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| 24LuXe New Member  1 Posts 2/25 |  Posted - Apr 4 2025 : 5:13AMOne thing I've been thinking about a lot lately is aftercare in BDSM. For those who don't know, aftercare is the emotional/physical support given after a scene-whether it's cuddling, hydration, reassurance, or simply space to process. I've noticed that some people see it as just for subs, but I think Doms need aftercare too. So I wanted to ask-how do you personally handle aftercare? Do you have specific rituals? Have you ever had an experience where it was neglected, and how did that affect you? Let's talk about it-because I feel like aftercare doesn't get enough discussion!  [Link] |
| James01 Member 20 Posts 5/25 | Posted - May 12 2025 : 8:56AM Personally, my aftercare varies depending on the intensity of the scene. Sometimes it's cuddles and quiet time, other times it's snacks, water, or even a check-in the next day. I've definitely had moments in the past where aftercare was skipped or rushed, and it left me feeling kind of raw and disconnected. Since then, I try to make it a non-negotiable part of play.  [Link] |
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