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| oldguy Senior Member 1270 Posts 3/06 | The bar I frequent features young gals showing wonderful cleavage. I usually visit the place in the early afternoon when there are not too many people around. Naturally the well-endowed ladies like to give the guys a show when leaning over to give maximum exposure of their breasts. When is it okay to compliment these ladies on their beautiful cleavage/breasts? Let's face it, they love showing off their goodies and they enjoy us lusting after them. So when do you compliment them and when do you back off? Any hard and fast rules for this one? Sometimes a suggestive compliment at just the right time can get you in bed with a lovely you don't even know and that is certainly to be desired. Over the years I have complimented my fellow workers on their nice bodies without ever getting into trouble, actually getting me some action more often than not. Some input here on this important topic is greatly desired, please. [Link] |
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| RandomPrecision Senior Member Enjoy! 8175 Posts 3/06 | I think women (in general) like to be appreciated and flirted with as long as you're not too crude about it. It's kind of an instinct you have to work on and perfect. You won't get by with it every time. If you're the boss, it's probably always a bad idea but as long as you're on equal footing, you probably don't have much to worry about. Best advice I can give is to try and stick with friendly women. If they're friendly and pretty open, they probably won't mind if you flirt a little. If they have an attitude, it could go either way but you'll most likely get a negative reaction. I once made some kind of comment when I was talking to a female coworker and the funny thing was, I wasn't even trying to flirt with her. She apparently took it the wrong way and let me have it. Before that, I'd always thought she was pretty nice. Thereafter, I just avoided her. Completely changed my opinion of her and I was glad when she quit. So you have to be careful. Remember that you have to work with these people and it could be really awkward if it goes badly. Sorry. I don't have any experience with bars. I guess if you're good looking, you can get laid sometimes if you flirt with the waitresses. If you're not, they would probably just as soon not hear your commentary. Edited by - randomprecision on 9/18/2008 11:57:15 PM |
| Gabriella Cuntez Member Get Some Head In The Game 55 Posts 12/08 | One thing I've learned from the PUA community is that women who get hit on a lot (like pretty waitresses or other "hired guns") is that they're so accustomed to compliments from men that receiving them from a man automatically puts him at a "lower status" than her. When approaching a woman who gets hit on a lot, a man must establish that he has a "higher value" than all the other men who've approached her. |
| Gabriella Cuntez Member Get Some Head In The Game 55 Posts 12/08 | A sample: http://www.pick-up-artist-forum.com/my-no-fail-hired-gun-free-drink-opener-i-love-vt8782.html |
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