I know it's been a thing in porn for a long time now, but I've never understood it. I'm not knocking your fetish or saying it's wrong or too nasty or anything of the sort. It's just that for me it's a turnoff because I dunno about you guys, but when I'm buttfucking a chick, I like it tight. A cavernous hallway doesn't look like much fun for my hot dog. Can someone explain the appeal? Honestly asking. I don't see it, but maybe there is an angle I'm missing.
^ I'd say that female gape is the equivalent of male erection. The lady needs to be ready, or else you might have trouble penetrating her. That's why her gaping looks so sexy to many guys. She is ready to take you on for a good fuck-a-thon. But there is such a thing as too much of a good thing. Beyond a certain point, a big erection doesn't look good to a woman anymore. Because the guy looks like he will likely injure her. And it's the same with gaping. You want to see the lady gape well enough to take you easily for a ride. But beyond a certain point, her gape doesn't look attractive anymore. Because as you said, "A cavernous hallway doesn't look like much fun for my hot dog." I agree with you that some of the ladies in gaping movies gape a little bit too wide. A smaller gape that lasts for a long time is what I really want to see. And actually, it's the lady's really loose and relaxed sphincter, followed by a much smaller internal gape or just pink flesh that I really want to see. Because this makes the lady look both easy to penetrate and enjoyable to ride. It's like having cake and eating it too. You get the best of both worlds. The lady is loose for penetration at her sphincter, and she is tight further inside for the enjoyable ride.
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That's a little like asking why some people prefer apples to pears, don't you think?
I think it's mostly just a fetish thing, you either dig it or you don't. But as you said OnlyaMan, you prefer a tighter butt where as I may prefer a butthole with a little more elasticity. I used to work with a guy who's main sexual pursuit was to bang chicks with tight pussies. I never understood it. LOL
A big part of it visual. It's just an incredible sight to see what used to be a tight little asshole get turned into a big gaping hole between her ass cheeks all because her asshole just got pounded hard. Every man wants to fuck a hot chick up her ass. The gape is the nice result of your work.
I'm not really sure what it is--but I LOVE IT, LOVE IT, LOVE IT, LUUUUUUV IT!!! And the strange thing is, I used to not care for it. I've always been an anal porn enthusiast--I have had an anal addiction since before puberty, but I was never into the gapes until just a few years ago. I've always taken my porn and edited it to my tastes and before, when a guy pulled out and she gaped, I would edit it out. It wasn't until a few years ago when I discovered Jay Sin's stuff that I began to like it. One day something in my brain just switched and from that day forward I was a gape lover, or should I say gape worshiper? I absolutely cannot get enough of hot young girls gaping those delicious sweet buttholes!! I love them so much it is unreal!!! Especially when it is a "perfect" butthole. When that beautiful pink round thing is gaped open and then starts to wink open and closed--OMFG!!! It...it just brings tears to my eyes it is so wonderful!! I absolutely ADORE young girls' assholes!!! Simply divine!! I honestly cannot think of anything in the world more beautiful!!... If someone can watch something like Zoey Monroe or Casey Calvert gape and wink those perfect heavenly assholes of theirs and not be turned on by it--well, I guess you are just different than me....but it just makes me hard as a rock!! Now, prolapsing--that does not get me off in the least. I like looking into the gape and seeing the inside, but I like someone's guts to stay on the inside, where they belong. lol
I just like it see it pulse and contract, probably equivalent to when females feel the penis hit that final stage of erection when it swells up to the max and starts to do premature pumps in anticipation of climax
Give me crack and anal sex Take the only tree that's left and stuff it up the hole in your culture. Gaping is how we make holes big enough for reality shows and social media.
This is a great point too. I love to see asses go from tight to gaping and staying open after anal sex, fingering, anilingus, etc. It just makes it that much more hot.
One thing I really like to see, is when a chick gets fucked in the ass so hard that when the dude pulls out, she literally can't close her butthole! Most girls have the muscle power to close it up even after a big gape, but I've seen it a few times when he pulls out and she winks it or tries to close it, and it just won't close up! Lol now that is a well pounded asshole when that happens. You don't see it often, but when it does happen it's awesome, and even a bit funny. I get a kick out of it. Maybe I will start a thread to find more scenes where the chick can't close her asshole, or at least has a very hard time doing so.
I don't like DPs, DAPs or prolapses. Everyone has his own fetish and we should respect that. As a huge anal porn fan, I am even more turned on when a beautiful girl produced some amazing gapes. How it works on my mind is complex and simple at the same time. Let me try to explain. As pure anal porn watcher, I expect some kind of climax to happen in the scenes I watch. A girl's pleasure is a difficult and rare thing to see on screen. Of course, her moans and screams give me a good indication of it but it's not enough, we know how fake some of these are. A good gape is the visual representation I get from a girl being totally satisfied that the anal pounding she is receiving is extremely pleasurable to her. It's how the chick's asshole begs for faster and harder penetration from the guy, opening wider and wider, hungry for even more. It's also about the excitement I receive as a viewer of seeing such a small tight hole being opened wide by the continuous rough pounding of the male performer over the few minutes that last the scene. I really enjoy watching a girl showing her gape while having a view on her cute face and the expression of satisfaction on it, that moment is pure delight! Let me share with you some clear examples of how beautiful some gapes truly are: Gape Beauty And for those who are interested in discussing beautiful girls and their amazing gapes, you may have more on this dedicated thread Enjoy!
I agree with you. The hottest gaping is when the lady gapes naturally, without even trying. Because true sexual arousal is automatic and involuntary. It's not acting and pretending, or posing and showing off. The lady's involuntary gaping is what you really want to see. Because this is how you know that the guy truly nailed her nice ass, and she isn't just acting and pretending. I'd say that such involuntary gaping happens most often after the lady has sex with two guys in cowgirl-DP, and then only her ass-guy pulls out, but her pussy-guy stays in. Because her pussy-guy keeps her pussy wide open and relaxed. She can't tense up on him there. And this makes it hard for her to tense up her asshole too. It's like being relaxed and tense at the same time. This just doesn't work for the lady. And that's why her asshole keeps opening up, despite her efforts to close it. You need that pumping guy in her pussy to keep her asshole relaxed. Because the lady's involuntary asshole muscles are already relaxed as a result of having anal sex. And her voluntary perineal muscles she can't easily tense up, not while her pussy-guy is keeping her pussy wide open with his cock. I think this is the way to do it, if a porn film director wants to set this up for a porn film. The lady really does lose some control over her asshole in such a situation and has trouble closing it up. Which looks hot to the viewer. Because when the hot lady loses control during her ball, then she obviously isn't acting or pretending anymore. It's the real thing for her. The guys are really nailing her. And the viewer knows it too.
Used to seriously recoil at the sight of it. Now it looks pretty hot to me, depending on the girl. Anal winking is hot, too. Guess I've watched too much Adriano.
