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| cross Senior Member  I Love Beef Curtains! 1072 Posts 6/05 |  Posted - Apr 5 2008 : 11:26PMLooking for some advice. I've had a crush on my flatmate's bestfriend for a few years now but never felt able to do anything about it. I've been living with this chick for over a year now and I'm sick of supressing my feelings for her friend because lately I've been noticing her checking me out, a lot. The reason I've never done anything is about it is politics, these to chicks squabble and argue all the time but they're best friends and always get over it. Pretty much what I want to know is, is there any way I can do this without pissing of my flatmate who I'm really close to and then becoming the fuel for their next fire. I just don't want to complicate things but this girl is really really hot - Think Velicity Von body & looks Cheers [Link] |
Bob  All-Star Member 5516 Posts 3/03 | Posted - Apr 5 2008 : 11:30PM [Link] |
| cross Senior Member I Love Beef Curtains! 1072 Posts 6/05 | Posted - Apr 6 2008 : 12:12AM Lastly would it be a good idea to tell my flatmate of my intentions? [Link] |
| Bob All-Star Member 5516 Posts 3/03 | Posted - Apr 6 2008 : 3:49AM Face to face. Tell your flatmate. [Link] |
| Bob All-Star Member 5516 Posts 3/03 | Posted - Apr 6 2008 : 3:52AM Ask her out for a beer or dinner or something. If she's interested, she'll say yes. [Link] |
| cross Senior Member I Love Beef Curtains! 1072 Posts 6/05 | Posted - Apr 6 2008 : 4:59AM Yep face to face was where I was leaning. [Link] |
| jayo All-Star Member 2117 Posts 7/04 | Posted - Apr 6 2008 : 11:51AM I've had far better experiences simply airing things out and being open and honest, than I have trying to be sneaky. Plus, being sneaky makes you look like a sneak, which doesn't exactly build respect. Also, start working on another place to live, because you will end up the in middle of the next problem they have. Or if one gets mad at you, the other will take her side. (Been there, done it, bought the t-shirt.) Edited by - jayo on 4/6/2008 11:52:11 AM [Link] |
| cross Senior Member I Love Beef Curtains! 1072 Posts 6/05 | Posted - Apr 7 2008 : 2:24AM I've spoken to a few people today about it and some have said avoid the situation all together and others have said go for it. Damn the conflicting opinions! Jayo - did your's end messily? [Link] |
| lindi Senior Member 12345 3205 Posts 9/02 | Posted - Apr 7 2008 : 2:47AM Tell your flatmate that you've been conflicted about this, and stayed away from this out of respect for her, but that it's an opportunity that you can't pass up. Then ask the girl out for coffee or something fairly casual. [Link] |
| Bob All-Star Member 5516 Posts 3/03 | Posted - Apr 7 2008 : 3:38AM Listen to Lindi on this. She's said it exactly right. [Link] |
| dmzline Member 43 Posts 8/07 | Posted - Apr 7 2008 : 9:21PM [Link] |
| cross Senior Member I Love Beef Curtains! 1072 Posts 6/05 | Posted - Apr 8 2008 : 5:18AM I will next time I see her I'll go for the coffee thing. Hell if she says no, at least I'll know right? [Link] |
| Daddy Fat Sacks Member 114 Posts 12/07 | Posted - Apr 13 2008 : 10:06PM [Link] |
| cross Senior Member I Love Beef Curtains! 1072 Posts 6/05 | Posted - Apr 16 2008 : 4:46AM Oh well got that outta my system. My flatmate told me a story about her the other day... When she 1st met her current squeeze they were fooling around and she slammed the breaks on. He then asked her if she could finish him off and she said No. He then asked if he could finish himself on her. And the response was Ewwwww NO!!! Decision my flatmate is a prude so is her friend... Onwards and upwards!! [Link] |
| ma meeshka Iconoclastic Member 3939 Posts 4/06 | Posted - Apr 16 2008 : 7:30AM [Link] |
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