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jeesmith
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12/01
Posted - Dec 27 2001 : 7:09PM
First time posting.. I have a question about butt plugs.. I've always enjoyed the feeling of something in that area but only recently bought my first butt plug. I'm having a hard time inserting it though.. Whenever anything comes in contact with it, the reaction is that it tightens up so nothing can get in. Does anyone have any tips on getting past that initial penetration? I've heard that if you have a partner, they can help alot but I am currently single and sometimes its hard maneuvering in that area. :) Any help is appreciated. Thanks.
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Posted - Dec 28 2001 : 9:39AM
are you using lube?

on the subject of buttplugs - nettybird just wrote a hilarious review of the triple ripple - here's a boxcover quote:

one impressively solid plug that looks so sexy, I'd put it on the mantlepiece if it wasn't so busy stuffing my ass!

:)

YogaGrrl
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757 Posts
12/01
Posted - Dec 28 2001 : 10:12AM
Two questions (one of which Steph has already covered):

(1) How large is your toy? Is it an appropriate size for you? If you lube your fingers, how many can you comfortably insert, and how does the width of your fingers compare to the diameter of the plug?

(2) What lube are you using? (You are using lube, right?) You need a generous coating of thick, long-lasting lube. I like Slippery Stuff Gel, but there are other appropriate choices on the market. Astroglide and K-Y Jelly are not an appropriate choices, in my opinion, because they're too thin. Click here for more info on lubes.

Ass-uming you have the right size and the right lube, here are my tips for anal yoga:

A. Make sure the room is a pleasant temperature. If you get chilled, you're going to tense up. Try covering yourself with a nice warm, soft blanket, which provides additional tactile pleasure.

B. Curl up on your side, as if you're spooning.

C. Take your well-lubed plug and press it firmly yet comfortably against your anus. Don't try to force it; just hold it there.

D. Let go of expectations. The outcome is unimportant. Maybe it'll go in; maybe it won't. Either way, it feels kind of good just where it's at, doesn't it?

E. Take deep breaths. Relax. Let your mind wander through pleasant and/or arousing fantasies.

If you follow those five steps, I'm willing to bet your plug will slip right in, though maybe not on the first attempts. Good luck!

jeesmith
Member

7 Posts
12/01
Posted - Dec 29 2001 : 2:06PM
Hi. Thanks for the help. Yes I'm using Astroglide lube (thats all I have now). The plug that I have is relatively small, the tip is a bit smaller than the end of my index finger but it has a flared base that is about 1/4 inch thicker. I got the smallest I could find. As for inserting fingers, I have problems in that area as well. I just find it hard to maneuver in that area since I can't even see my asshole unless I'm standing up at a mirror and then I'm not very relaxed. I think your suggestions will help though. Thanks!
Hardz
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Hell on Earth
877 Posts
6/01
Posted - Dec 29 2001 : 3:42PM
I'm very surprised you have trouble inserting fingers !

Try using latex gloves and lube together because it will improve your chances of an easy slide.

I would also suggest using a finger dildo (or vibe) which can be maneuvered more easily (if you are not very flexible) and then work the buttplug in to place.

If you are more adventurous, you may try getting an 'expandable' buttplug, which can be squeezed in and then slowly inflated. (try this with caution)

Good luck.

 
jekbrown
Member

17 Posts
12/01
Posted - Dec 31 2001 : 6:49PM
Use lots of lube (astro is great) and go sloooow. No reason why you have to speed things up. Start with 1 finger...and work it, add more lube etc until you are comfortable and relaxed, then move up to 2 and so on. I know when I first started out 1 or 2 seemed like it was PLENTY. Once I learned to relax and enjoy it I was able to try more fingers, larger toys etc. A good thin vibe is great for that relaxation process too...

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