I truly can't say what it is that I find fascinating about watching a woman's anus spread wide. Other than the fact that it is fascinating to see.

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It doesn't bother me if there is one once in awhile (and I can't really explain that Alice), but every girl in every scene, and dozens of times on a single disc? No.

I also get a laugh when they say "Let's see the gape!", and there isn't one - it clamps shut.

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Since you asked, I actually start feeling rather nauseous, and so I avoid gapes if at all possible. It usually interrupts the flow of things as well. One title I watched, the guy would fuck her for a minute, hop off to gape her proudly, then back on for another 60 seconds, hop off to gape her again, back on, pound her some more, stretch that gape, it was fucking ridiculous!
That's just my opinion however.

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I wish there were less of it. It's not that it bothers me... it's just that as SB alluded to, the overemphasis on it can detract from the overall heat of a video in the sense that the goal is to gape, and not to enjoy the sex. This is not always the case, but there are certainly elements of this with regard to gaping, and any porn that concentrates on the act rather than the action. But that's just my take on it.

Mike L.

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Fascinating, considering that someone usually has to hold their ass open. May I ask where you learned this?

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First let me state that I find a gaping female anus very arousing I would like to explore the reasons why; some of these will be general issues pertaining to many whilst others may be particular to myself.
I feel some of my reasons are maybe purer, or more culturally acceptable, than others and with this in mind I will divide my reasoning into 3 categories: The Good, The Bad and The Disinteresting (but hopefully not uninteresting ).

The Good

i)It is true (generally) that for anal penetration to be enjoyable the sphincters need to be relaxed. A rapidly clenching anus following withdrawal is clearly less demonstrative of the conditions generally required for enjoyment than a relaxed dilated (and gaping) hole. To find a gaping anus attractive could be described as the anal equivalent of finding erect nipples/ moist flushed labia/ flushed neck/ etc etc arousing.
ii) Many men are attracted to a woman who is confident about her body. Some women don't like their body to be viewed too closely. This is especially true 'down there' and strangely many women are more conscious of their asshole being viewed than their pussy. Can you not see then, that for a woman to be confident for you to see her ass gaping open is in itself indicative to many men of her general perception and outlook regarding herself?
iii) Similarly, many men are attracted to wanton women. Any act that demonstrates this characteristic is not just enjoyable in itself but demonstrates a general attitude that some men find attractive (I do!). I would also include anal, a2m, flashing, topless sunbathing, wet t-shirt competitions, stripping and masturbating in front of you as other actions, that whilst quite a disparate bunch, are all potential indicators of wantonness, or at least broad-mindedness.

The Bad

i) Many people find the concept of receiving anal penetration as a very submissive act and to take this further, to the point where your anus is left wide open and on display, can be seen by some as humiliating and perhaps even degrading. Some women thrive on humiliation and some men enjoy humiliating them. This is a sensitive topic and I would suggest that many men and women who would subscribe to this point to some extent would draw different points on the line ranging from submission to humiliation to degradation.

ii) Particularly extreme gapes often seem to logically follow particularly extreme stretching acts. A gaping anus can be seen as an indication of just what a hard fucking has taken place. I have watched porn with less seasoned friends who have thought that a womans asshole must be wrecked or damaged because it is gaping and so the idea that this is a result of something extreme has taken place must be true in some cases (and also thought that the gaping is due to a loss of bowel control due to too much anal action).

The Disinterested

The first experiences I had with gaping in porn films were chance events and usually totally incidental to the scene. I became intrigued to think that a womans asshole might actually stay open for a while after penetration. I also found it arousing to think that the woman might be oblivious to the fact that she had remained open after the guy had withdrawn; she may be sucking him off without knowing that that her asshole is open and on view to the camera (I suppose that makes an equivalent to these shots we see of celebs who are oblivious to the fact that one of their breasts has fallen out of their dress).
The very fact that these were uncommon chance events made them somewhat sought after in my eyes and so I would look out for a film where I thought such a thing may occur. Lately films have been produced where the focal point of the scene is gaping the girls anus; whilst this is less erotic to me, that old curiosity to catch a gaping shot still remains.

That is all I have to say on this issue straight off the bat. I would love to put these factore in some kind of personal order but I find it impossible to dissect my psyche well enough to do so.

Sir Noel.

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Cal444
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Porn producer, director, performer. I am a huge fan of hardcore porn and I love all of the women in porn. "God Bless Pornography" A womans ass is a beautiful thing" Woman rule!

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from Dr. A. Aggrawal

A gaping anus is exactly that. It is not supposed to gape, but it will after enough muscle and nerve damage.

A gaping anus (indicative of loss of sphincter function), or rectal prolapse, indicates pudendal nerve damage. Physicians believe reflex anal dilatation, that is, gaping of the anus or the twitching of the anal sphincter at the time of physical exam is a consequence of repeated anal penetration. When the examination finger is removed, the sphincter should close promptly. This does not preclude sensory retraining, but may slow the progress.

The anal sphincter is a circular muscle which acts much like a highly elastic rubber band. It actually checks the fecal matter from coming out involuntarily. But when the male organ is repeatedly introduced in the anal canal, this sphincter becomes lax and the anus starts gaping.

If we dilate the anus of a normal person and look inside, we find that the covering inside is much like an orange peel, i.e., rugged and rough. But repeated acts of penis insertion smooths out the ruggedness of the covering, which can also cause loose fecal matter.

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RAME thread 4.

Edited: No, I can't explain the merits of gaping, let alone the "mertis" of gaping. This doesn't mean there is none, I guess.

Edited by - Walter Burns on 3/13/2003 1:47:33 PM

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Nope. Its not something to be explained, only admired.

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Cal444
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Edited by - cal444 on 3/13/2003 7:04:57 PM

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Edited by - cal444 on 3/14/2003 12:33:13 AM

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Of course now nobody shoots better gapes than Jean Yves Lecastel, his dick is perfect for huge gapes and he knows perfectly how the girl should spread her ass cheeks when he pulls out.

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Thanks for your opinions and especially dumblonde...good to have your input.

Id love to know if any guys out there who like gaping on Videos, have actually tried this at home with their ladies...I have a suspicion this is one act which does well to be left to the professionals.

Regards
Alice

Edited by - alice_roissy on 3/14/2003 8:42:42 AM

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As I indicated in my first response, I don't mind them in movies now and then. This probably leaves me out of the gaping fan category.

However you are correct in your suspicion, I haven't tried it myself at home.

DenverDon

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Just looking back to your topic opener you talk about a 'severely overstretched anus' but for an anus to gape it does not have to be overstretched and likewise, an overstretched anus might not necessarily gape.

I wanted to clear that up first.

To answer your question, yes I do gape my gf, in fact I would have to cut out anal penetration altogether to avoid doing so. Most times the gaping is entirely incidental but occasionally we have set abouit doing it deliberately (hell, she even asked me to photo it once so she could see for herself). Let me quote a response I gave to a similar question last month:

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The harder the ass-fuck, the bigger the dick, the more likely she gapes.

I was turned on in times it still appeared ocasionally; now most time I think showing gapes, like Jean-Yves LeCastel likes so much, is interrupting hot sex scene. I like them sometimes if girl help spread their ass, too, with very nice painted fingernails, but normally it does nothing to me.

BUT its merit is, that only gape-loving directors normally shoot hard&heavy anal sex. I prefer latter, but to get it I also get gapes.

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I totally agree with your comments regarding the similarities of 'stopping and starring at your girlfriends tits', only when watching it on the screen, I tend to find it has more a stop start effect on momentum. That kind of bugs me. It's just shame that the Directors/actors I like watching, seem really keen to include it more and more. I really wanted to find out if it was just males who really liked this, and though girlfriends are happy to indulge guys requests, I'm glad you noted she doesn't get any added feeling from this.

When a female watches porn, she looks to see if what is happening on screen would cause any REAL sensation - just like if a girl is giving a guy a REALLY lazy blowjob on screen, it doesn't add to the experience for males. So seeing something that doesn't really look too pretty, and you can't identify with, it kills the moment. I wandered what feelings it evoked in guys, because if it really is an immense turn on, maybe us ladies need to know that

Alice

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