec 10 2009 : 10:26PM Edited by - JennaRulez2006 on 12/10/2009 10:27:52 PM [Link] |
| stinkfist Senior Member Subterfuge...... 7401 Posts 4/07 | Posted - Dec 14 2009 : 7:04PM [Link] |
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