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oldguy
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Posted - Sep 14 2008 : 11:05AM
The bar I frequent features young gals showing wonderful cleavage. I usually visit the place in the early afternoon when there are not too many people around. Naturally the well-endowed ladies like to give the guys a show when leaning over to give maximum exposure of their breasts. When is it okay to compliment these ladies on their beautiful cleavage/breasts? Let's face it, they love showing off their goodies and they enjoy us lusting after them. So when do you compliment them and when do you back off? Any hard and fast rules for this one? Sometimes a suggestive compliment at just the right time can get you in bed with a lovely you don't even know and that is certainly to be desired.
Over the years I have complimented my fellow workers on their nice bodies without ever getting into trouble, actually getting me some action more often than not.
Some input here on this important topic is greatly desired, please.
Joey Starr
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Posted - Sep 14 2008 : 1:49PM
Depends, is this a lesbian bar?
oldguy
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Posted - Sep 15 2008 : 5:02AM
Not a lesbian bar.
TomChoad
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Posted - Sep 15 2008 : 10:16AM
I don't think a lesbian is gonna be disgusted if you compliment her on her looks?
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NewRomancer
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Posted - Sep 15 2008 : 10:52AM
"When is it okay to compliment these ladies on their beautiful cleavage/breasts?"
When you're leaving your tip because that's the ONLY reason they're flashing cleavage... so you'll give them more extra money just for doing their job.
 
axlsfury
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Posted - Sep 16 2008 : 10:01PM
Try complimenting them on something less obvious and be sincere about it. That will likely get their attention cause every other joe is gonna say "nice tits babe". They'll think, "this guy is intriguing"
Axl
Edited by - axlsfury on 9/16/2008 10:03:17 PM
Clam Digger
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Posted - Sep 17 2008 : 10:08AM
If you are anywhere as old as me, the drooling should be enough...you need not say anything else.....
Clam Digger
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Posted - Sep 17 2008 : 10:08AM
If you are anywhere as old as me, the drooling should be enough...you need not say anything else.....
EatOut
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Posted - Sep 18 2008 : 10:54PM
I agree and it's common knowledge - basic pickup chicks 101 - that you look to compliment her on the not so obvious. I think it might be okay to compliment her tits if you word it in a very unique and creative way. Using a witty metaphor or analogy or something poetic is what I mean. That would be different. And then again, if she was an airhead, she might miss the meaning altogether and label you a social recluse who just stepped out into the sunlight for the first time in years. Best to find out if she's got a degree in English and can name two or three authors other than Oprah Winfrey before you try out this technique.
RandomPrecision
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Posted - Sep 18 2008 : 11:54PM
I don't think this is exclusively a bar thing. I've gotten by with flirting in lots of jobs.
I think women (in general) like to be appreciated and flirted with as long as you're not too crude about it. It's kind of an instinct you have to work on and perfect.
You won't get by with it every time. If you're the boss, it's probably always a bad idea but as long as you're on equal footing, you probably don't have much to worry about.
Best advice I can give is to try and stick with friendly women. If they're friendly and pretty open, they probably won't mind if you flirt a little. If they have an attitude, it could go either way but you'll most likely get a negative reaction. I once made some kind of comment when I was talking to a female coworker and the funny thing was, I wasn't even trying to flirt with her. She apparently took it the wrong way and let me have it. Before that, I'd always thought she was pretty nice. Thereafter, I just avoided her. Completely changed my opinion of her and I was glad when she quit.
So you have to be careful. Remember that you have to work with these people and it could be really awkward if it goes badly.
Sorry. I don't have any experience with bars. I guess if you're good looking, you can get laid sometimes if you flirt with the waitresses. If you're not, they would probably just as soon not hear your commentary.
Edited by - randomprecision on 9/18/2008 11:57:15 PM
Gabriella Cuntez
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Posted - Dec 6 2008 : 3:13PM
ah...Random Precision again. You really should watch the clips from this Pickup Artist show, Random. It seems you think about dating stuff a lot, so you'll probably like it.
One thing I've learned from the PUA community is that women who get hit on a lot (like pretty waitresses or other "hired guns") is that they're so accustomed to compliments from men that receiving them from a man automatically puts him at a "lower status" than her. When approaching a woman who gets hit on a lot, a man must establish that he has a "higher value" than all the other men who've approached her.
Gabriella Cuntez
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Posted - Dec 6 2008 : 3:28PM
a trick to picking up "hired guns", or women whose job description includes "being pretty" (like the Hooters girls being referred to in the initial post), is to indirectly demonstrate your higher value. But to do this, you must come into the place with a group of friends and be the alpha among them.
A sample:
http://www.pick-up-artist-forum.com/my-no-fail-hired-gun-free-drink-opener-i-love-vt8782.html
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