Steph-O.K, so I've watched Ultimate Guide to Anal. I need suggestions! Sonic-I have one of those asses you so love, so tell me.. What position is most comfortable for a guy? What angle works best? Any and all suggestions are appreciated.
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Posted - Jun 19 2000 : 11:12PM
-lunacy-Hmmm.. I've never done anal sex with a female..but..constructive thinking tells me..I would love her in..doggystyle..with her ass way up in the air and I am standing up with my knees bent a bit..and I just plummet away until her eyeballs roll 360 degrees. (Mmmmm ) Or..on her back..I take her legs..she holds her ankles..I hold on to the back of her knees..and work it lovely and make her cum 3 times in 10 minutes..guranteed. (not making this up..I'm a Phenomenon..and no..I am not Travolta) Or..standing up, bent her over a bit..and one of my hands works her tits..and the other her pinky clit. Possibly two orgasms there..not guranteed though..but gurantee her credit for another day. (damn..I'm beginning to be full of myself..do I talk shit or what? !) Damn..I never had anal sex..probably never will..(really doesn't mean too much too me because I am deeply satisfied with vaginal sex)..but Steph said that the girl feels invulnerable. That must be so awesome for a man because I will feel in command..and she is so helplessly..but at the same time she is experiencing SO much pleasure..(why do I get the impression that many girls are not into anal..but when they are..they are so totally into it?)..like a poor innocent bunny wabbit in the forest and the savage beast lion fucks the bunny wabbit up the ass and the bunny loves every minute of it. Though probably if I am having anal sex with my wife or a girl (yeah a girl..in my dreams)..and she is so merciless..and she deeply moans..I will cum faster than sound.
i always felt that anal sex is more of a mind pleasure more so than a physical pleasure. i've only had the pleasure of being in there around a hand full of times. but from that i can answer a couple of positions i really liked the couch, thinking back, that was alot of fun. my girlfriend was naked above me, and without even say "LETS POP IT IN THERE" she just grabbed me and sat on it. i think thats what really got me going was the fact i know its painfull for her and then for her just to throw it in there, was a enormous turn on. so i recommend a little fun loving riding on the couch, then without saying anything slide that puppy in there. a simple point, try to keep the "it really hurts" face expressions down to a minimum. if you look that uncomfortable, it robs alot of mood from the moment. not good for anyone at that point. naked, on top, couch, mmmm.... rubberman
From behind and once inside, interlocking fingers and kissing the back of her neck, the side of her neck. A little biting her neck and back. some scratching my nails down her sides.. No pounding away just being inside feeling them strong muscles. ahhhhhh memories... ------------------ [ invalid url ]
Hmm, O.K, and a (sweet and helpful) little bird (that I appreciate) suggested, bent over the arm of the sofa. Anyone else? lol Better Rip? [This message has been edited by -lunacy- (edited June 23, 2000).]
Quote from Lunacy: "What position is most comfortable for the guy?"
What?? WHO CARES?? He ought to be most comfortable ON HIS KNEES, thanking his lucky stars!! But seriously, the "Love Swing" we discussed before, is fantastic for this, as your butt is just right there & wide open, your legs are up in those stirrups, and YYYEEEEEHAWWWW!!!
Spoon has always worked pretty well, or flat on her stomach. All you have to do is just dip 'er in and it feels good cause you can feel the cheeks as you go in.
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Posted - Oct 15 2000 : 3:24PM
First of all I have to REALLY disagree with Rubberman. As a girl who's probably had more anal sex in front of a camera than most women have in their whole sex lives, I obviously like anal a lot. But if something feels bad during sex, especially anal (because the area is so delicate and vulerable to tears and possible long-term damage) either partner should feel comfortable and even obligated to say that something doesn't feel right. If the other person has a heart, they will work with you to try to make it feel better. This, by the way, is probably one of the main reasons most guys can't get their S/O to try anal sex. She's very often afraid it's going to hurt no matter what.
Anyway, DEFINITELY agree with dumblonde on her first statement. A guy should be thankful that the girl is trying something new, probably in her mind just for his benefit. Don't know about the LoveSwing though. Tried it, and it was OK once we got started with the anal. But when we first start, I like to be in a little more control over my movements.
Then, once I'm opened up more, that's when I look over my shoulder (yes, doggy's my favorite for A) and tell him to take me any way he wants.
If the guy's dick is big enough, several different positions might feel good for both of you... doggy, spoon, bent-over, missionary (his dick's gotta be at least average size for this one), or you squatting over him laying down (your legs have to be pretty strong for this one).
Uhh...thanks for that update, guys (gulp) Glad to hear you weren't too rough on him, Lun. Butt did you warn him, "Once you go back - you never go back?" ; )
Lisa likes anal best in the doggie position. She seems able to take a cock much deeper doggie style than in the spoon or on her back. I also find that if I dont fuck her ass at least once a week, then when we do it, it seems to be just a little more uncomfortable at first.
Here's what works best for me and Mrs Torris. We have a little cushion that is triangle shaped for reclining on the floor while wathcing TV etc. It's perfect for assfucking. A pillow or two should suffice. What you want to do is crouch over that pillow. Pillow positioned at your lower belly. It should be high enough to "upend" you, where your breasts and arms are flat on the bed and your ass is high in the air. Positioned correctly so your knees rather than your thighs are bearing most of the weight. This way you won't cramp.
So now that your nice round ass is high in the air it makes an inviting target. From here your man should be able to get the best angle to pry your ass cheeks apart and wedge his cock into your brown eye, his legs positioned on either side of your legs together, and then gravity helps with the rest and you are able to buoy your ass with the strenght of your legs to meet his thrust. And as he pushes into you the give in the pillow will flatten you out without hurting you.
Because this is a sex act that I get to enjoy only when I'm being an especially good little camper (rare indeed as you could guess :-), her hole has always stayed extra tight so it take several pushes and re-lubing etc before that initial entry. For us, it always works best to start with me standing over her (I'm fairly banana shaped like Marc Wallice so there's a degree of difficulty co-efficient to account for. Once I'm inside her back porch and get a rhythm going we can switch into nearly any other position (usually spoon).
One last suggestion. When he's making the initial plunge, you should push out like you're about to defecate. I "shit you not" this will act best to help him suck into your ass better then anything.
having had the intermitten pleasure of anal sex with her over the better part of 3 years, it doesn't take much digital manipulation to widen her hole. Just a slop of lube on my finger in and around her hole and my cock is ultra slick with lube and I can usually go right in once I've accounted for the angle of my dangle. The biggest key is that his cock should be ramrod stiff
She's also a very fastidious person so she will only consent if she's had an especially thorough bowel movement about an hour before hand. So she's totally *relaxed* that she's clean and won't be freaked out with brown outs. Also I've found it hard to cum in her ass but on the occasion that I have got the right amount of friction, it gave her the runs the next day. I'm no Nina Hartly, but these tips have paid off for me
Well, I've only had the pleasure of anal sex about a handful of times, but here's my two cents worth.
My first attempt was with my current partner, and - responding to the comment made before - you definitely have to be stiff to get it right! Both of us had been so nervous about it that she was a little tight, and I had gotten a little soft - that night didn't happen.
However, we did try it again - lots of lube is key, boys - in doggystyle. She absolutely enjoyed that! Her favourite position is still on her back - missionary - so that's the way we do it; hey, I'm very appreciative we even get that route!
We've also tried it with her straddling me (it was her suggestion), but several sites I've read have recommended against it for beginners (which we still are, really). They say that the girl can't be as relaxed as possible, simply because her leg and back muscles are a little tense in the position. I suppose with practice that will soon be solved. Tell you what, though: it is a real turn-on to watch her sliding up and down your rod anally! Leaves your hands and lips free to caress other jealous body parts!
I have found that doggy fashion is the best for the first time. Give her a good pussy licking to get her real excited. If she is real uptight about it, I found that licking her ass hole helps a lot. Rub your dick head against her ass hole while rubbing her clit with your fingers helps to keep her excited. I think the biggest key to first time anal sex is to keep them sexually excited and let her know she can back out of it at any time. Slip in the head while still masturbating her clit and let her get relaxed and comfortable with this. Tell her she is in control and that when she is excited or close to an orgasm she should lean into it and slide it in herself. I find it gets all the way in faster this way when you leave them in control. Allways be sensitive to her. This usually makes her feel better about it. Rather then starting to ram it in at your pleasure let her move back and forth on it. Always keep your hand on their clit and keep her excited. If they are excited their little rose bud will open up and relax for you. If it feels tight around your dick then she hasn’t fully relaxed and she is not excited enough. This will cause too much friction and make her sore. Stop the stroking and let her catch up. If she likes she can take over the clit stimulation. She may do a better job in this department then you anyway.
If you make the first time comfortable and relaxed for her you will get seconds. I find most women have a cycle to their libido. Most will get hotter before and during their period. If you make your approach during their high libido times they will get more enjoyment from anal stimulation. Encourage them, tell them that they you didn’t know how hot they were or how naughty they are. You should know what words turn them on and how to say them before you try this. I have converted several ladies that said anal was not their thing into demanding it from time to time. Once they know you are a good anal lover they will get excited at the thought and pound on your dick with their ass but you need to remember don’t push it and let it be their idea. After they have had some good ass orgasms on your dick they will be hooked. Most will like their pussy fucked before getting it in the ass. Give them a good pussy pounding and when she is really worked up turn her over. After they are anally converted you can try different positions. Face up is a good one. Prop up their rear with a pillow so that her rose bud angles up. Make sure that you sink it all the way in and grind against their clit for good stimulation. This will free up you hands rub her breasts or just give her a good feel up. Good luck
My favorite tends to be missionary, actually. On my back with my knees pulled up to start. I like to get a little leverage with either my feet on the bed, or legs wrapped around his waist once we get going. Call me a romantic, but I love to see the looks on his face when he finally gets all the way in. Not totally porno, but I suppose the fact that his dick's in my ass balances that out.
Doggie's cool too, ranking just slightly behind on my back, and the fact that it's a huge turn on for him gives it extra points. Plus, we can both watch porn from that position. :) However, it lacks the face to face that I love.
Straddling and sinking down on his cock gives me good control, too. I like facing away if he's sitting and facing him if he's lying down. I'd recommend that last one to any newbie girls. It lets you go as slow as you want and set the pace, preventing those (he says) involuntary thrusts. Also, try wrapping your hand around his base to start, again to keep the length of cock you're starting out with to a minimum.
I have recently tried what might be my new favorite position for anal sex - my wife lying flat on her stomach and while I am sitting just below her butt I can fully enter ass from back there. After giving her a full neck/shoulder/back/butt massage recently, we basically went straight to anal sex while she was still lying flat on her stomach. Her butt had had an intense massage through and through and so had already been warmed up, so with just some lube added I was able to penetrate her ass with ease, slowly move in, still massaging her back & shoulders and then grind in circles in her ass. Eventually worked up to thrusting and it really seemed to work wonders! :)
my fave is to have a chick in front of me w her knees on a bed so I can reach around & grab her jumblies while I'm drilling her bungie against a wall is good too Sex swing is fun too ;) w her on her back on corner of bed is good too Having a 2nd chick you can ATM to is lots of fun too Edited by - Jholmes on 11/12/2007 9:44:40 PM
Having been with a few dominatrixs and been analized for their amusement, the best positions I enjoyed (as a guy) were: Bondage Horse, where I was lying face down over a gymnast's vaulting box (but differently styled), with arms and legs chained off to the side. Kneeling on the floor, upper body resting face-down on the bed with arms stretched out and restrained in front of me. Facing the Cross, numerous retraints were used at various points on the arms, legs and torso to completely restrict movement. The only one I hated was the Cradle/swing, where I was on my back with legs in the air. I didn't like that position at all. Everything about it felt uncomfortable, regardless of the different angles of penetration. Actually, except for the swing, I thoroughly enjoyed everything my mistresses did to me anally. Anal is very enjoyable if done correctly and provided you allow yourself to enjoy the sensations.
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