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| stinkfist Senior Member  Subterfuge...... 7401 Posts 4/07 |  Posted - Oct 18 2008 : 10:53PMAnyone who has seen some of my posts etc will know i am not that serious a person i like to have a laugh,i like to mock the so called "perfect" world that we live in..going off track here.I need some advice i am looking to ask out this girl who i have fancied for ages we have briefly spoke and i sometimes bump into her in my social circle rock pubs etc...should i be myself and go for it or should i take things from a different approach and be the quiet guy...what is best to do. To try and change seems wrong,i like my laughs but would this girl approve?..for some reason i feel nervous and feel that when i get the chance i will crawl into my shell and not be the person i really am.....any good advice would be welcome(i expect hell from the adt regulars) [Link] |
| smutlover65 Member 359 Posts 10/07 | Posted - Oct 18 2008 : 11:43PM [Link] |
HeyNow  Oblivious Gold Star Hey! 5965 Posts 1/03 | Posted - Oct 19 2008 : 12:56AM A. Pull your pants down. B. Pull HER pants down. C. Get her email address and send her hilarious photoshopped pics. D. Become her coworker or mentor and have your way? E. Tell her about the legend of stinkfist. That's all I have right now. Don't really pull her pants down without her permission. I think it might be a felony otherwise. [Link] |
| Joey Starr Senior Member Still wanking after all these years. 8082 Posts 10/00 | Posted - Oct 19 2008 : 2:56AM Edited by - Joey Starr on 10/19/2008 2:57:10 AM [Link] |
| ma meeshka Iconoclastic Member 3939 Posts 4/06 | Posted - Oct 19 2008 : 6:20AM [Link] |
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| jayo All-Star Member 2117 Posts 7/04 | Posted - Oct 19 2008 : 2:21PM [Link] |
| boogieknight Member 146 Posts 3/07 | Posted - Oct 19 2008 : 4:56PM First never have the mindset that if she doesnt like you then something is wrong with her or whatever. There will be women who aren't attracted to you no matter what and it doesnt mean its her loss or anything else - who knows, you might make good friends. Don't let it serve as a blow to your confidence either. Second never change for anyone. The only change should be for you! If you lack confidence, stutter, give off nervous vibes etc then you need to work on that but not to impress women but to improve your social skillset which is important in all walks of life. As far as you being funny, entertaining, non-serious - stay that way but beware of overkill. Now if she doesnt like that type there is nothing you can do. I am that type of guy so I don't waste time with girls who want straight faced, serious macho alpha male types. But I also know not to come off as a standup comedian or clown which can get girls laughing but they'll see you as nothing butt friends unless your dating a Tina Fey type or the likes. Let her know you have a serious side too. Don't be Will Ferrell/Jim Carey around her 24/7 or you come off as obnoxious which is death to your dating game. If you need anymore advice just ask. Remember be yourself but also be cool, calm and collected and when you ask her out look her in the eye and ask her confidently without joking around or saying we should hang out sometimes etc. Edited by - boogieknight on 10/19/2008 4:57:48 PM [Link] |
| stinkfist Senior Member Subterfuge...... 7401 Posts 4/07 | Posted - Oct 19 2008 : 6:22PM [Link] |
| Bob All-Star Member 5516 Posts 3/03 | Posted - Oct 19 2008 : 9:10PM Otherwise, she may end up liking the false self you've created. Nothing ventured nothing gained. Good luck and have fun! [Link] |
| stinkfist Senior Member Subterfuge...... 7401 Posts 4/07 | Posted - Nov 8 2008 : 11:26PM [Link] |
| HeyNow Oblivious Gold Star Hey! 5965 Posts 1/03 | Posted - Nov 8 2008 : 11:45PM [Link] |
| jayo All-Star Member 2117 Posts 7/04 | Posted - Nov 8 2008 : 11:53PM [Link] |
| RandomPrecision Senior Member Enjoy! 8175 Posts 3/06 | Posted - Nov 10 2008 : 5:32AM 1. She likes you a lot 2. She's aggressive enough to make the first move herself. I don't know how much things have changed since I even bothered trying to get a date but in my experience, women like for the man to make the first move. I can't advise you as to how to do it or what would be good because I was never successful with women. All I will say is that if you want her, you should try because she probably won't come to you. And if you don't try, then you'll never know. You'll be kicking yourself. Or you'll spend the next five years admiring her from afar, finally work up the courage, possibly get rejected and feel like a fool for wasting so much time. She might reject you but if she does, it won't be the end of the world. Edited by - randomprecision on 11/10/2008 5:39:33 AM [Link] |
| NewRomancer Deactivated User under THEIR avatar 738 Posts 7/08 | Posted - Nov 12 2008 : 9:04AM Love, like you'll never get hurt Dance, like nobody's watching It's gotta come from the heart, if you want it to work. [Link] |
| Wind Member My Kinda Girl 28 Posts 9/08 | Posted - Nov 13 2008 : 4:03AM 2 squirts on both sides of the neck and bite the bullet, ask her to dance. Nothing to it, just say "Hey, would you like to dance" Doesn't matter if you can dance or not. While you are on the dance floor tell her you really like the way she smells, After that, ask her to your place for a few drinks, if she says yes, you are in like flynn. What do you have to lose? [Link] |
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