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| Offender Member 158 Posts 12/06 |  Posted - Jul 28 2007 : 1:50PMA while back I was reading an article in a mainstream magazine (it might have been "George", the magazine started by John Kennedy Jr., can't remember for sure though) about the porn industry. The article stated that most of the women in porn are bisexual, which is why they don't mind (and often even like) shooting scenes with other women. Now I know there are a number of porn actresses who truly are bisexual, and some have even had full-blown relationships with other women. But I'm wondering if the claim that most of them are is just an exaggeration. We know there are guys who do gay or bi scenes without being gay or bi, but just do it for the money. Likewise I'm sure there must be girls who do lesbian scenes and maybe even enjoy doing them but aren't actually bisexual in real life. Just wondering if anyone else had any thoughts on this. [Link] |
| Porn Scout Deactivated User 3735 Posts 10/02 | Posted - Jul 28 2007 : 3:09PM However, I don't know this for an absolute fact. [Link] |
| KatjaKassin Senior Member 1257 Posts 5/03 | Posted - Jul 28 2007 : 4:22PM [Link] |
| _swede_ Deactivated User 579 Posts 4/05 | Posted - Jul 28 2007 : 4:27PM But I must say that you look so beautiful now, your new boobs are amazing. And I think that your face is more beautiful than ever, you're just glowing and you look so healthy too. :D [Link] |
| sickguy Deactivated User I'm unofficially Beauty Dior's #1 Fan 736 Posts 9/06 | Posted - Jul 28 2007 : 4:38PM I was like "how can she be straight if she doing all this shit with females? It can't be just for the money can it???" I guess I'm having a hard time comprehending it cause as a hetero sexual male, I wouldn't do any sex acts with someone for money. No matter how much money was being offered. [Link] |
| _swede_ Deactivated User 579 Posts 4/05 | Posted - Jul 28 2007 : 4:43PM mod: extraneous quote removed - see the Forum Etiquette Edited by - hardware on 7/28/2007 5:02:04 PM [Link] |
| MissJennaHaze Member 401 Posts 4/06 | Posted - Jul 28 2007 : 5:07PM I don't get it! If they aren't into women they should only shoot boy-girl in my opinion. Do what you're into.. what turns you on..what gets you OFF! but I guess to these "gay-4-pay" girls its such easy money for them that it doesn't matter if they really like pussy or not. P.S.- I LOVE pussy.. and cock.. and cum... :-) [Link] |
| matchmaker Senior Member 24910 Posts 4/05 | Posted - Jul 29 2007 : 2:28AM [Link] |
| heart pure Deactivated User 66 Posts 7/07 | Posted - Jul 29 2007 : 2:39AM Edited by - heart pure on 7/29/2007 2:45:09 AM [Link] |
| RandomPrecision Senior Member Enjoy! 8175 Posts 3/06 | Posted - Jul 29 2007 : 3:35AM [Link] |
| CApornFAN Member 37 Posts 4/07 | Posted - Jul 29 2007 : 4:41AM [Link] |
| sickguy Deactivated User I'm unofficially Beauty Dior's #1 Fan 736 Posts 9/06 | Posted - Jul 29 2007 : 8:41AM All these women who do it for the money must have a little part of them that is bi-sexual. I just can't seem them doing it if they were 100% hetero. I guess what I'm saying is I can't see anyone degrading themself that way for money. It's one thing if your even a little bi-curious to do it but if you don't like it all..I think your degrading yourself. [Link] |
| RandomPrecision Senior Member Enjoy! 8175 Posts 3/06 | Posted - Jul 29 2007 : 8:50AM They're already doing porn for money so what's the difference? Many of them don't really get off on it. They just lay there and get fucked and collect a paycheck. What difference does it make? [Link] |
| LubeNLuv Senior Member 1854 Posts 3/06 | Posted - Jul 29 2007 : 10:27AM Would it surprise you to learn that porn isn't about being addicted sex but rather addicted to money? [Link] |
| amneth Member 91 Posts 9/05 | Posted - Jul 29 2007 : 12:37PM If you really want to learn about sexuality, you should do some research as well as think about how you learn your own sexuality. How society reinforces is through socialization. The porn industry is actually a great example of an environment that socializes its customers to find particular forms of sex acceptable. It is only personal taboos that prevent a more wide spread socialization process. If you were to show children porn from a young age, they wouldn't know the difference between what mainstream society considers acceptable "normal" sexual behavior versus what you watch in pornography. Sexual socialization is a misunderstood subject because the religious right attributes sexuality to god, while the scientific left is fighting them by attributing sexuality to genetics. If there were ever to real, open discussion of how sexuality really works, America would have to stop blusing and being completely embarassed about the subject. I don't expect that to happen anytime soon. Bottom line truth is that a heterosexual man can be sexually stimulated by homosexual sex, it is only the social taboos he has accepted through socialization that prevent this from happening. Just as the social taboos at one time in Greece made is so homosexuality was as far as we know common, acceptable, and widespread. Because you can teach an entire society to bisexual, all the males and all the females if the society allowed it. But you'll have to do your own reading if you want to learn how sexual orientation really comes about. It has nothing to do with God and genetics, it has far more to do with your personal experiences (such as how early you develop sexual feelings and what kind of interactions you have in your youth) and the way socialiation affects you. Whether you accept or reject particular impulses based on the social taboos placed upon them. But we often don't get a clear picture of how sexuality works because of the fight between right and left that makes ideology rather than truth more important. [Link] |
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| heart pure Deactivated User 66 Posts 7/07 | Posted - Jul 29 2007 : 6:03PM [Link] |
| Johnothan Pedak Senior Member Catastrophe 1594 Posts 6/07 | Posted - Jul 29 2007 : 6:10PM [Link] |
| RandomPrecision Senior Member Enjoy! 8175 Posts 3/06 | Posted - Jul 30 2007 : 5:45AM A straight man can be sexually stimulated by having sex with other men. This is true. A straight (or gay) man can be sexually stimulated from humping a bed. What does that prove? It proves that a man who is horny enough might fuck anything. [Link] |
| cassidy essence Member Myspace fucking sucks the deleted me aagain 140 Posts 6/07 | Posted - Jul 30 2007 : 7:50AM .:*:.Cassidy Essence.:*:. [Link] |
| Rosario Stone Member Big latin booty 61 Posts 4/07 | Posted - Aug 1 2007 : 1:10PM http://www.myspace.com/rbootyxxx [Link] |
| JohnW Senior Member 1351 Posts 6/08 | Posted - Oct 30 2008 : 9:47PM I think a higher percentage of girls in porn are bi than girls in general. I do think the majority are straight though. I think there are 3 reasons that so many girls are gay-for-pay in porn: 1) Socializing and culture, they have grown up with a popular culture that is very positive toward girl/girl and the female body is admired a lot more than a male body. 2) Lesbian sex is "safer" and "cleaner" than m/f or m/m. 3) There is a huge market demand for lesbian sex, predominantly from men. [Link] |
| JohnW Senior Member 1351 Posts 6/08 | Posted - Oct 30 2008 : 9:51PM [Link] |
| Clam Digger Deactivated User Many a man fails as an original thinker simply because his memory is too good. 2268 Posts 1/05 | Posted - Oct 30 2008 : 10:52PM In the book Safer mentioned homosexuality was considered, during the 19th and early 20th century, as something someone did not what they were. Life experience suggests to me that humans are all capable of being bi-sexual, It's, as amneth said in the earlier post, socialization that keeps our behavior in check. IMHO [Link] |
| love_that_porn Member 246 Posts 9/08 | Posted - Oct 31 2008 : 12:08AM I agree with John and Clam. Though the taboo is too strongly embedded in our society, there shouldn't be a stigma if some men want to explore bisexuality, especially if bisexuality among women is embraced. [Link] |
| MikeSouth Deactivated User 511 Posts 11/02 | Posted - Oct 31 2008 : 1:41AM most chicks in porn are bi, not to say all but in reality the incidence of bisexuality in pornchicks and dancers is way above the average of those who aren't. In some cases that may be what draws them to this line of work to begin with so I wouldn't look for a being a stripper turned my into a lesbian kind of cause and effect. Funny when Kayden Kross and I went to Flamingo Showclub in Ohio (My best friend Tim Case manages it) one of his peelers named Serenity actually came to me and said she would for sure be bi for Kayden. Now I have known Serenity for a very long time and she has always insisted that she would never do a girl, just wasn't interested, so this somewhat surprised me. [Link] |
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| Derek117 Senior Member 1605 Posts 1/06 | Posted - Oct 31 2008 : 2:32AM But let's not stop with porn girls. Maybe it's just that women are willing to experiment more sexually. Think mainstream: Lindsay Lohan, Madonna, Angelina Jolie, Pink, to name the ones who we know have played for the home team. Edited by - Derek117 on 10/31/2008 2:34:20 AM Edited by - Derek117 on 10/31/2008 2:35:31 AM [Link] |
| Ramsey Senior Member Trina Michaels fan 10332 Posts 10/02 | Posted - Nov 1 2008 : 5:00PM [Link] |
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| Ramsey Senior Member Trina Michaels fan 10332 Posts 10/02 | Posted - Nov 1 2008 : 6:20PM [Link] |
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| Derek117 Senior Member 1605 Posts 1/06 | Posted - Nov 2 2008 : 9:51AM And porn girls are also constantly being hit on by guys, whenever they are out in public, who just want to fuck them. So having a galpal they can talk to, share her thoughts with, and even be "intimate" with, satisfies their needs for real intimacy. [Link] |
| minaleigh Member 91 Posts 10/08 | Posted - Nov 2 2008 : 12:25PM As far as isolated, I can't speak for everyone, but I don't feel that way, but then, I haven't had anyone recognize me yet, so maybe I'm speaking too soon. And yes, it's annoying when guys hit on you, especially when you're wearing a wedding ring. [Link] |
| JohnW Senior Member 1351 Posts 6/08 | Posted - Nov 2 2008 : 12:44PM Since I'm neither a girl nor in the business I won't make any guesses about whether that leads them to connect better with their own sex or not. As I sad earlier I think that its a sliding scale. But if you are truly bisexual you will of course want to enjoy both sexes, and there is a chance more bisexual girls will be drawn to the industry. But I think most of them just find out that girl/girl sex pays well, is relatively "clean", and that they are open to "learn" to do it despite being straight just because of their open minded approach to things that led them to a porn carreer in the first place. [Link] |
| Clam Digger Deactivated User Many a man fails as an original thinker simply because his memory is too good. 2268 Posts 1/05 | Posted - Nov 2 2008 : 2:44PM Even when a porn girl goes un-recognized say at the Jr. college or some other none porn place, meeting a male and having any sort of relationship, is a challenge. I imagine every girl has to figure out when should she bring up what she does for a living. If she waits until she has made an emotional investment the likely hood of the relationship growing unfortunately will diminish as trust between them will be difficult going forward. If he is upfront about it, then the guy will likely fixate on the porno side of things. I can easily see how g/g relationships between the female performers could/can easily flourish. [Link] |
| RandomPrecision Senior Member Enjoy! 8175 Posts 3/06 | Posted - Nov 3 2008 : 1:55AM [Link] |
| minaleigh Member 91 Posts 10/08 | Posted - Nov 3 2008 : 3:08AM I'm not sure if this is normal in LA, but recently I was sitting at a coffee shop and I was approached by an older guy and right away he asked if I would accompany him in Vegas that night and through the weekend. I told him I was married and he still insisted I go with him in his private jet and that he would spoil me with shopping. I wonder, how common is this for young women? I suppose there are girls that would take him up on the offer, since he had no shame asking a stranger. He must have done it before. But still, how odd. But back to topic at hand, I know that if I wasn't with my husband, I'd be seeking female companions - wait - I still am seeking female companions, even though I am married. HEHE. Question: Would you think it's hot if your porn star wife brought home another porn star (female, of course) to play with? Would you be turned on or freaked out? Would there be any concerns you'd have? [Link] |
| Derek117 Senior Member 1605 Posts 1/06 | Posted - Nov 3 2008 : 7:20PM I know quite a few pretty college girls in LA, and it happens to them all the time. It even happened to the girl I was having lunch with at LA Century City...in the three minutes that I was away in the Mens Room. The guys aren't always old (many are D-List rockers), and the girls often say yes. So the practice continues. [Link] |
| DanaDeArmond Porn Unicorn TheInternetsGirlfriend.com 2786 Posts 1/06 | Posted - Nov 3 2008 : 9:23PM dont ever talk to strangers hunny! especially in the dirty valley! [Link] |
| minaleigh Member 91 Posts 10/08 | Posted - Nov 4 2008 : 3:02AM Dana at Social on Halloween, from AVN They didn't post of a pic of me.  Oh well. BTW, who's your cute friend in the middle?[Link] |
killbillvol69  All-Star Member ^Lucy Pinder 18633 Posts 4/08 | Posted - Nov 4 2008 : 1:02PM She's way hot. And totally awesome. I imagine that since you've got the same agent, you'll have a chance to meet her fairly soon. So you'll be able to see for yourself that she's really cool. [Link] |
| mindee Member If you don't break the rules, you'll never have any fun! 717 Posts 10/06 | Posted - Nov 4 2008 : 1:10PM [Link] |
| CharlotteVale Member where ultra-feminine meets ultra-anal ;) 78 Posts 7/08 | Posted - Nov 5 2008 : 5:33PM Honestly I think more people have a level of bisexuality than they realize. We're raised in a culture that shows us very clear ideas and imagery of how things should be and we're rarely encouraged to questions these ideas. I find that there is a greater level of bisexuality in groups of people that have already challanged traditional sexual mores such as people in the BDSM lifestyle or in pornography. It leaves me wondering whether these people are drawn to these lifestyles because they already know they have differing sexual interests or if by taking the time to question and explore themselves they find themselves open to many more experiences than what is commonly accepted as normal. About two years ago I would have said "I am 100% straight, no interest in girls here." :P As I started to explore my sexuality and to be open to lifestyles I had previously judged I found myself opening up to parts of myself that I had never considered before...namely the desire to be buried in big soft boobies! Charlotte [Link] |
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