(This thread got way off topic and I was told to make a new one and this one would be moved tostar crossed, someone please do this) Ask me whatever the fuck you want, get an honest answer back! If you're looking for strictly sex advice, please check out my other thread "Leyas fucking advice" :) Edited by - leyafalcon on Jan 2 2013 Topic Moved by - Jonny Jay on Jan 3 2013
Hi leya, welcome to the forums! I think you mentioned on another post that you are planning to shoot your 1st anal scene. How has your preparation been going? Can you share some hints/tips for couples that are thinking of taking the "anal plunge" so to speak? Thanks!
I start prepping a day before butt sex, I do an enema with just warm water, you can get the enema bags or the fleet enemas. If you choose the fleet enemas make sure you empty out the fluid and replace it with warm water, you will want to continue doing this until its just water running out of your butt hole. Take an immodium, eat as little and as light as possible so that you do not cause your bowels to start working again. You will want to wear a butt plug during the day and also to bed. When you wake up, take 2 more immodium, enema again until it comes out just clear water then you can stick the butt plug back in if you would like (lubed up of course) . Right before the scene, or the real life ass fucking I would enema a few more times just to be sure and then take a lube applicator ( its like a little thing you put lube into then stick it up your ass ) put your preference of lube in there and inject it up your ass hole so you don't have to take as many "lube breaks" . As far as ass lube, I have found silicone based to be more cushiony and doesnt dry as quickly though its really annoying afterwards as its all sticky and rolls off of your body, water based for butt sex just isn't moist enough for me. And last but not least, enjoy your butt sex and have a nice tasty meal afterwards!!!!
Leya, enjoy that first anal scene. Don't let the director talk you into a double anal until you have done it a few times in your personal life, that practice really is dangerous as you can tear your anal sphincter.
double anal is not going to happen with me, the ass hole is not meant to stretch that big then stretch back,...the pussy was made to stretch and stretch back after being stretched LOL. Plus 2 guys cocks in me rubbing against each other is not a turn on to me, one in my mouth, one in my ass or pussy is all good but when the 2 cocks are sharing a sphincter at one time or extremely close to each other just is not a turn on hahahahaha
well, I do believe I have a lot of fetishes besides the obvious tall, dark man in a mask breathing heavily. I love men that have foot fetishes and worship my feet (even though I find feet gross!) I have a handcuff fetish (tattoo on my lower leg gives it away) I love long hair on both men and women (not pubes, the normal hair) , I don't know I just love it rough and nasty so I guess you can say being degraded and dirty talk is another fetish??
Good to hear. I don't get what is sexy about double anal or even double vaginal anyway. I have heard several porn horror stories about performers (usually female) attempting double anal and ending up having stitches in their asses to repair the damage. Another FYI: If you ever look at Behind Kink's archive look for the figging (shoving a ginger root up the butt) update. Funny as hell but it also shows why this practice is questionable. It is a couple of years old now so it is at least a few pages back. What directors come up with when they run out of material. Enjoy performing and have fun! That is what porn should be all about.
I enjoy all types of scenes but I do prefer having a pretty girl to play with, I often call myself 97.3% lesbian...I still love cock but the rest of a mans body does nothing for me, but women on the other hand...yummy!
^ Maybe Larry Flynt (owner of Hustler which produces the Paylin series) will cast you in the next edition of Nailin' Paylin. Your request to perform with Lisa Ann is something to mention to your agent if you have one, he may be able to make it happen. One note, I don't think Lisa Ann does BDSM so keep that in mind if you are offered a scene with her.
it turns me on and is exactly why I entered this industy, I am an attention whore and I love having people watch me fuck. The more attention I get, the better!
Then...why aren't we talking about sex? Did someone mention figging? I fucking LOVE figging! It's one of my favorite types of anal play when I'm topping and so easy a caveman can do it! The ultimate is to fig someone who's never experienced it before. The nice thing about ginger is that it's very intense but only for about 20 minutes or so and it doesn't actually burn the rectal mucosa like some chemicals will. And if you age the ginger properly it gets crazy intense. I like to have my bottom bound ass up or cuffed to a spanking bench. It's more fun when they see you preparing the ginger but you can have it prepped and soaking in cold water. You keep it wet and there is no need for lube. Then when you start beating their ass they clench on the ginger and their ass feels like it's catching on fire. If they try to push it out you just grab their ass and push their cheeks together and listen to them howl. *sigh* Good times...good times... As far as anal goes, I never prep like you would. It's not really necessary for what I do. I just keep my ass really clean and if I know I'm going to have anal, I douche it out a little before hand.
SSG, a funny thing happened to a girl at Kink once when Lochai and Madeline attempted a figging scene. The girl's ass actually ate the ginger root. Workman's comp was called, she was taken to St. Francis hospital and an exam done. The docs could not find the ginger root and said since it was plant matter that it would disintegrate and come out on the toilet. There is a documentary video on Behind Kink but as this happened two or three years ago it is way back on the list.
I have the perfect idea for your role in Nailin Paylin. You could dye your hair black and be Sarah Palin's slut daughter Bristol. The scene would be you slipping into the White House and banging Barry Obama (yes, the President) up the ass with a strap-on after a White House party. After that you would slip into Michelle Obama's bedroom and shove that strap-on down her throat before fucking her up the ass as well, then fucking Speaker John Boehner (pronounced boner) up the ass for good measure. Lisa Ann can be fucking Nancy Pelosi or Dianne Feinstein (both from San Francisco of all places) in the scene where you fuck Rep. Boehner, then you just swap partners in the middle of the scene before making out with each other at the end. Of course you wouldn't actually get to fuck Lisa Ann in that movie but I think it would make for great porn.
That's why you have to make sure you use a good sized piece of ginger and make sure you whittle a safety stop just like you would have on a butt plug. Btw this could be a really good thread if people would stay on topic.
Totally agree, it's not everyday we get a performer offering sex advice here. Please stay on topic guys remember which forum you are in. thx. Speaking of which. Leya any advice on giving oral to the good lady friend, should I stick to the alphabet technique or go for something a little more sophisticated?
I would say get your face all in it, fuck her hole with your tongue and also use your fingers. No woman likes a man or woman to eat their pussy by just sticking their tongue out and moving it while appearing to avoid actually getting your lips and nose in there. Suck on it, nibble on it, rub the clit with your nose while you're fucking her hole with your tongue.
I would say get your face all in it, fuck her hole with your tongue and also use your fingers. No woman likes a man or woman to eat their pussy by just sticking their tongue out and moving it while appearing to avoid actually getting your lips and nose in there. Suck on it, nibble on it, rub the clit with your nose while you're fucking her hole with your tongue.
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Exactly. So many guys say they love eating pussy but when it comes down to it they have the enthusiam of a grape. Sweet with possibilities but not very exciting. Another thing, ask what she likes. Don't just assume that you are the shit when it comes to oral. We've had the discussion before about what guys like about oral. So it stands to reason that women have preferences as well. For example, Leya says tongue fuck. I like a lot of sucking and would rather have a couple fingers. I also like to have my ass played with during oral but some women don't. @matchmaker, Thanks!
I would say ask before sticking anything larger than a glycerin or Dilaudid suppository up her ass. Also make sure she cleans her anus thoroughly before playing with that part of her body. Leya, I would play with you any day. I make a great Dom and treat the submissives right! I hope you like handcuffs and rope bondage. I don't do much with whips in my personal life but have a hand ready to make your ass shiny red. I am sure The Dude will also volunteer some of his time to make you feel right at home.
in case you have not noticed, I have handcuffs tattooed on my right calfso yes, you can say I love them and ropes as well!! I think every couple should experiment with bdsm at least twice, switching roles each time to see what works best for them!
^ For some reason I missed that but figured you liked different forms of bondage including handcuffs. I had to be sure, though. I hear The Dude is awaiting your next DVD's arrival in his mailbox as I type. I will certainly look you up for my next purchase or maybe you will do more scenes at Kink and I will catch one of those. I did look your name up on their site and saw you had only done one scene (you are relatively new so no surprise). I hope Marty or Claire get their meathooks on you soon.
What is the perfect sized cock for you? Length and girth? I like asking porn actresses that to see what the response is. Most,in my experience of asking, prefer the not so gargantuan porn sized cock.
actually, most cocks in porn even "gargantuan" ones I do not find all that large compared to what I fuck in real life...I prefer super huge and wide unless if it is going up my ass, then I prefer a medium sized. Porn has shown me though that even if you have a small cock if you fuck really well, it still works.
Thanks Leya...that's another response I got from other porn performers...the cocks in porn just appear larger due to camera angles etc. Kind of like the phrase "the camera always adds ten pounds." I havee spoken with other performers during live cams and chats and have been told that an average 6 to 7 inch cock is perfect . I have been measured before out of curiousity and am in between 6 3/4 and 7 inches in length and have a circumference of 5 1/2 inches...upon telling other performers that in chats I get a pretty universal response of that being on the upper side of average and comparable to quite a few popular male performers. Maybe they are just being nice...your opinion?
So for instance say you and I were getting hot and heav and you whispered in my ear "fuck my asshole with that cock!" Would my size be along the lines of the medium sized cocks you like for anal, or on the big or small size for anal? Weird question but you are here willing to answer questions and I think I have a fetish for hearing a pornstar admit that they would get pleasure from an average guy like me...I think civilians downgrade their abilities and think they couldn't "perform" to a porn actresses expectations...the only difference is civilians fuck in private and possibly at swinger parties (likemy wife and I enjoy doing) and porn actresses do the same things except they have the added aspect of doing it while being filmed for an audience of unknown people to enjoy. I love your photos and film work also by the way...(I'm flirting I think) lol.