Go with the flow. For GFE experience, she should be a kind girl. You can let her lead, because she knows what she's doing. A lot of things in porn are done to look good. She will be doing what feels good.
As you go along, she should be reading you for hesitations and for eagerness, etc., so she can judge when it's good to get more intense or to move into something else. She will almost certainly be asking you about your preferences. Don't worry, she will find out what you like, one way or another.
Preconceived ideas of how it 'should' go are not helpful. Just enjoy whatever happens. Relax and enjoy.
If there are specific things you want to have happen, and you are comfortable being assertive, by all means - make sure you get what you want! An escort, even one that the agency says will give you a GFE experience, will do the things she thinks will bring you to satisfaction quickest and easiest for her. That doesn't mean you won't enjoy them, just that you might not get to all the things you think you want before you're all done and she gives you a kiss good night. Don't focus on crazy porn things, many, many, porn things are done for the camera, not for the pleasure of the performers. If something feels good and you're happy, don't worry that you haven't gotten to pile driver position - do what feels good.
GFE is no guarantee she will make the first move. It's likely she'll talk and put you at ease so you feel comfortable in making the first move. Depending on the lady, she may or may not be aggressive. It is really up to you to set the mood and the pace if you want to ensure that you get the experience you're looking for...if she is good, she will respond accordingly. You don't need to be too assertive. Just lean over and touch her a bit or kiss her when you feel comfortable to start.
Because it is GFE, she will probably touch and kiss you to start. I'm assuming the UK ladies are like the US ladies and probably go with the BJ next before any positions.
I have heard fantastic things about UK escorts from some of the US guys I know who travel. So I'm sure you'll be in good hands. Good luck.
He's not sure if she will be his type. And she might be too good for him. He also wouldn't want to impose and waste her time if she personally doesn't find him to be her type. This only happens if he takes the initiative.
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GFE = Girl Friend Experience. It's a term used by punters to rate/review prostitutes and escorts, like a more personal/down to earth touch if you will...