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| ouahab411 New Member 1 Posts 7/03 |  Posted - Jul 19 2003 : 12:12PMHi... my new girlfriend and I are just beginning to engage in sexual activity, we are both young in our early 20's. First of all, for the record both of us are not ready to engage in regular intercourse (for now) but are pretty much doing everything else to each other. I will also admit I am the most experienced person sexually, but maybe thats why I'm asking this question on the forum. In any case, I've been noticing that when she is performing oral on me, I've been having no problems staying hard but despite a few different things, I basically "didn't feel much out of it" and didn't even get close to coming. I had masturbated about once/day the last 2-3 days before this happened so I suspect part of the problem may have been from this... We joked about my "amazing stamina" but inside I felt I couldn't say to her that it didn't do much to me... See, to me, comparatively masturbation offers a much higher stimulation. So, I was wondering, is this something typical for people who are just beginning sexually active? Or is it something I need to talk about with her in terms of trying new things? Please help... I don't want to give her the impression that she's not satisfying me or I can't come with her... it feels great but just not enough to take me over edge! Thanks, and I appreciate your reading this long post and any advice.  [Link] |
| DenverDon Benevolent Firmly Embedded in Depravity 5914 Posts 7/02 | Posted - Jul 19 2003 : 12:38PM Welcome to the forum. Here is a link to a thread discussing BJs, and check the last response by lindi. However you do mention that you are not ready for regular intercourse (for now), but if masturbation works for you you might have her combine oral techniques with manual (hand) strokes and see if that helps.  [Link] |
| lindi Senior Member 12345 3205 Posts 9/02 | Posted - Jul 19 2003 : 12:53PM She might use her hands more while doing a blowjob, or you might lend a hand -- and it would be enormously helpful if you are not too shy to demonstrate for her what techniques you use that work for you. She can see whether you like things vigorous or a slow build-up, how much pressure you use, etc. Sex is not all serious; you can be playful about this. And all guys are different, and their responses change over the years -- there are things that didn't interest my husband when I met him, which interest him now. A few months ago we went through some 'discarded' activities and found that we both liked things that we had previously not liked. It's fine to discuss what you like and don't like, and make adjustments. It's not a matter of criticism of the other person, just an adjustment to our very individual sexual responses. As mentioned on this thread on blowjobs, a lot of guys who get off easily via masturbation and intercourse have a harder time cumming with oral sex. You might also benefit from this thread on taking forever to cum -- it has lots of links to related topics. There is also a thread on trouble cumming with a woman. A lot of good general information threads like these can be found on the Sex Talk FAQ. [Link] |
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