just pimp it like you two had never gone out. erase the fact that you dated & then ask her out with dinner & everything. it returns everything back to normal & you gain attraction points too.
Usually it is lingering emotions that still stirs up passion. If that passion is stirred, then you'll be in the sack. However, you will have trouble separating the sex from the emotion. I've done what you want to do twice. Just becareful. It may not be worth it if you have invested a lot of yourself with this woman.
The problem is that this may lead to a messier break-up. Try to push the stuff that attracts her physically to you, work in the idea that you two were great lovers, good friends, but not a good couple.
Well, I broke up w my guy recently, he has not been around for about a month. When I am over somebody I am over them...so I thought. Last night he needed to talk to me about something... I didn't realize he had his hand rubbing his balls under his jeans during most of the talk. Then in this hot mumble of a voice he proceeds to say how big and full they are. A few times. He knows I have a big ball fetish. All the batter in there doesn't hurt either.....So finally he asked me if I wanted to feel them.....And the rest is history. And I really never thought he'd be a sex partner again. But he did the ball talk and got what he wanted and what I needed. I'm pretty verbal, if you say a few choice words to me, it is an easier way to get me going. Him just sitting there for a long time and me knowing he has big balls and all that did nothing, it was his nasty talk that closed the deal. So spontaneously seduce her in your own way! ;).
Lol, update. So we did some oral a few days ago but didnt fuck, she was on the period.
Then other night she calls me for a booty call at 4 in the morning! Damn normally I would be out that door in an instant but 4 in the morning and I had been sleeping since 12! I had to tell her I would call her tommorow.
Oh well, definitely a high chance of getting another one this week.
I usually flirt and let her decide. I've had alot of success with this, but that's because my exs knew I was a slut and don't mind taking advantage of it.
Well here is the thing. At the time we did oral, I did not know she was on the period! It certainly appeared totally clean and yes I gave her oral! Looked totally clean to me. Though I certainly wouldnt have done it had I know she was on the rag at that moment.
Anyways, since I missed her booty call, I figured I would call her up another night..I did but she passed. Playing games as usual, guess she wants it on her terms only! Wtf