Did anyone read my column, Rubber lovin'? I'm curious to hear some opinions...
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oakmac34 Deactivated User
297 Posts 6/09
Posted - Jun 27 2009 : 1:43PM
Sweet! I love loyality. I'm a Cub fan. Haven't won a world series in 101 years lol.
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oakmac34 Deactivated User
297 Posts 6/09
Posted - Jun 27 2009 : 2:00PM
Very interesting point Bobbi. I think Most people would think that deeply about the situation. I'm sure in your chosen business that this is a constant thought running through your head. The person I'm working with safe in their personal life as good in their professional life. And there is some truth to ruining the fantasy. I believe that non condom work is way more popular than condom work because of this ideal. I'll say for myself condom scene does kind of ruin it for me. But a great article Bobbi, Food for thought. And I love the pictures of you in the article. Sweet!
flip69, i did not hire bobbi to go to brazil. she just happened to be there at the same time as us. i went to meet a friend and she was with him. i was a big pleasant shock!!! i still cant believe how everything turned out, it was great!!!!
Bobbi, I was wondering if you could give me your take on "on set/off camera" sex? Will you "warm up" with your male talent before hand? If a position change is warranted and some lighting needs to be changed, does the sex continue or will you help the male talent with wood? Does everything depend on the day/mood and your male talent? One day its a scene with your not favorite talent and he is forced to fend for himself or its a favorite partner, you are enjoying yourself and there is no distinction between "scene" and "not scene?" Just wondering and thanks!
The problem with condom use in gonzo productions is that it disturbs the "natural flow" of the scene. It's imo not very arousing to see the condom put in place. When a director would choose not to show the rubber adding moment you end up with a huge cut in the scene. I understand the concerns regarding STD's and HIV. Your safety and the safety of your fellow sex workers is far more important than the little less viewing pleasure of a part of the porn audience. I would rather see condom driven porn instead of no porn at all!
I hope this answer isn't disappointing but it does all have to do with the given moment and person. At this point in time there are very few people who I don't get along with so most of my scenes go off without a hitch. When something does happen I usually try to help the guy keep wood because what's easier for him is easier for me. However there are some guys who are just not interested in continuing to fuck or receive a hj or bj when the camera is not rolling.
Exactly. Because gonzo pornography is the closest form of pornography to real sex. So those who fantasize to real situations would be disrupted by the condom if the usage of a condom was not already an instilled part of their reality.
We're gonna take it outside and I'm gonna show you what it's like! 1660 Posts 2/06
Posted - Jun 28 2009 : 2:36PM
Read the article Bobbi, interesting and I agree about the issue of disrupting the fantasy. Think the key point was "Theoretically and ideally, all of the other performers in the industry share my concern and keep this in mind throughout the course of their personal sexual encounters". I would hope they do too because ultimately the performers must take the responsibility in the current climate. I enjoy Gonzo more than other styles for the rawness and the pace and would like it to stay that way but if the industry felt the need to go all condom though I'd support that too. I think to a degree some people can be reconditioned and re-educated to a new style inclusive of condoms if thats what is ultimately needed. Edited by - david starsky on 6/28/2009 2:38:46 PM
2:0 Fuck yeah fuck yeah!! Watch the live updates on my iPhone at Ikea. Gotta love technology. :) btw, I just bought Swedish fish at Ikea. The thought was funny. Edited by - bobbi starr on 6/28/2009 3:23:59 PM
You were so great in Rio loco, a true classic, that many here in Brazil are happy for USA team lol And i want Dunga off Brazil team, to be Brazil Soccer Coach here is more important that be the president and Dunga never was coach of any team, he was nominated por political reasons lol
Bobbi: Just imagine Brazil was inspired and motivated by your recent visit. All those US flags on the field just made 'em think of your lovely self. Distracting for the first half, fuel for the fire in the second half.
American football is only populair in America. All other countries watch soccer as their #1 sport but I also like to watch the girls play nude volleyball.
Well actually it's normal volleyball, you just imagine the girls being naked :) Did you ever watch the show MASH? Hawkeye Pierce was a huge fan of nude volleyball.
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Beethoven Deactivated User
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Posted - Jun 28 2009 : 6:54PM
Not disappointing in the slightest. I was just wondering is all. Thanks for the answer! PS Saw your trailer over at EverythingButt. Your studious/scholastic was SUPREMELY hot. I have going to have to join that site sooner rather than later just for that scene. Then again all your Kink stuff is always hot.
I have some thoughts about it. Condoms in porn ruin all the fantasy, because condom protection create a feel, that performers be afraid to have sex. Yes, unprotected sex is risky, but it create the feel of fun . For example. Gang bang. One girl and 10 guys. No condoms. We all know how much it is dangerous to have unprotected sex with many partners. I do not think that many of us would take part in such action. Porn is for our fantasy. We can see this extreme stuff. It is not allowed, it is risky, but this brave and naughty girl does it. Real pleasure! If guys would use condoms, it would ruin all fun. Why they do it, if they are afraid and use condoms? Where is naughtiness? Where is natural feeling? Where is risk factor? What is extreme? It is demonstration of safe sex and nothing more. I think that porn fans do not need educational materials in porn scenes. We can see and read it in everywhere! But, I know that our fantasy is reality for performers. It is real risk. I would like to see performers always healthy, but I do not want to see condoms in porn. Bad things unfortunately sometimes happen. It is alarming. I hope that it is possible to make testing system better. I have great respect for such bareback riders like you, who are ready to take the risk and to make real, extreme and naughty porn for us. Your gang bang without condoms for RLD is incredible! Best wishes, Bobbi!
Bobbi, I was reading your column "Rubber lovin'" in Popporn.com You say something that we should thank you and all performers forever: "our job is to help you visualize and experience your sexual fantasies" Thanks Bobbi, you do a great service to many people in this world, you don't have any idea how many people you make happy visualizing and thinking in you in their sexual fantasies, Psychiatrist in all the world should pay you for the therapy you do with thousand of people. Doing sex without condom is a risk when you are fucking with people out of the business, this is the big difference between professionals like you Bobbi with your strict policy of practicing safe sex in your personal life and others that they are not professionals, This is an important business with important rules to carry out. BTW I am so sorry about the football match :(, my favorite was USA anyway you did a great championship with a nice play, I hope that little by little Football or Soccer as you say there can be one day so important than Baseball or Basket.
I forgot to add, the phrase "Rainbow Nation" was actually coined by veteran Anti Apartheid struggle cleric, ArchBishop Desmond Tutu, affectionaly known by us as simply "the Arch" Re:the other rainbow nation..... Cape Town is very much the "pink capital" of SA, with a vibrant gay community.
"Aluminum, it tastes like fear. Adrenaline, it pull us near" 833 Posts 2/09
Posted - Jun 29 2009 : 5:22AM
The results from the confederations cup are: 1.Brazil 2.U.S.A. 3.Spain 4.South Africa BObby , i was neutral in yesterday´s match, but since you wanted, and of course , the U.S.A. to win i just want to say that i feel a little bit sad also. I think it´s funny that the 4 teams above have someway connections with you. Brazil - you have been to brazil and you love it U.S.A. - the team you obviously support Spain - also a country that you love and you have visited many times South Africa - you are soooooo going to be there to the 2010 world cup. Afterall, i think you should be happy... I´m a huge soccer fan also, BOBBY. The players from the brazilian national team, 14 Luisão and 18 Ramirez, are footballers from the team that i support.Sport Lisboa e Benfica(Sport Lisbon and Benfica).i just hope that this next year we could be champions( we haven´t been since 2005). A big kiss to you....princess.
"Aluminum, it tastes like fear. Adrenaline, it pull us near" 833 Posts 2/09
Posted - Jun 29 2009 : 5:52AM
Bobbi , there are two things that i want to say just to start. First, this a very good written and important post /topic that you made.Second , i totally agree with you.I´m going to be completely honest in this matter.if anyone asks me " Do you prefer to see sex/ with condoms or without?", my answer it will be without.Like you said, i think gonzo movies only will have stroke/exciting value without condom.Gonzo movies only work without condoms,that is ,i think a universal true.When i see feature movies like the ones from wicked Pictures ,the condom use doesn´t turn me off, maybe because it´s movies with plot, and in some cases the condom use turns me on in this type of movies.The use of condom turns me on sometimes because ,interesting, i feel better that everything is being planned to everyone involvedd , actors and actress have a pleasant time having sex in front of cameras( which in some cases results in using condoms).Probably this only happens to me..i don´t know. If there will be a law in the future that will make condom use needed in every shoot, i think gonzo movies will meet their end.Companies will close and many people will loose their jobs.If somewhere in the future all performers of the industy will require condom use in their sex scenes ..i will not blame it..it´s their lives that are in risk.....but i think that it will not happen. BObby a very big kiss to you and always take care(keep practing safe sex in your private life , like we all do...and like ,we hope , your fellow/parners performers...) P.S.: you haven´t been answerig my posts ,i don´t know why.i just hope you could answer the next posts from me.
Anyone in particular in mind, or do we all have a shot at this...? ;) Seriously though Bobbi, look forward to meeting you if you come for the next Sexpo down here. I'm still cursing that I didn't take the opportunity to meet you and Bella last time. <= dumbass Edited by - paulski on 6/29/2009 6:24:49 AM Edited by - paulski on 6/29/2009 6:25:08 AM
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Posted - Jun 27 2009 : 1:42PM
The results from the confederations cup are: