or worse the child finding out that momma was getting pounded and grinded while they were inside...Isn't the very thought of explaining to them why they did it then....truly disturbing?
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| Ryan1481 Member 210 Posts 1/07 |  Posted - Jun 24 2007 : 2:59AMFor all the ladies who work in porn, I was just wondering what you'd tell your future kid/s about your profession? Would you simply tell them "that's what I did, for better or worse" or would you try to explain to them the reasons why you did it? Do you think you'd find it hard to tell them? [Link] |
| deepudicks Deactivated User If The Good Times Did Not Last Then Believe Me Me The Bad Times Shall Also Passs 100 Posts 2/07 | Posted - Jun 24 2007 : 11:09AM or worse the child finding out that momma was getting pounded and grinded while they were inside...Isn't the very thought of explaining to them why they did it then....truly disturbing? Edited by - hardware on 6/25/2007 7:15:58 PM [Link] |
| sickguy Deactivated User I'm unofficially Beauty Dior's #1 Fan 736 Posts 9/06 | Posted - Jun 24 2007 : 11:20AM Edited by - sickguy on 6/24/2007 2:26:29 PM [Link] |
| Kimi Lixx Senior Member 2012 Posts 6/01 | Posted - Jun 24 2007 : 11:43AM Is it so difficult to believe that a performer would raise his/her children with an attitude of tolerance and lack of repression of sexuality based on someone else's religious beliefs? My children have always been aware, in an age appropriate fashion, of my job. When I was a dancer, it was simple, "Mommy dances naked and men like to watch that." My boys thought that was hysterical. When I stopped dancing in bars and started dancing private parties it was still simple, "Mommy hates smokey bars full of drunk guys and this pays more money." My kids were more comfortable with that because they knew someone I trusted to keep me safe was always with me at parties, and they knew the women I worked with (my older kids even babysat for my partner when we worked). When I started doing fetish modeling and video it was STILL simple, "Mommy doesn't mind getting her picture taken doing this stuff, it pays very well and doesn't take up so many hours so I have more time to be at home." My kids all think fetish porn is the funniest thing in the world. When I moved into hardcore porn, it did take a bit of explaining. They didn't like me traveling across the country. I had to explain why I couldn't stay home to do it. They worried about me flying, they worried about me not having anyone I knew with me to make sure I was safe. They worried about how tired I was, they worried about how my allergies acted up. They didn't worry about me having sex with people on camera, because that didn't bother me so there must not be any reason for it to bother them. My daughter, who is having her normal teen romances asks me questions now about my feelings and sex. She wants to know how I can have sex with people I don't love. She wants to know how I can have a relationship with someone and still have sex with others outside of that relationship. I always answer her honestly, but it boils down to one basic statement. Sex is what I do with my body, love is what I do with my mind. [Link] |
| sickguy Deactivated User I'm unofficially Beauty Dior's #1 Fan 736 Posts 9/06 | Posted - Jun 24 2007 : 2:49PM I'm actually very fascinated with the part about having sex with people with no emotioal attatchment. I recently fell in love with stripper which has caused some serious depression for me. This got me thinking " does this ever happen to porn stars?" Do they ever show up for a shoot, and when the scene is finised they suddenly realize "oh my God, I think I have serious feelings for this person". Because of my situation with this stripper, I just can't comprehend how this never happens to performers because I've had my fair share of dances with many different strippers and this has never happened before. I got some dances from this paticualr dancer, went home, and have not been able to stop thinking about her. This is what got me thinking "what if I was porn star and this happened?". It made realize I could never be in that profession in case this happened with another performer. It would be to difficult of situation for me. I understand that it wouldn't happen with all of them, but you think it would happen once in a while. [Link] |
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| Shagdog Member Houston 626 Posts 1/07 | Posted - Jun 24 2007 : 5:36PM You can only be shamed if you accept the shame. Love has nothing to do with fucking. You don’t have to be in love to share a good fuck. More women are starting to say I’m not in love I just want to fuck. Everyone’s mom has fucked at least once lol and she did the cream pie lol lol I think in some cases it was an ass cream pie lol Edited by - Shagdog on 6/24/2007 5:41:34 PM [Link] |
| eduardo911 Senior Member 1299 Posts 8/03 | Posted - Jun 24 2007 : 6:47PM - since many pornstars are known to have had relationships with other pornstars, it it clear that it does sometimes "happen to pornstars". They're people, after all. - A couple of years ago I saw a documentary (Heidi im Pornoland) about the Swiss pornstar Laetitia Bisset. It was kind of a 'serious' documentary, not a sensationist ten-minute showbiz tv item. She confessed to the interviewer that she had developed feelings for Mark Davis. Edited by - eduardo911 on 6/24/2007 6:51:37 PM [Link] |
| Kimi Lixx Senior Member 2012 Posts 6/01 | Posted - Jun 25 2007 : 1:47PM I don't think it's quite the same as a customer falling for a stripper. After all, it's her goal to seduce and attract you, but as a job. You're supposed to give in to that feeling while remaining rational about it being a fantasy. Now if the stripper fell for the customer, who knows!?!I couldn't agree more. No matter what your profession, if you are a lousy parent you're a lousy parent. If you're a decent parent, your children will try to understand and accept everything else. They may not always succeed, but they will try and they will love you. [Link] |
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| dumas Member 159 Posts 8/03 | Posted - Jun 26 2007 : 1:04AM Ask Dr. Kimi  rocco [Link] |
| Cerebral Jedi Senior Member I don't trust men who don't like big tits. 1067 Posts 12/04 | Posted - Jun 26 2007 : 9:30AM [Link] |
| Uncle Fester Deactivated User I rock, therefore I am! 131 Posts 6/07 | Posted - Jun 26 2007 : 2:21PM [Link] |
| Kimi Lixx Senior Member 2012 Posts 6/01 | Posted - Jun 30 2007 : 10:43PM Some don't care. Some are bothered. Some want a picture with me. My kids have long since decided that anyone who thinks their mom is a bad person just because she's done porn is not someone they want to associate with. My kids don't tolerate intolerance. (that's supposed to be amusing)Crap happens. I've made rules about my kids playing with other people's kids that I didn't approve of. I'm sure my kids didn't like that, but I did what I thought was best. Other parents are allowed to decide that for their children, too. Even if it hurts my kids feelings. At a certain age it doesn't matter and kids make their own decisions about who they want to be around. It's never easy to be a kid and to have choices made for you. [Link] |
| Kimi Lixx Senior Member 2012 Posts 6/01 | Posted - Jun 30 2007 : 10:49PM Plenty of people in the public eye use pseudonyms. Authors, musicians, magicians, actors, even politicians sometimes change their names (although, that's usually to appeal to a wider demographic - kinda like a gal named Bernice probably thinks that's not a very sexy name for porn). Performers of all sorts, and for lots of reasons. [Link] |
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| JEWEL (imposter) Jewel De'Nyle 736 Posts 1/06 | Posted - Jun 30 2007 : 10:55PM [Link] |
| Ryan1481 Member 210 Posts 1/07 | Posted - Jul 1 2007 : 4:07AM [Link] |
| tittysucker86 Deactivated User florida 218 Posts 2/07 | Posted - Jul 4 2007 : 6:45PM [Link] |
| Kimi Lixx Senior Member 2012 Posts 6/01 | Posted - Jul 4 2007 : 6:57PM They don't think I'm hot, they think I'm Mom. They don't think I'm sexual, they think I'm Mom. They aren't interested in seeing me have sex, I'm Mom. I'm old, I'm Mom. That's gross, I'm Mom. My kids are not interested in watching me perform. I'm sure not interested in seeing my mother perform. Do you want to see your mother having sex? mod: extraneous quote removed - see the Forum Etiqutte Edited by - hardware on 7/4/2007 7:17:56 PM [Link] |
| Bornyo Deactivated Member 803 Posts 12/04 | Posted - Jul 5 2007 : 11:14AM I can't decide if that's hot or not. [Link] |
| JEWEL (imposter) Jewel De'Nyle 736 Posts 1/06 | Posted - Jul 5 2007 : 11:34AM [Link] |
| MythMaker Member Jada... the best thing in porn 919 Posts 7/07 | Posted - Jul 5 2007 : 11:42AM [Link] |
| Shagdog Member Houston 626 Posts 1/07 | Posted - Jul 5 2007 : 5:30PM [Link] |
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