My wife is into a bit of anal. She enjoys fingers, tongue and if horny enough I can fuck her ass. The only thing is that she rushes me. I get two fingers in her ass and I can feel how tight it is but she thinks that she is ready for my cock. Sooooo many times I have tried to tell her she is not ready yet but she won't listen. Because she is so horny I can put my dick in and start fucking her slowly and not deep at all but as soon as she cums which is in less than a couple of minutes she tenses right up and it hurts her.
I have tried to convince her that we need to put in more time preparing her beautiful bum hole but think it may even be worth showing her if I can find a good tasteful clip of a girl either preparing her own ass or doing it with her partner. We don't use any toys just fingers but I know we should get some so maybe even a clip showing using different size toys increasing the toy size as they become more relaxed.
Have had a look at the anal sex guide dvd's and I really think that these are not actually that helpful. Anal veterans that are used to the process and obviously able to adjust/prepare for anal in a very short period of time. Plus my wife is not real big on porn, especially the fakeness of it. So as soon as a big fake titted slut with a kilo of make up on, fake nails, fake eyelashes is on the screen she is already not very interested.
I am looking for a more natural (amateur would be perfect) clip showing someone getting them self ready (slowly) to be fucked in the ass.
Any help much appreciated.