Hey all, A little help is appreciated. First of all, what is the purpose of a pump. Like those that the sell in Adam and Eve etc... Is it to make your penis bigger or more of a toy type thing? Also, if it is to make your penis bigger does it work?
Secondly, for the ladies. I always hear, its not the size that matters but how you use it (not personally, but in the various media that I am exposed to). I was just wondering, how do you use it right? I am assuming, that proper usage from a female point of view is not necessarily the same as most guys think it is. So, ladies, what is the best way to make use of what you have? BTW: I know that sounds dumb, I guess I've just been watching too much What Women Want or reading too many reviews about How to Make Love to Women...
A pump is just a toy. It makes your penis bigger for the duration of the erection you have when you use it. It helps if you use a cock ring with it so it stays that big. It is not permanant. Do not overpump as you will cause your penis damage. Blood vessels could burst inside if you do it too much. Could lead to impotence or scar tissue. This scar tissue could make your penis to start bending in strange angles.
If you want to use it to make your penis bigger you would have to keep it pumped and on for an hour everyday. And you will gain in girth. At least that is the belief, I have not tried it.
Actually Ken I hear that the pumps may actually help in the some minor cases of sexual dysfunction in males. Some article I read a long time ago in "Discover Magazine" I think.
Sorry, I dunno much about the pump thing Ken. But as far as "using it right, I don't know how to give you a blow by blow, this is how you have good sex, it's easier maybe to highlight what I would not suggest;
-fast furious pumping with no variations until you cum -lack of foreplay -no communication w/ your partner as to what feels good/ when you're going to cum -don't ingnore what she is telling you w/ body language or sounds she is making, pay attention to what she like's then act on it
It's often times a matter of consideration rather than experience, size or any other thing that makes a great lover.
You would be surprsied how little(pardon the pun) it has to do w/ size.
Hope you find some helpful answers, that you're even asking is a really good sign.
Ken, This isn't a dumb question at all, it's the best one I've seen in a while. And thanks for asking! I agree with Luna, it ain't the meat, it's the motion. Actually, it's more than the motion, it's a lot of different things, but if you just want advice on the motion part, I'll put in my two cents. Since we females don't need to be penetrated to have an orgasm, the ole in & out isn't necessarily the main source of our pleasure. This, and the fact that we only have feeling in about the first three inches of our vagina means alot of it's wasted, anyway. There are some who say that they do indeed prefer a big dick, but many do not. I am one who doesn't - it hurts and it's not necessary. There's nothing that gets me hotter than when he teases me with just the head of his cock, feeling that ridge popping in. then out again. Or, keeping my legs clamped close together, and he sticks it in between and rubs my clit with it. Try this - use a bunch of lube and just sensually rub your puds together without penetrating. This works better if she's shaven, but it'll work either way. Tease her, maybe just slip her a little bit now & then, but pull out right away. Rub her clit with your cock and keep the lube coming. Keep a spritzer bottle of water handy too, keep it wet & slippery, don't worry about the sheets, the wetter the better. When she starts begging you to fuck her, DON'T do it, not yet. Keep teasing her, take it nice and slow. Kiss her neck, her eyes, her mouth, whisper in her ear how hot she is getting you, slip just the head in, but no further. When her fingernails cut into your ass and she starts arching her back like a McDonald's sign, DON'T give in! In fact, back it out and slow it down. When she starts swearing and speaking in foreign tongues like the voice of Satan, use your discretion, but I think you get the idea. Hope this helps. ;)........DB
Birds fall in love here right above my head They make the same kind of sounds you do When we're laying in my bed 100 ways I thought about you and me a hundred ways 100 ways
LOL!!! Well, it sounded like he wanted specifics, so I was just trying to be helpful. Actually, I got a little something out of it myself, but that's besides the point, and I can pretty much guarantee it'll work, whaddya think?
DB: Thats exactly what I was looking for. Great advice. I was figuring there had to be more than just pounding away and of course I'm always looking for ways to improve. Thanks.
