The good news is that, as you say, men do differentiate between porn, where your own satisfaction, through an on-screen surrogate, is all; and real life where the enjoyment gained from satisfying your lady is a very real and fulfilling thing.

Sir Noel.

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I love it when a scene has that little 'extra' magic between the performers, it really enhances the scene. If more effort was put in to accomplishing the female orgasm and give her genuine pleasure, I think the number of scenes that accomplish that 'magic' bit extra would increase.

DenverDon

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Also, to answer your question, keep in mind that when watching porn a lot of guys want to see the harder, raunchier scenes that they cant always get in their real sexual life on a regular basis. Where as your kissing, hugging, talking, etc can be accomplished by any regular joe in their personal life.

I wouldn't mind seeing more of women having orgasms. In fact, I think most studios become WAY to repetitive in their scenes; this includes the most popular studies such as evil angel, redlight district, anabolic/diabolic, etc.

Why is it that when we have an average of 4 or more scenes on a dvd, in most cases these do not contain women having orgasms? or at least one or two internal cumshots? Or how about the women wearing some sexy lingerie that stays on for the entire scene? Would it be that difficult to mix things up a little while keeping the same 'theme' of the the dvd title? Instead we have to get speciality dvd's that dedicated to each.

I for one am tired of seeing almost EVERY scene end with the girl not getting off, and a guy wacking off into her awaiting open mouth.

Just my 2 cents..

DreamWeaver

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At the risk of sounding "soft", I really enjoy scenes where giving the woman/women in the scene pleasure is important. At the bare minimum I want to see the women having fun and enjoying the experience. If I happen to be pleasuring myself to a scene and the woman has an orgasm, that is usually a nice trigger for me to finish, too. Once she is finished (at least temporarily), subconciously I guess I figure I can finish, too.

I am not a big fan of a lot of the rough stuff or the scenes where the women seem to be in some distress or pain. That just doesn't do it for me, although I know others enjoy it and I certainly don't want to put them down. To each his/her own.

Have a great week!!
Always, HoldenMagroin

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I'd love to see this at least attempted more... Even if it isn't real, I'd sure like to see the IDEA presnted in the scene. Whether it's authentic or not makes no difference, as long as _I'm_ convinced that it's real. :) How hard is that?! ::sarcastic grin::

That's not to say that I haven't seen women orgasm in porn, but we don't see it near enough. On the other hand, I guess I'm not doing my part to really DEMAND it either... so maybe I should change that (not that I'm deluding myself into thinking I have any real influence). I've been vocal about wanting women to seem to enjoy themselves... and wanting them to be able to put forth that special something that Speelie speaks of, but as someone who likes watching the face of a gorgeous woman having an orgasm, I should make my voice a little louder.

I'm with you SB... I want to see this MUCH more often. I like the softer side of porn just as much as I like the more intense. And in both situations, I want everyone to be enjoying themselves. Failing that, I'd sure like to be fooled into thinking that they are. Authenticity tends to work better though, since most porn performers aren't hired for their acting skills. :)

Mike L.

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Very important!!!!

- Pornmaster Mike
http://www.adultdv-depot.com

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The depends part relates to my mood when I pop in the DVD to get off... maybe I want to see sensuality, maybe I just want to watch a hole get plundered. Both of them have their time and place in porn.

Edited by - aybesea on 3/4/2003 11:39:55 AM

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I say "theoretically," because in reality, few pornographers appear to even be trying to capture any semblance of this. The fact that pussies are now shaved only makes their state of nonarousal that much obvious. Even getting wet is rare outside of "squirting" scenes, and for most of these, it's obvious that you're watching bladder release as opposed to sexual release.

COME ON, people! Even if the actress won't be coming in real life, the physiological signs that she possibly might are easily attainable. It doesn't have to be so hard. All I'd think it would take is a few minutes with a Rabbit or Hitachi Magic Wand, a few minutes before the scene.

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