Black Guys White Chicks,,, N word????? (page 2)

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Faceblaster Member 390 Posts 5/04	Posted - Aug 15 2006 : 2:40AM I love the story in Permanent Midnight where he picks up a nice shiksa and while he's banging her she shouts out: Oh God, I'm fucking a Jew! Makes me hard everytime. [Link]
Harri Patel Senior Member #SDNY he's all yours. -- Michael Steele 5110 Posts 3/03	Posted - Aug 15 2006 : 3:11AM Kami wrote: I have shot scenes where i was told to the point of insistance that I say it over and over Click to expand and over, and over, and over . . . Is the guy that shoots those a black guy, or a white guy trying to sound like a black guy? [Link]
imak Adult Film Legend 3345 Posts 2/04	Posted - Aug 15 2006 : 3:32AM I don't remember, it was for My Wife's First Monster Cock #4 Hey I got the cover, and Boz is a hell of a fuck. That's not my gig though, doesn't do a thing for me. [Link]
Biggdiesal Member Illinois 252 Posts 5/05	Posted - Aug 16 2006 : 6:04PM Just watched Interracial last night and I was not offended but some will when they watch the last scene with Pumper and Pipes and I forgot the whited chick name but she is Russian. It did not offend me but some brotha's would beat her ass if she said that to them....lol If u have not seen it check it out my nigga's! [Link]

AdriannaNicole Member 127 Posts 2/06	Posted - Aug 17 2006 : 12:42AM Tyler Knight wrote: I've role played with a girl in my private life where she dressed up like Gestapo, and pretended she was Hienrich Himmler's daughter (she was German, but It was my idea). It's not a double standard, but a different standard. One of comfort. Edited for spelling. Edited by - tyler knight on 8/14/2006 4:40:53 PM Click to expand HOT!! Thanks for the bedtime thought Tyler. I'm going to pretend that it was Annette and that one is going into the 'wank bank' now. Thanks again. Goodnight. -Adrianna Nicole [Link]
Tyler Knight Member 139 Posts 3/05	Posted - Aug 17 2006 : 2:31AM AdriannaNicole wrote: Tyler Knight wrote: I've role played with a girl in my private life where she dressed up like Gestapo, and pretended she was Hienrich Himmler's daughter (she was German, but It was my idea). It's not a double standard, but a different standard. One of comfort. Edited for spelling. Edited by - tyler knight on 8/14/2006 4:40:53 PM Click to expand HOT!! Thanks for the bedtime thought Tyler. I'm going to pretend that it was Annette and that one is going into the 'wank bank' now. Thanks again. Goodnight. -Adrianna Nicole Click to expand LOL, you should have heard the nasty things comming out of Annette's mouth during our scene for RLD a while back! Her accent alone drove me crazy. I'd love to get the two of you together, but guys would eat me alive! That's one for MY "wank bank". :-) [Link]
Tyler Knight Member 139 Posts 3/05	Posted - Aug 17 2006 : 2:33AM Faceblaster wrote: I love the story in Permanent Midnight where he picks up a nice shiksa and while he's banging her she shouts out: Oh God, I'm fucking a Jew! Makes me hard everytime. Click to expand That was hillarious! I loved that scene! [Link]
lee_11 Member former industry insider 62 Posts 7/06	Posted - Aug 17 2006 : 8:20AM When black people use it, it just shows how stupid they are; when white people use it, it just shows how maliciously stupid they are. Click to expand Point made. In servitude of Hillary Scott since 2005 [Link]
Long Noel Member 245 Posts 7/07	Posted - Jul 16 2007 : 11:23PM I forgot to mention in my review of Belladonna's Dark Meat... Annette Schwarz says "fuck me with that nigga cock in my ass" to Rico Strong. And I thought it was kinda sexy!!! I know some brothas who don't mind if a white woman says the word. But these'll be some of the same brothas who'll go off when a white man uses the word. Sometimes, some of us don't give anyone that much power to get mad at them about it. It's just a motherfucking word! [Link]
messhuga Member Stop the Swedes!!!!! 824 Posts 3/07	Posted - Jul 17 2007 : 9:08AM I do remember a scene which Sandra Romain did for Hush hush,and she was told to yell the N word,and she did it. It just sounded so odd coming from her,coz she's Romanian and knows nothing about American Politics,so she was unassuming. Anette Swazt has no problems in dropping the Bomb,but she does it in a very Different way without being all offenssive. So the Jury is out there,I would prefer the Word barnished from everything including Porn,but you know people will always find a way of using it. I'm not big on Rap music so I don't even hear much of the Word. [Link]
The The Member 196 Posts 2/06	Posted - Jul 17 2007 : 4:46PM I have a volume five of the series My Hot Wife is Fucking Blackzilla. All throughout the movie, in each scene, the guy keeps imploring the girl to tell him, "fuck me with that nigger dick." The girls oblige, and the guy was eating it up. But, in the scene with Ava Devine, the scenario is that Ava gets fucked by the black guy (sorry, I don't recall his name) in front of her white husband. And she's saying nigger a lot; no problem. But as soon as the husband says, "Yeah! Fuck her with that big nigger dick," the black guy objects, saying "Hey, hey! What'd I tell you about that shit?" Apparently, it was more than okay for the girls to say it, but not the guy. For me, I'd rather not hear any name-calling in scenes. [Link]
Draxxx Senior Member 3831 Posts 2/07	Posted - Jul 17 2007 : 9:09PM I'm black and I'm fairly indifferent about it. It would be fine with me if I never heard it in a porno and if I did it wouldn't upset my much other than thinking it may sound silly. It's porn and it's all about fantasy, fetishes and seeing/hearing stuff out of the norm. Not every fantasy/fetish is going to or supposed to appeal to me and I don't expect it to. As far people using the word in porn or anywhere else goes I personally care more about content more than anything else. However, trying to decide on when and if the word should ever be used is just an incredible waste of time. Everyone seems to have their own set of goofy rules on who should be able to say it and when. Some say the word should never be used, some say only blacks can use it, some say whites can use it but only if they're into "black culture", some say you can say "nigga" but not "nigger", some say you shouldn't use it in front of certain people, etc., etc., etc....Some people give the word waaaaay more power than it should have at this point and time. [Link]
heart pure Deactivated User 66 Posts 7/07	Posted - Jul 17 2007 : 9:16PM What would have King Kong asked? It is an age old naughty but harmless fantasy, I believe. What I think may bother Black viewers IMO is some White female performers' condescending attidude toward Black male performers. Edited by - heart pure on 7/17/2007 9:24:21 PM [Link]
messhuga Member Stop the Swedes!!!!! 824 Posts 3/07	Posted - Jul 17 2007 : 9:19PM I haven't rented out stuff from Hush hush in a while,besides those types of Flicks are marketed towards white males with a fetish of some Black thug deflowering an Innocent white chick. What ever floats your Boat I guess. mod: extraneous quote removed Edited by - hardware on 7/17/2007 10:01:36 PM [Link]

Ida Lupino Deactivated User 429 Posts 11/08	Posted - Oct 6 2009 : 7:00AM Laurie Cameron Fan wrote: Twizted6 wrote: Joel wrote: Nigger = racist Nigga = not always racist There is a difference. Click to expand I'm afraid that as long as terms like these are still being thrown around, racism will continue to be an issue. Click to expand This is unlikely in fact in Spanish language the word isn't racist at all it simply means Black as a colour Same thing for Latin Countries like Nigeria or Niger or the Niger river have their names from this latin root Nigeria = Country of Black People Ispania = Country of Hispanic people Gallia = Country of Gaul people In latin language did not exist any word with a racist meaning , Racism was an unknown idea for them , they have slavery but it had nothing to do with race and it wasn't on ethnic basis , The Romans themselves could be brought away in slavery by their enemies Click to expand Why Rome is a great city! [Link]
Fernandez Deactivated User 781 Posts 12/08	Posted - Dec 15 2009 : 3:01PM Keebler only. [Link]
Harri Patel Senior Member #SDNY he's all yours. -- Michael Steele 5110 Posts 3/03	Posted - Dec 15 2009 : 4:45PM Two pointless thread-bumps of an IR thread by two children who need to go find a different sandbox to play in. [Link]
deadmanwade Deactivated User 161 Posts 9/09	Posted - Aug 23 2010 : 7:57AM Was watching some older hush hush stuff lately and am coming to find that interracial porn without liberal and even enthusiastic use of 'nigger' seems a little jarring to me now, like there's something missing. In fact, i'd equate it almost to watching porn and there being no climax as i don't much care for facial cumshots anyway. Can't say i'm too proud of this, but i'd like to see more of it . . . [Link]
web_jock Member 21 Posts 8/10	Posted - Jul 22 2011 : 12:39PM I happen to be an African American male, and even though my PRIMARY fetishes/fantasies involve machines - such as robots (hence my avatar) - I also like to explore other very taboo and shameful subjects, such as racially conscious sexual f/f as well. There is a thing called BDSM (bondage domination sado masochism) RACE (AND SEX) play, where the participants represents two or more classes of people who have had historical conflicts with each other, such as White slave master/mistress with a Black male/female slave, male/female Ku Klux Klan member with a Black male/female (I have seen at least one porn flick where two Klan guys fucked a Black woman, calling her a bitch and everything) and/or a male/female Nazi with a male/female Jew. Personally, I give it the BROADER term of BDSM IDENTITY PLAY, since it can cover background (race, color or ethnicity), political persuasion (Republican or Democrat), religious faith (Satanist, atheist, agnostic, Jew, Christian, Muslim, Bhuddist, Hindu, Shinoist, voodooist, etc.) and/or of course gender (male, female, gay or straight). I am currently looking for more porn featuring either White Men and Black Women fucking each other and calling each other names or Black Men and White Women fucking each other and calling each other names. Thanks for the list so far, guys! I appreciate it very much! If anyone wants more information on BDSM RACE PLAY, then just GOOGLE it. Also, I get turned on when skinny/average-sized woman make fun of/humiliate fat men. I happen to weigh 250 pounds myself. (I know, you guys are probably wondering what is going with me, do I have a low self-esteem?) Also, does ANYONE have that "controversial" video of Jennica St. Foxx using that n-word while she was being boned by that Black man? A lot of people blasted her to shreds for it, even Jesse Jackson, a Righteous Man of the Cloth, went off on her. (I am surprised that he would even know about ANY kind of porn videos anyway, wouldn't you?) Hey, I believe that free speech is free speech, even if it means that sometimes we would have to deal with fringe elements (hate groups) or even pop culture figures who say things that may hurt our feelings sometimes. I collect all kinds of controversial media, actually. Would someone tell me more about that Jennica St. Foxx video though, I am dying to see it and get it! Thank you so kindly! img src="//img1-ps.adultdvdtalk.com/9101c918ed5149" [Link]
LCF All-Star Member Non Prevalebunt! 10364 Posts 1/05	Posted - Jul 22 2011 : 3:43PM Just for the record Annette Schwarz if translated into English would be Annette Black [Link]
deadmanwade Deactivated User 161 Posts 9/09	Posted - Oct 16 2011 : 6:00AM deadmanwade wrote: Was watching some older hush hush stuff lately and am coming to find that interracial porn without liberal and even enthusiastic use of 'nigger' seems a little jarring to me now, like there's something missing. In fact, i'd equate it almost to watching porn and there being no climax as i don't much care for facial cumshots anyway. Can't say i'm too proud of this, but i'd like to see more of it . . . Click to expand It's only become more pronounced over time, interracial where the girl isn't getting wet as she calls the guy a nigger just seems tame and watered down. I miss Jaelyn Fox for that reason, she got off on being a nigger slut and it clearly made her juice up to be racist about opening her legs for any nigger she could get. [Link]
deadmanwade Deactivated User 161 Posts 9/09	Posted - Feb 22 2012 : 7:22PM bump [Link]
jizzyjay Member 914 Posts 10/07	Posted - Feb 22 2012 : 10:17PM I've seen alot of Janet Mason videos and I have yet to hear her use the word when she's working with black males,I don't see why (well I know why they use the word)these producer can't make videos without having to degrade minorities,not just blacks but latins,asians and so on. [Link]
TedtheBellhop Member 767 Posts 6/09	Posted - Feb 26 2012 : 1:51PM In My Hot Wife is Fucking Blackzilla 13 Joclyn Stone says it after being prompted to do so by Shane Diesel. [Link]

ControlFreak Member At the end of the day, it is what it is. 629 Posts 12/09	Posted - Feb 26 2012 : 4:00PM I'm black and I'm still partial to the classics. Back then the word was never used and IR was often not about race. In my experience, in real life, My relations with white girls has largely not been about race. To the extent that it was about race, it was about her race, not mine. White girls make a lot of offhand comments about their own whiteness--and sometimes seductive comments. I've literally been enticed with "there's nobody whiter than me"...when I got her naked, I could see she was almost right. If IR porn wanted to be true to life, there would be more of that and less n-word and less "i want some black dick". [Link]
deadmanwade Deactivated User 161 Posts 9/09	Posted - Feb 27 2012 : 8:43PM ^^ I like this angle too, accentuating the white-trash factor or spoilt rich daddy's girl are both good polar opposites to see in interracial. something quite appealing about the idea of a MFF where a stereotyped ignorant trailer park slut and a 90210-type princess both bond over a mutual nigger lust. [Link]
mharris127 Senior Member 1844 Posts 8/09	Posted - Feb 28 2012 : 3:53AM Laurie Cameron Fan wrote: Just for the record Annette Schwarz if translated into English would be Annette Black Click to expand That was what came to my mind as well. Of course when this thread was started Annette was likely an unknown teenager but she still came to mind. As for the "N" word I think it slowly is gaining a different definition -- a black thug with a rap sheet as long as your leg or a killer/rapist/assault with intent perp. In my opinion a person shouldn't even have to be black to meet this definition but most would disagree with me on that contention. [Link]
more_cowbell Member 162 Posts 2/12	Posted - Feb 28 2012 : 4:39AM Racial tension is just as legitimate as any other sexual role play. Alot of black men are turned on by the idea of sexually dominating a white girl who represents the racist attitudes of her peers as well as being a forbidden fruit. And I'm sure sure a fair amount of white men want to dominate the ”strong” black woman with the mean attitude. Racism has been a worthless pain in the ass for black people for centuries, it's about time it became useful for something. So I'll gladly exploit racism for a fetish. Gladly. [Link]
pabloescobar Member 35 Posts 12/11	Posted - Feb 28 2012 : 10:40AM The mentioning of how a black man wants to dominate a white woman because of racial tension and oppression is spot on. Conversely, I'm sure there are white guys that are into IR as a humiliation factor. I for one would give a ton of cash to see my ex dominated and used and discarded by a black man. [Link]
Gore Gore Girl Doctor of the Erotic Arts 7238 Posts 1/09	Posted - Feb 28 2012 : 11:39AM ControlFreak wrote: To the extent that it was about race, it was about her race, not mine. ... If IR porn wanted to be true to life, there would be more of that and less n-word and less "i want some black dick". Click to expand If you look at the rhetoric of some modern IR (BM/WF) porn box covers, you'll notice that often the white woman's race is as fetishized/highlighted (sometimes more so) as the black male's. Also, you mentioned the classics -- I agree that instances of BM/WF go unremarked, though in films like Behind the Green Door they are still invoking race. What I like about films such as The Resurrection of Eve is that it is about race, but in a way that is complex, and really dealing with race/gender/sexuality in an interesting way. I think Resurrection is a particularly fine example of this, but there are other examples too. [Link]
more_cowbell Member 162 Posts 2/12	Posted - Feb 28 2012 : 1:33PM pabloescobar wrote: The mentioning of how a black man wants to dominate a white woman because of racial tension and oppression is spot on. Conversely, I'm sure there are white guys that are into IR as a humiliation factor. I for one would give a ton of cash to see my ex dominated and used and discarded by a black man. Click to expand You may be onto something with this humiliation thing. As a slavery resenting black man I should hate seeing a black woman be used sexually by a white man. But I enjoy seeing it alot. And it took me a while to figure it out. Then I realized the race traitor angle. You see a woman who chose another race over your own be sodomized and jizzed on for the decision. Classic dynamic. [Link]
ControlFreak Member At the end of the day, it is what it is. 629 Posts 12/09	Posted - Mar 3 2012 : 8:12AM I don't get anything out of the race tension angle. I'm just a black dude that likes white girls and a lot of them like me. Edited by - ControlFreak on 3/3/2012 8:12:18 AM [Link]
Zaxxx Member 96 Posts 1/12	Posted - Mar 3 2012 : 9:26AM I think people are reading a whole lot more into this than they need to. It's porn. It's not a reflection of race relations in society today. Geez. If the black performer tells the white performer to say "Fuck me with your n... dick" then who cares. Really....who cares what the fuck they say. Damn....it's porn.....unreal, fantasy, staged, scripted. Nothing real or authentic about it. [Link]
Gore Gore Girl Doctor of the Erotic Arts 7238 Posts 1/09	Posted - Mar 3 2012 : 9:31AM Zaxxx wrote: It's not a reflection of race relations in society today. Geez. Click to expand Do you really believe this? What is it a reflection of exactly? [Link]

Zaxxx Member 96 Posts 1/12	Posted - Mar 3 2012 : 9:36AM Anything that isn't scripted.....unemployment rates, % minorities in power positions, inner city poverty levels, opportunities for black quarterbacks in NFL etc. Not Shane fuckin Diesel telling Sasha Grey to say "fuck me with your n.... dick". Edited by - Zaxxx on 3/3/2012 9:39:07 AM [Link]
Gore Gore Girl Doctor of the Erotic Arts 7238 Posts 1/09	Posted - Mar 3 2012 : 9:47AM Oh, I see -- I understood "race relations" in a broader sense; an overarching system that includes the things you listed, as well as porn fantasy. [Link]
Zaxxx Member 96 Posts 1/12	Posted - Mar 3 2012 : 10:24AM My point is, that it's hard to include Porn as a marker because it's scripted. I don't think you could even consider % white female performers that do IR. Too many variables....how many do it because they don't care who they fuck, who does it to boost the resume, who does it as a result of fan pressure, who does it because they prefer black men, who does it to increase website hits...we really never know. In general, what we see on camera shouldn't be considered a measurement. We could, however, consider how well porn companies, or websites owned by minorities perform in the market. This would indicate consumer trends etc... Dropping the N word in a scene is no big deal really. [Link]
Gore Gore Girl Doctor of the Erotic Arts 7238 Posts 1/09	Posted - Mar 3 2012 : 11:21AM ^ Yeah, I think we're talking about two different things. I was reflecting on how the types of rhetoric and fantasies people have/porn depicts (as well as the narratives in Hollywood movies/novels/any cultural product) is a reflection of "race relations" -- the racial climate/history/social systems related to race in a broad sense. [Link]
LCF All-Star Member Non Prevalebunt! 10364 Posts 1/05	Posted - Mar 3 2012 : 11:40AM I'm white and I happened to fuck a couple of black girls, I never thought much about their race nor mine, I actually never think about my white skin nor pay attention how much whiter it is compared to some other white, don't give a fuck to this, never did. I don't want to dominate any girl unless requested , they were hot chicks who happened to be black and that is all. I like IR in any way it is , don't like very much that based on racial tension though and about the cuckold based porn I don't like that based on humiliating the poor guy , I like that based on horniness and on how much pleasure she's getting , that of janet Mason for example. Edited by - Laurie Cameron Fan on 3/3/2012 11:47:44 AM [Link]
ControlFreak Member At the end of the day, it is what it is. 629 Posts 12/09	Posted - Mar 3 2012 : 4:29PM When white girls comment on their whiteness, you can't just say it's just a 'contrast' thing they are invoking because they do it with other white people. Offhand comments about their 'white feet' etc. are made with other white people and generally not when they hang out with black people. When they do it with me I think it's mainly 2 things: 1) they are showing a comfort level in that they don't have to censor themselves when they are around me 2) they know I'm into them. [Link]
more_cowbell Member 162 Posts 2/12	Posted - Mar 3 2012 : 11:17PM Just because sex is a physical and animalistic act doesn't mean the psychology behind a fetish can't be complex or linked to sociology. Yes some racial fetishes are mostly about physical attributes only but others are related to racial conquest and racial dominance/submission/humiliation. Like I said earlier, it's one of the few times racial baggage can be used to enhance something. [Link]
ControlFreak Member At the end of the day, it is what it is. 629 Posts 12/09	Posted - Mar 4 2012 : 1:55AM I think a distinction should be made between IR and IR cuckold porn. IR cuckold porn is a sub-genre about humiliation that I try like the dickens to avoid. In fact, if I find a good still of one my favorite starlets in a cuckold scene, I crop out the cuck dude with my software. A suck off competition or gangbang of 2 white girls by 9 white dudes and 1 black dude is still IR and it has nothing to do with any race fetishes or race tensions. [Link]
LCF All-Star Member Non Prevalebunt! 10364 Posts 1/05	Posted - Mar 4 2012 : 2:39AM ^ Just a question , I'm European, a Latin European (French-Italian) and frankly I'm not used to hear people commenting their whiteness with other people whether they're white or not , if they do they do confronting their tan for example. How did you get that tan? I'm here taking sunbaths a week before you and I'm still whiter.Or they do when ill : man you're pale go to a doctor. But reading you it seem some kind of issue completely new to me ,is it really that common havin white people comparing their whiteness outside a related topic like tan or illness? Edited by - Laurie Cameron Fan on 3/4/2012 2:41:34 AM [Link]
ControlFreak Member At the end of the day, it is what it is. 629 Posts 12/09	Posted - Mar 4 2012 : 3:05AM Laurie Cameron Fan wrote: ^ Just a question , I'm European, a Latin European (French-Italian) and frankly I'm not used to hear people commenting their whiteness with other people whether they're white or not , if they do they do confronting their tan for example. How did you get that tan? I'm here taking sunbaths a week before you and I'm still whiter.Or they do when ill : man you're pale go to a doctor. But reading you it seem some kind of issue completely new to me ,is it really that common havin white people comparing their whiteness outside a related topic like tan or illness? Edited by - Laurie Cameron Fan on 3/4/2012 2:41:34 AM Click to expand Speaking of illness, they make jokes about it. "Are you getting enough iron?" ha ha. But perhaps it is an American thing. I've experienced it quite a bit and have joked around about it myself. Actually, if you check out old movies like Butch Cassidy and the Sundance Kid there's a line where Butch Cassidy says to the girl "let me kiss that white neck of yours" or something like that. Or Liz Taylor said in an old movie about another female love interest of the lead "...her body isn't as white" or something like that. There's an American expression "that's mighty white of you" ha ha. Edited by - ControlFreak on 3/4/2012 3:07:13 AM [Link]
LCF All-Star Member Non Prevalebunt! 10364 Posts 1/05	Posted - Mar 4 2012 : 6:45AM ^ I said something like that about a neck once but I was thinking at it as compared to a swan which is usual forl long and delicate necks of some women,had nothing to do with race , at least in my mind. but I see your point Edited by - Laurie Cameron Fan on 3/4/2012 6:46:25 AM [Link]
BustdownGal Member 539 Posts 7/06	Posted - Mar 4 2012 : 10:40AM One thing that hasn't been given in this thread is a clear answer to the question "why can only black people use the n-word and 'get away with it'?" 2 reasons: 1. The same reason any in-group can use insults for bonding, but people not in the in-group cannot. Just like within a family people can insult each other or tease each other and 'get away with it' because of the context. But if someone outside the family teases or insults a member of the family, it's like "whoa, who the fuck are you to say that about my mother?" To bring it out to a broader context, people of all ethnicities and races do the same thing. Italians, Iranians, Jewish people, Muslims, indigenous persons, students at a particular school, all have their own versions of teasing insults that they say within their group but that it's not cool for people not in the group to say. No one has ever asked "why is it ok for me to call my brother a dumbass but a stranger can't call him a dumbass?" Because people GET that. My brother and I have a context. We have a relationship. We love each other. We have bonded with each other in such a way that playful barbs aren't going to break us up. A stranger yelling "hey dumbass" from across the street is not the same. That person wants to either start a fight or mug us. Which leads to answer 2: 2. Words change meaning with context. Remember in grade 7 when you learned about "denotation" and "connotation"? Well insults don't have "fairness standards." The context of the n-word is different than the context for the words "dinner", "monitor" or "soda". Words have different emotional weights at different times, and we all know this so we shouldn't pretend that there's no weight with words that insult those who are or who have been oppressed for a long time. "Political correctness" is the pouty, whiny concept invented and supported by those who want to continue to hold the privilege to say whatever the fuck they want without taking other people's feelings into consideration. All people want is for other people to not use the same stupid phrases that schoolyard bullies used, and people feel put upon. Hey, it used to be called "politeness" before the concept of P.C. was invented. Finally, for those who say "It's not fair that black people can say N and I can't," I say you need to do some self-examination on why the fuck you want to say it so badly. What, you want it to be ok for you to say simply so you can sing along with Li'l Wayne in your car and not feel guilty? Poor baby. [Link]
Jedi Master Bates Deactivated User 383 Posts 9/11	Posted - Mar 4 2012 : 11:17AM I hate to say this, but I don't really mind it much. I mean, if i'm having buttsecks with a girl and she calls me a nigger....well....thats ok, i have my dick in her ass. [Link]
WardqueenJanine Member 914 Posts 2/08	Posted - Mar 4 2012 : 2:42PM BustdownGal wrote: One thing that hasn't been given in this thread is a clear answer to the question "why can only black people use the n-word and 'get away with it'?" 2 reasons: 1. The same reason any in-group can use insults for bonding, but people not in the in-group cannot. Just like within a family people can insult each other or tease each other and 'get away with it' because of the context. But if someone outside the family teases or insults a member of the family, it's like "whoa, who the fuck are you to say that about my mother?" To bring it out to a broader context, people of all ethnicities and races do the same thing. Italians, Iranians, Jewish people, Muslims, indigenous persons, students at a particular school, all have their own versions of teasing insults that they say within their group but that it's not cool for people not in the group to say. No one has ever asked "why is it ok for me to call my brother a dumbass but a stranger can't call him a dumbass?" Because people GET that. My brother and I have a context. We have a relationship. We love each other. We have bonded with each other in such a way that playful barbs aren't going to break us up. A stranger yelling "hey dumbass" from across the street is not the same. That person wants to either start a fight or mug us. Which leads to answer 2: Click to expand Maybe and for the record I have no love for the use of that term in any context but it is only a word, In regard to the above quoute though, my Dad who was born right at the end of WW II recalls going to school and, having a distinctly recognizable German last name and coming from a very strong German ethnic background, recalled how that at the behest of their parents, other kids called him a "Nazi" and a "Kraut".. One even came up and gave him the Heil salute hitting him in the head. When he told my gradfather he was told that those terms were only words and unless my Dad allowed it, they caould never hurt him. My gradmother of course, who agonized for two years while my grandfather was overseas in combat, wasn't as serence or understanding. Even in my life, although I wasn't subjected to the same derision, still was told that since our family were Lutherans, we went to the "Kraut" church. The bottom line here though is that I would NEVER call anyone in my family a nazi, a kraut, a hun or anything similar. It's not funny and it obviously evokes bad memories on the part of everyone, irrespective as to who is doing the name-calling. I therefore find it strange that blacks can take such great offense to others using that term (IMHO justifiably so) but it doesn't cause any concern in the least bit when they use it on each other. [Link]
Royal Tee Member 665 Posts 6/07	Posted - Mar 9 2012 : 11:59PM I'm black. Here's how I kind of feel about it. If it's quoting a movie or song that we're talking about, it's fine. If it's a song, If we're rapping along my friends dont have to bleep it. I mean, it's the song, we as black people are putting it out and making money off it, how pissed can we be? Now, Things for me at least totally change when it's a social situation. What I mean is, If a white person is just dropping "Nigga" when we're just talking....then yeah, I'm not as cool about it. Some white dudes(mostly) just seem to want to "test" you with it. And if you don't "check it" then their gonna kick it up a notch. Or at least in my experiences. Thankfully, the area I live is predominately white but still pretty diverse. So people(even the rednecks) know that using the word is just going to make things awkward, so why bother. [Link]
deadmanwade Deactivated User 161 Posts 9/09	Posted - Mar 10 2012 : 12:28PM ^^ I agree with this, but what about in a sexual situation? Maybe I just don't take any racist remarks as anything but lighthearted and perfectly acceptable when it comes to sex and porn, the distinction is pretty important. If a girlfriend told me she had nigger sex fantasies that's fine by me, i'd even like it, but if she refers to our black neighbour as a nigger behind his back she's getting kicked out for being an ignorant and hateful moron. [Link]