Anything to work with beyond the fact that one of you is female?
Likes, phobias, dislikes? Anal - one or both? Experience/comfort with size?
Likely others will need more parameters, but just some ideas of what might help others.
On the left column of the screen (the yellow part) there are a bunch of links. Scroll down and you will see that one is Sex Toy Talk . There are some reviews floating around too.
I haven't used the specific toys in the links, but I have some general feedback that I hope will be helpful.
Glass (borosilicate, commonly referred to as Pyrex®) is an interesting and classy choice for sex toys. It's expensive, but worth it if you know what you want. The manufacturing process for glass is relatively eco-friendly, and the material itself is nontoxic. Some toys, especially jelly and cyberskin items, contain icky stuff like phthalates, which are potentially carcinogenic and have been linked to sperm damage in men. If your current toy happens to have a strong odor, I would gently recommend that you discontinue use and get something safer. Glass is harmless unless it becomes chipped or cracked. If that happens, you must discard it, although glass toys are a fair bit sturdier than you might expect.
You will want to keep in mind that glass is very rigid, which makes a small toy feel much bigger. I once had a five-inch-long rigid dildo that I was unable to insert fully during anal play, simply because it didn't follow the curve of my tailbone and thus was very uncomfortable. I would suggest that you get a butt plug instead. Then you will have a shorter and more manageable toy that you can pop in and out for a similar feel to the one you're using currently.
It's much easier to clean a glass toy than a rubber toy, since glass is nonporous. I usually just handwash mine with antibacterial soap, but you can also use isopropyl (rubbing) alcohol, bleach, boiling water (you must start at room temperature, or you risk breaking the glass), or a cycle through the dishwashing machine.
Pyrex = a borosilicate! cool! Im a glaze maker so I use borosilicates all the time, its REALLY cool to know this info for me... cuz I am a tidbit info junkie!
Are you pounding the glass dildo in with a hammer??? The glass dildo's are great!!! I know Doc Johnson offers two, and I think California Exotics offers the E-glass series. They are microwavable, freezable and dishwasher safe!!! I am well aware of pyrex and that is some high quality glass dildos!! Check out "The Juicer" A must have for every true deviant!!
People aren't always thinking about being careful at that point. My floors aren't always carpeted. Glass + lube = slippery. Gravity + slippery + distracter&excited = accident.
Always plan ahead, lay a blanket out, if the glass dildo slips out and breaks move away, step away and resume the high level intense moment with back up toys!!
good toys? Hmmm? Gotta little sidetracked, you might want to try an arousal gel made by Topco Sales, item number TS3123M. Creates cool and tingly sensations on her clit and inside her, very nice lotion!!! Rabbit Vibe?? I would recommend the rechargeable rabbit by California Exotics (the high cost will make up for what you pay in batteries, trust me), the ladybug by Nasswalks is always a treat (best used doggy style, it gives both clitoral and prostrate stimulation if you fuck her hard enough, that is why I rate the ladybug over any butterfly anyday, it works for both), anally? X-10 anal beads or any anal beads that are completely covered in latex. The beads on a string are strictly a one time deal. Duo Tone balls enhanced with a vibrating bullet??? Can you say ORGASM? And who can rule out the Pocket Rocket or any of its competitors? Total clitoral stimulation!!!
Regarding plastic, I've tried acrylic, and I don't like it. It scratches easily, lacks the heft of glass, and is inferior for temperature play.
I actually prefer stainless steel to either glass or acrylic. Steel has a smooth texture similar to glass, without the concerns about breakage. I don't have to mess around with cooling or warming it—because metal is an excellent conductor, that butt plug quite naturally feels cooold when it goes in and hot when I finally take it out.
It's easier to have a toy custom-made in glass, however, and Clear Ecstasy did a good job making one for me.
Wood is one of the materials I haven't yet personally tried. The top design in the Fantastic Sextoys link looks virtually identical to sculptor Rey Carino's Venus model.
There's a review of a wood "Jildo" at freddyandeddy.com. The full catalog of models can be found at woodpeckersroost.com.
I've read that maple is the ultimate material for sex-toys because it expels bacteria from it's inside, I suppose it does not even need to be finished.
The woman from Jildo seems to use every kind of wood...
so I was trying to find the ladybug, or anything like it because that is actualy what my gf wished she had. so anyone got any preferences, i didnt find the ladybug online so i thought I would come back here again.