I've been thinking about how slutty women in the adult business really are. I mean, for years when you were younger you could read about women sucking half the crew on the filmset before the actual shoot and thinking of it as it really happened, just for example. Let's use Briana Banks for an example, married woman.. the slut thing must just be a job, and like Teagan Presley who has a whole family, doesn't sound right that she should fuck strangers each day other than to focus on the job at hand so to say. So if you know the everyday life of some pornstar, how does it look like? Are any of these whore-references surronding porn actresses anything, do they fuck around with a new guy every day in general life or do most just go home to a quiet life with a committed partner?
Very difficult to fuck a new guy every day for kicks when you can earn a lot of money doing the same. Hence, I'd say the slut factor is ridiculously low among porn stars.
A lot of them become less slutty off camera after becoming porn performers, as they lose work if they catch an STD. So they can't be fucking random people all the time.
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Posted - Jun 25 2009 : 7:29PM
It really depends on the girl. Most of the ones I hang out with our true sluts and are more than happy to fuck and suck anyone, hell they do me don't they. Others take them very seriously and think are artists and above having sex with anyone except for male talent. They live in a fantasy land that male talent only has sex with porn stars and that they are above having sex with "civilians". Thank God for the true sluts in Porn Valley!
So which ones are the real off camera sluts amongst the big names then? Ones like Taylor Rain and Chelsie Rae seems to have a stretched ass all day round.
Ive read stories that back in the late 1980s and early 1990's that porn people were very slutty with each other, that sex parites featuring porn stars, male and female, really were common - especially at the porn awards. Now, that just isnt the case. Porn starlets really dont get off on the guys and find them unnattractive, while guys resent starlets because they make all the money - thus there is really no wild porn partys anymore.
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Posted - Jun 25 2009 : 8:08PM
They're still just normal girls/women off set and like the millions of others outside the industry you'll get a range of girls with different outlooks on sex - there will be some that are 'slutty' although that's not the nicest word to use and some that are not just going to be an easy lay because they work in the adult industry.
I think most are slutty on camera because thats where they're getting theirs, though i'm sure there are exceptions out there. I can name a few i think would be, but i don't want to assume. The Resident Gamer/ComicNerd
I think if they were "that slutty" you would see it for yourself at a convention. Fan: You're so much hotter in person. Slutty Pornstar: Your zipper is hard to get open.
Nice to hear about Chelsie Rae, girls who spread their asshole for most men are the best sluts. But although most are in committed relationships off camera now, a large amount had to have been the campus slut or that exhibitionist that every man wanted, although cute girls that don't fuck around but still takes on a profession as an adult performer is nice too. What do you think their careers consisted of mostly before starting to perform in front of the camera, most started out in striptease and working in clubs is what i've gotten the impression of and not such a large amount really worked with getting paid for such services they provide on film?
I was a slut for a short while before I went into adult entertainment. Once I was stripping, and it sunk into my self-absorbed insecure mind that guys were giving me money just to LOOK at me, sex became too valuable to just give it away. So I stopped being a slut, and became a whore, it was far more profitable and a lot better for my ego.
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Posted - Jun 26 2009 : 2:07PM
"So I stopped being a slut, and became a whore, it was far more profitable and a lot better for my ego." I need to put that on a t-shirt and make some money! lol :)
That was probably one of the most stereotyphical responses ever haha. Slut before entering the adult business, then whore which made alot more money. But the first thought of it was probably right, low selfrespect is a real bitch. Don't whore around girls, just be proud for the sluts you are, pretty easy way to think
You ask a very personal question, you get a very respectful response from just the kind of lady you were hoping to hear from, and you laugh at her. Morally speaking, sluts are a hundred up on you.
It wasn't at all meant as some kind of mock against her, it was just such an unexpected answer. Plus it's late and i'm a bit slow, didn't really understand if she meant going from slut to whore was going from slut to pornstar, perhaps i took the reply to easy going and then i apologize. It's hard to READ a reaction, if that person meant it that way i understood it or not, well ok i'm an ass for misunderstanding the situation.
Let's get into the slut thing again. There's still alot of big names within the adult business that works as escorts as such too? No real sources for this, just stuff i've heard so correct me if i'm wrong or are there big pornstars available for the average man?
Kimi, just wondering. If a guy you're with who has hired you for fantasy fulfillment is attentive to you in bed and obviously interested in making the time together pleasurable for you both, can johnfucking get you off?
Let's pretend everything you said was in the past tense I am no longer an escort. Yes! Absolutely. I had several long term clients who were absolutely wonderful bed-mates. On a couple of occasions I even considered calling one of them up for a booty-call, but I ultimately chose not to break the professional barrier. My income was more important than my rare bouts of horniness. Those were long term clients, though. I could never relax with a new person enough to get off. I was always too much aware of my own performance on their behalf to focus on myself.
Thanks Kimi for your reliably candid answer. I'm further curious. Did you have any psychological buttons that some well narrated dirty talk could exploit to loosen you up? (Note correct use of tenses).
Well, an escort is not as much a slut since it's more for financial gain and I would call them whores instead. A slut is someone who is sexually promiscuous regardless of personal gain. So it's someone who fuck you for free. A whore will charge you for it even if they enjoy sex. But generally escorts are whores.
Anything is possible - I never encountered any dirty talkers. No one ever got much past an occasional, "oh baby" or the omnipresent porn-like, "suck it" - such a shame, I really do like sexy noises. The only sexy (I won't say dirty, she didn't use crude language.) talker I ever knew was my second girlfriend - oh, that woman had a mouth! Lordy, lordy, she made me want to keep her on her back until MY jaw hurt. Too bad she didn't shut up after the sex...
This is, frankly, amazing to me. It seems so terribly awkward to me when I'm fucking not to also be communicating verbally. Maybe I'm not just as physically sensitive as the norm so I'll resort to language to heighten the experience. But to just stand there, or kneel there, or lie there and bang away without getting into the girl's head at the same time seems, I don't know, somehow primitive.
Eloquence aside, this is the heart of the issue. Your typical porn girl in a typical higher end production, on set, is generally paid around $1000 to have sex with one man, and roughly an extra $200 for each additional man. When she arrives on set, either she's already spent over an hour on her own makeup and hair, or a makeup artist has been paid, and she spends an hour on set for makeup. Once the makeup's on, she's generally going to do everything she can to keep it looking good: no 'free' blowjobs, no quickies in the back, etc. She's not being paid to be a slut, she's being paid to perform sex acts on camera. Once the camera's rolling, she's trying to make it look like she's having the best sex of her life. When the camera stops, it's already been anywhere from five to ten hours of hard work, having sex. Generally she wants to clean up, shower, and get the hell out so she can eat. Ultimately, she's in a position where having sex = getting paid. They're then in a good financial position to choose sex partners who either suit their tastes, or with people (sometimes producers, sometimes photographers, sometimes well connected male talent, etc) whom they feel might be in a position to further their career. John
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Posted - Jun 28 2009 : 4:07AM
I think this may be the one true downside to porn. We are making whores out of perfectly good sluts. Here we have gorgeous women fucking tons of men just for the fun of it then we show them that we men are willing to pay thousands just to see her fuck. She eventually realizes that there is way too much money to made for her to just GIVE her pussy away and now SADLY another good slut is ruined and all we have is one more whore in the world. I say that from now on we only support those wonderful women who do it purely for the love of the game. LOL
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Posted - Jun 28 2009 : 4:19AM
I hope so otherwise the world is not worth living. If we get to a point where pornstars are not slutty why should we bother to continue as the human race?
Some women in the business are slutty and some are whores as someone said. If they fuck around on their own time they are sluts, which we all off course like. But if they get paid for fucking around off camera that isn't exactly the word to use :P
I think the America girls are a nasty in their private lives...It's some of the Euro chicks, believe it or not, that are dirty on camera and tame in their private life.
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Posted - Jul 3 2009 : 3:42PM
As someone who shoots well over 200 models a year I am pretty qualified speak about this. The best preformers do whatever it takes to make a good scene if that means fucking their talent off camera they do it. Also a producer we can't help, but play favorites. Girls that are lame and boring waiting for the camera don't get nearly as much work as the ones who are fun to work with on and off camera. Trust me on this one, all producers talk amongst each other. Edited by - porno dan on 7/3/2009 3:43:45 PM
Hey Dan, That was kinda my point, that successful performers are in a position to choose who they fuck off camera, be it for fun or to further their career i.e. freebies to producers/talent/etc. Sometimes they're mixing business with pleasure, but it's hardly realistic to believe that every girl who sleeps with a producer is doing it just to get her rocks off. John
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Posted - Jul 3 2009 : 8:04PM
Pornstars are both whores and sluts. They sleep with a lot men for money and they sleep with a lot of men for free. As for married pornstars, if you think these women wont easily cheat on their husband you're fooling yourself. Most these people are in open relationships anyway. As they say you cant turn a hoe into a housewife.
Not sure who says that, maybe a farmer? I'm pretty certain you can turn a dedicated and fastidious whore into a housewife, but it's probably a lot more difficult to turn a slut into one.
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Posted - Jul 3 2009 : 10:50PM
I don't fool myself into thinking that they are fucking me to get their "rocks of", and I fuck more porn stars off camera than I care to remember. I named my company Immoral Productions for a reason.
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Posted - Jul 4 2009 : 12:45AM
Excuse me but by saying The best preformers do whatever it takes to make a good scene if that means fucking their talent off camera they do it. Did you mean to say that the best producers/agents/directors do whatever it takes.....if that means fucking their talent off camera they do it? Because otherwise, I can make no sense out of what you posted. Performers fucking their talent? I'm sorry but I'm not clear on what you are saying..Are you saying that unless a girl puts out for you for free, she won't get work from you? If so, I think you might consider changing your name from Prono Dan to Rapist Dan.Trust me, if you are saying what I think that you are saying, you are a POS. Edited by - Clam Digger on 7/4/2009 12:57:25 AM
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Posted - Jul 4 2009 : 1:35AM
Clam Digger, I think Porn Dan is talking about the women fucking the male performers off camera pre-scene to get a good vibe going before the filming starts. Pretty standard, you see it all the time in BTS.
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Posted - Jul 4 2009 : 1:55AM
You are "spot one". Some feamle talent doesn't understand this and sits aroundwith a bad attitude and won't "help" out their male talent. As a producer I notice this. The best female talent understands that 90 % of male porn stars preformance is mental and will do the little extras to help them. They understand the importance of being pleasant to be around, that is why I as a producer will hire the girls that are fun to be around again and again.
Clam Digger - You do know Porno Dan is a performer too right. I don't get what you are so upset about. Porno Dan - I get what you are saying man. Some people just feel the need to have to jump to a girls defense even when it isn't needed. There is more stuff on this forum that is misinterpreted and then a full scale battle ensues because of it. Pay it no attention. *****The Dr. of Nasty*****
Posted - Jun 25 2009 : 6:46PM
