Many black people I know contend that oral sex is nasty and only white people love it, but every black porno I watch includes oral sex. Obviously white people are not the only ones who watch black porn. Why do many brothers and sisters say oral sex is a fetish for white people? What's up with that!
I've only heard the stereotype of black women not liking oral sex.
I think there is thread about this somewhere on this site; the black guys said black women they know, don't like it, except one said he found a black woman who does and he married her!
I love oral--giving and receiving!
BTW, in the Playboy TV show, 7 Lives Xposed, a black cast member joked about black women not liking oral; it was during a "confessional" scene looking in the camera talking to the viewers. I think it was in the second season show.
"The unexamined life is not worth living."--Socrates
What kind of guy doesn't like getting a blowjob, regardless of their race? The black women I have dated didn't mind getting eaten out. Or if they did, they were too polite to say anything.
Edited to add: I forgot to say that I talked about this stereotype with a black man I worked with. His response was that it's not that he doesn't eat pussy, he just didn't go on about it like it was the only thing like white boys. His words.
Edited by - croy on 10/20/2004 10:57:00 PM
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Posted - Oct 20 2004 : 11:48PM
because back in the day it wasn't cool for black people to tell their sexual bizness out loud. when i was younger if you heard that a girl touch a guy dick she got talked about like a dog
very, very, very true. I remember in high school, which was not yet ten years ago for me, that I remember hearing about a girl I use to date sucking off her new boyfriend. even I was shocked to hear it. but now it would just be a common thing. it's just like the lack of black actors in porn into recently.
I just heard it as "oral sex", not mentioning specifics. I have heard it has to do with it being "immoral and wrong" to many black women.
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Posted - Oct 21 2004 : 5:36PM
I've heard this theory, but only for black women 'receiving' oral. They way I heard it was not that they don't like the actual "oral" part, but that black women are generally not as comfortable with their genitalia -- what ever that entails -- as white women.
Since I'm not a black woman, I really have no idea why this may be the case, but it's just what I heard.
People are just people, you can find all kinds of people of every race that do anything you can think of and lots of shit you never thought about. I have no idea why people on this board are so obsessed with these stupid, imaginary stereo-types, what need does it fulfill in you to believe balck people do this, or do that????
I am a black woman. I like giving and receiving oral sex. I know a few black women who don't enjoy giving or receiving. "That's where he pees from" and "What if he doesn't like the way I smell?" seem to be common excuses. I just chalk this up to them being ignorant and/or deadfucks. I have been with a few black men who didn't want to go down on me. They were quickly kicked to the curb. They didn't have any problems with receiving, though...
Most of the black people I know do it.
Edited by - Linda Graham11 on 10/21/2004 9:56:35 PM
The answer is also on this site somewhere. It was a subject on stereotyping.
This is my answer: Stereotyping has some sort of significance, otherwise it would not exist. It exist because so many people of a certain group do something, say something, are something, etc. That--by definition--defines stereotype. I think it's healthy to discuss why people are the way they are, believe the way they believe. Ignoring doesn't solve anything.
I think if such a topic is discussed in a mature manner, there is no reason to get all bent-out-of-shape, IMO. EVERYONE is stereotyped. There should be no fear in discussing it in a sociological, mature, manner, which seems to be the way it is being discussed here.
"The unexamined life is not worth living."--Socrates
The harsh reality is that these issues are seldom discussed in an intelligent manner, and you don't look at the world through rose colored glasses if you are subjected to a bevy of negative stereotypes.
Okay Lorrie...what race are you so we can all yuk it up saying stupid, untrue shit about you?!?!??!! If you wanna embrace stereotypes, you are a bigot.
I have heard a black guy tell me that he won't go down on a woman. When I talked about how much I loved to go down on my girl, He would shake his head and say something like, must be a white thing, lol.
I don't think that my experience with one guy proves the stereotype. But there are cultural phenomena that can be observed in any group. Maybe this is one of them, maybe not.
You probably don't realize it, but your "point" is a non sequitur. I didn't say that all people are represented by one, or what one says. In fact, I made a point to say the opposite.
Didn't Lorrie say something about the necessity of this being a mature discussion? Her point rings louder from your post than yours does.
Wow, this has been a very interesting thread.....My experience with Black males and oral has been to the extremes, they either REALLY like it or they REALLY hate it. And I would say on average more of them REALLY like it. Whenever I meet a guy who doesn't like it I find that when you try to get to the reason why they won't do it they usually have some pretty weak excuses about why they still expect you to suck and they only have to fu--......At this point if a guy won't do me first the second thing he's gonna see is brown, silky, darkness.....
Ladies, if your man won't go dining at the Y all you gotta do is grab the back of his head and sit on his face! Once he's smothered by your big ass he'll have to open his mouth to breathe and then, Voila!!! Oral sex, via asphyxiation.....by any means necessary. Vive La Vagina!! DOMINA X
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I thought I made myself very clear, but I make that mistake here often.
Boss, I assume you're speaking of "my friend" as Lorrie. Sorry to disappoint, but I don't know her. I don't even recall reading any of her posts here.
If when you say "cultural generalization" you mean something that describes a portion of a group used to describe all of the group. Then yes, you are correct. That is not true.
But, that is the point. I said that cultural phenomena do exist. They are the source of steroetypes, and they(the cultural phenomena) do have validity.
Do I have to give an example? Okay, here is one: Islam in Arab culture. Not all Arabs are Muslim, but most are.
It is not the best way to speak about a group, but it can have roots in truth. That was Lorrie's point(I believe, but could be wrong), and it was mine.
In essence, it agrees with your point. But, that just leads us back to the difficulties of having this discussion.
Cultural phenomena do exist, but there are obviously large exceptions. That is all I said. I didn't say that cultural generalizations are true.
Good day. I mean no ill will. We might even be able to agree, or disagree, peacefully. Stop trying to make this discussion about me, how much I've travelled, how many people I've met etc, and argue your point.
If you were in a black clique, would you admit you like going down and recieving. I don't have any solid proof, but I get the feeling that a black women or men admitting they like giving head is somewhat more tabbot in the black circles. However, most black people may do it secretly enyway.
Posted - Oct 20 2004 : 10:54AM
