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There are a couple of guys who seem to think that every girl in the world lusts after them. They apparently are only fucking the girls who are PAID to fuck them and more than that PAID to perform for the camera with them. Of course, the girls look like they are into you - they have too!!!

These guys treat the girls they work with with no respect. They are sleazier than the worst, most drunken guy you can imagine left alone in the bar when it closes or at the frat party when all the girls have left.

They don't even have the talent and ability to perform with you in front of a full-size crew. They have to think you are making love to them and are always trying to get you to run off in a closet with them to get them hard or fuck them non-stop even when the production is in full break mode.

Even worse, many of these guys are not even remotely attractive (which maybe feeds their lack of confidence which spawns this turn-off behavior).

Girls like me do not like working with guys that like that.

Do you know who we want to work with?

Guys who are attractive and take care of themselves. Guys who can perform- who can take charge and make the scene work. Who bring the energy and intensity to a scene that us porn girls need. Guys who can actually turns us on.

At the same time, guys who treat us with total respect and realize that we are here to work (albeit a very FUN work!) and that we have lives with boyfriends or husbands we are going home to.

To put it simply, I want to work with a guy who is as profesional about this business as I am.

Sex and love are two very different things.

That is why I can say I am in total love with someone (who is also in love with me) but that both of us enjoy waching the other fucking someone else. Beacuse sex is fun! Sex was made to be enjoyed.

I just happen to be a girl who loves hardcore sex and more imporantly - loves performing it in front of other people. Whether that is in a swinger environment and people are watching or it is in a room in front of a crew who are filming it for a movie- I love performing. I get really into it. I love doing it.

But, I am going home to the same man every night and that will never change.

Respect, professionalism, appearance, energy, ability. These are the qualities I look for in a male star.

Oh, and how do I say this... we really want him to be able to get hard right away, stay hard the entire shoot, and cum on command. That isn't asking too much it is???? LOL

And, I have been so lucky to work with so many great ones...Michael Stefano, Brandon Iron, Dick Delaware, Joey Ray, Ben English, Jim Beem, Ben Bratt, Sledgehammer, Nacho Vidal, Billy Glide, Tommy Gunn, Sergio, Tony Tedischi....these guys get it.

Male stars in the business get WAY too little credit. I read posts about how people get tired of seeing the same guys over and over. And, I agree with you!!! But, let me tell you why you do-

Too few guys can do this.

I have more respect for male talent than I could possibly put into words. For two different reasons.

One, it is almost physcially impossible to do what they do. They are physcial and mental genuises. No matter what is going on in their personal life, no matter how many times they have cum that week or worked that month, no matter whether they are attracted to the girl or not, no matter whether there is a crew of 5 or 30 people watching - they have to get hard NOW, stay hard for HOURS, and cum ON COMMAND. How do they do that????

If you think that is easy, please try it. :)

Second, I have shot enough scenes now that I realize the incredible difference the guy makes in the scene. Yes, I know you the average porn viewer are there to watch the girl. But, when you walk away from the scene wondering why there was no heat from your favorite porn girl and why that performance was so lame....check to see if you know who the guy was.

Great male talent brings everything out of your favorite porn girl you want to see. She can not make the scene hot alone.

I have worked a scene where the acts where all there, it should have been an amazing scene - but the guy was so dead the scene is embarrasing for me to watch.

I have plenty of scenes where I delivered my all and the guy delivered my all and the scene is amazing.

I have scenes where I don't even know what I did; I was only following the guy's lead and it is even more amazing.

The sad truth is that it is REALLY easy to find the girls in this business - there are a ton of us flooding the studios every day. It is VERY had finding top guys who can do this.

What is really interesting about this question - what makes male stars popular with women- is that the sleazy guys who aren't trying to "perform" with me but are trying to "hit" on me are the guys that I never see again and also put on my "will not work with list". The guys who are total professionals - hot awesome sex, but know how to treat me off-camera - are the ones who have a chance at something more.

Whether something more means he goes on my request list, which means I will work with him repeatedly or whether as swingers me and my hubby want to invite him to a party.

When my hubby and me went to the swing club the other week with my favorite female co-star, the guy who made up our foursome was Joey Ray. The guy who I shot two scenes with which look amazing on camera because they were hot, hot scenes but who treated me with total respect and professionalism off-camera.

Does that help?

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These are the kinds of guys the girls fall in love with.

Edited by - TravisBkle on 9/25/2003 9:56:32 PM

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I agree that personal hygiene is incredibly important, however, I haven't come across a single male performer who was lacking. Either I've been remarkably lucky, or that message has long since been heard.

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Hmm. Interesting. Well it's nice to know that almost all the guys are very clean and well-groomed then eh? I guess all the guys get very clean before a scene?

I was thinking of asking this on another thread, but I might as well ask here too. I am curious as to which guys are known as being the best at eating pussy. To me this is an important sexual attribute in a man. As I mentioned on another thread, Evan Stone seems to be pretty good at it and really gets into it, and I saw a website of porn videos reviewed by female viewers somewhere in which they also said the same thing. Who here knows which guys are known to be good at eating pussy?

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Mark Davis's skills were the best bar none of any of the on camera cunnilingus I've ever had... that includes women!

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Back to Mark D, I downloades some video clips of him in action to my HD a while back, but didn't know much about him. So he is British. I found some info here on him which expands on what you were saying.

http://www.r18online.co.uk/pages/markdavis.html

“I get off on giving women pleasure. I'd like to be remembered as the man who made every woman come."

"Mark's enjoyment of his partners' pleasure is utterly sincere: he enjoys eating pussy "almost as much as fucking, actually. I've got a very short tongue so I can flick it very quickly."

Interesting. Some guys just say stuff like that, but it seems to be sincere in this case. I will haveto elevate Mark Davis on my list of guys to watch after learning about all this.So Mark has made women come then? What is the name of the scene with you and Mark that you referred to? Maybe I should check it out...

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But very important is that the guys is just plain old nice to girls. Not arrogant.

Looks are a thing of preference.

Me, when I was working, I would request a guy who was slightly less of a pretty boy if I knew that it would be a better sex scene. Thus, all my scenes with Rick Masters and Dave Hardman.

But if a guy is a combination of good looks, good performance, and great personality, I can't see that he wouldn't be on the favorites list of almost all the female peformers out there. In the words of the horrendous recent TV Fame show, they would be a "triple threat". For me, that list included Mark Davis, Mr. Marcus, Sean Michaels, and Michael J. Cox, to name a few.
I never worked with Rocco, but I fall in lust with him every time I watch him on-screen.
If I were working today, I think it would probably also include Lexington Steele, Erik Everhard, Jules Jordan, Manuel Ferrara and Nacho Vidal, among others.

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Another quality I look for in male performers are ones that don't mind my doing back whatever is done to me. If a guy is into rough sex or degradation, that's great as long as they can handle it thrown right back at them.

Pull my hair, slap my ass, call me names, whatever you want. But be a good sport and have the same sense of humor when I return the favors.

I was once on a set where a guy started getting real rough. I could tell he was doing this to maintain his on camera image because he is nothing like (degrading to women) off camera. The look on his face when I started doing the same was priceless. Like, "hey, you're not supposed to do that."

But I'm having sex for real. Just like I do off camera. The guy pretty much sets the pace. Passionate, wild, nasty, rough, whatever. I like it all.

Victoria Givens

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