I hope that this isn't redundant, given that there are one or two other posts that address the same issue, and I certainly don't want to annoy anyone by reposting something, but I read those threads and they seemed to be a bit dated (ie, posts from 2002).
First of all, I am looking for couples porn. The good news is that my fiancee and I have watched porn together a few times, but it has always been about half drunk and was in the early stages of our relationship. She has given a good effort to be open minded, but like most women, there are some things that frankly just turn her off. Anal sex/anal play/A2M (especially) is easily the most egregious offender, followed closely by squirting, and crazy positions none of us could ever get into without slipping a disk. She's not a big fan of insane style facials either, but she has been ok with some in the past. Finally, and perhaps oddly, she hates muscle ripped oiled up guys as much as she does awful unattractive ones. Honestly I think she just really wants to see normal looking people having sex as opposed to formula based perceptions of attractiveness. Straight sex, oral (no rimmming), female orgasm (easy on the fake spray downs), and most of the more common positions are all kosher.
So, much like the previous posters in similar threads, I feel like I should seek out some good movies that meet her tastes. Like I said, she's definitely watched porn with me before, but I have never really found anything that turned her on as much as I think it could. She's also very vocal about what she does and doesn't like so I feel like I have a good picture of what to look for.
I read some articles about Victoria Hart and was recommended her movie White Lightning. I read that it was a great movie for beginners, blah blah blah. It has a deep anal scene showcased right in the middle of the movie. Its that kind of stuff that is going to just ruin the experience. On that note, I saw some posters responding with things like "you never know what she might like" and to preempt any of that, we have a pretty open relationship, and we've been together 7 years, so I've got a good idea of what she likes. I watch a fair bit of porn, and on rare occasion find a little clip here or there that is hot and that she would like, but I'd really like to get a whole movie because watching porn on your computer is not terribly romantic. I found this clip and it meets my criteria (yes I know there is a quasi-facial but it is nothing like the eye-goop most porns include). [link removed: No tube sites]
I was also recommended Candida Royalle's movies, but with the failure of the Victoria Hart recommendation, I was cautious. Does anyone have any suggestions? If so, I would really appreciate it. Thanks a lot.